that is a different thread. thats a rant thread... hahah. this thread more for guidance.

Hi guys.. wanna ask if ur baby one month old n few days did encounter few daya nvr poo? My baby currently have this problem n my wife is worried

did you give baby drink formula? if yes, try to give the baby some water ( some doctor did not advise, but my doctor recommend a bit of drinking water (boiled) for baby due to constipation). Reduced the scoop of milk powder by half.

i suggest go see padae.. normally breast feed daily poo

baby not able to tell you.. scared poo hard n baby in pain

morning until night drink breast milk.. midnight drink formula..will try reduce the scoop of milk powder n see

Mine previously daily poo once or twice..before came back my home started constipation n today is 4 days ady

i think at 4 days. the stool sudah impacted. go to the pedeatrician to get a suppository. after a while the stool becomes too hard so the child doesnt want to pass motion as it hurts. the suppository force it out. its going to be painful to watch. but please go to doc as soon as possible it will only get harder and more as the body will keep absorbing moisture out of the stool.

my son had the same issue and still giving us some issue (now 3yrs+) but seems to be getting better. but its always a concern for us.

having difficulty with my son in going to school.. every week sure will throw tantrum and say don't want to go school.. in the morning we sent to my MIL house and from there my mother will pick him up and send to school.. when he don't want to go he will refuse to wear schoool clothes and cry .. he'll even run out of the house in the compound to avoid wearing school clothes... usually everybody gives up and he gets a day off school ..

at first i thought coz he is going to chinese school and we are a English speaking household. though my MIL speaks to him in Mandarin.. thought coz he can't follow lessons but he is not the only one in his class with this background though.. he seems happy when i pick him up in school .. talking about happenings in school.. he doesn't seem to be bullied.. its just that period of getting him to school.. once there he seems ok..

*sigh* rant over

How old is your son? You need to be firm with him.

This "usually everybody gives up and he gets a day off school" he knows will happens when he throws tantrum. That's why he does it.

My 3 yo daughter does that the 1st week of pre-school. Had a chat with her so that she understands she needs to go to school while we work.

We also did a reward system where she gets a heart if she's good the day (no crying, tantrums, etc) for every day for the whole month, she'll get a reward that she likes.

Now she happily goes down from the car with her teacher to school. But she throws a tantrum or cry once a while as she doesn't want to go to school but we didn't give an off day from school. We just drop her her at the pre-school while she's crying so that she knows she will still need to attend school no matter what. This part you have to be very firm and not give in to your son's crying. Anyway, my daughter stops crying after we left and the teachers will take care of her and she'll start playing with her friends.

Actually, kids nowadays are very smart, they pick up things very fast. My daughter speaks Hakka (from my side), Cantonese (from her mom side) and Mandarin (in school) & English (in school and Youtube Kids). BTW I'm English educated and my wife is Chinese educated.

Plan to send her to Chinese school when she's older.

no offense but i think you need to be more strict in your handling of your son. Your MIL or Mother will not be strict, they will spoil your kid, the "kasi je lah" or "its ok lah" is standard for all grandparents. even my son wanna take neices toy they will say "its ok lah. just toy he can take it back" but we are strict. Die die, the kid crying we wont let him take the toy as it is not his. he can play, but cannot take it home.

same my son crying for school. cry however he wants. we will fully dress him and drag him to the car. then after that sudah calm down. sampai school also happy. no matter how fun school is. better to be able to hang out at home. once they learn its not an option unless they are sick or family emergency, then they will of course fight it.

i assume is kindy

my experience is to sent them to school .. is ok for them to cry . .. they can wear house cloth .. after few times.. they will be defeated and go to school ..

just firm and let him know unless he sick else need to go to school

usually around month 2 they wont poop like they do normally. like my baby, usually few times a day. around month 2, one poop every 2 to 3 days.
According to info from googling, its because the rapid growth they have, almost everything they use for growing up, thats why little waste/shit.
then after 1 month or so, they will poop like normal again.

i think plus minus few weeks is normal. ur baby is one month plus? almost 2 months?

hi ,

can i know your partner will keep on vomiting after 3 months pregnancy?

Thank for sharing.

every one is different, u cant be too worried if your partner doesnt follow the majority.
ask any mother that has been pregnant more than once, not just that every person is different, same person different pregnancy also have different symptoms or experience.

usually 1st trimester is bad, second trimester (answering ur question about after 3 months) is usually called the honeymoon period. a lot less morning sickness and other problems.
then last trimester is difficult for the mom as well.

anyway like i said, this is a guideline, your partner might be different.
some people keep vomiting until the whole 9 months. lets hope ur partner is not like that.

my waifu vomit for 9 months. good luck! hahahah. bring plastic bag everywhere.

just wanna ask any fathers here if they share the same experience.

my baby (now 3 months old) has been acting like this ever since i take him out in the car....maybe around a few weeks old i guess.

everytime my car stop, he will start crying. even at the traffic light.
if traffic jam, headache. hahaah.

if long distance drive, sleep soooooo well, not even lorry honking or loud music can wake him, but as soon as i stop the car at R&R, he start to wake up and cry.

so sensitive meh?can know if the car is moving or not. lol

wow pity u both.

imagine all the nutrients she lost.
pity the baby as well.

wow does it mean the baby too active? ya ya now bringing plastic bag everywhere . sometimes, my wife drive in jam then vomit.. pity her.

baby is used to motion because whem mom walks around easy to rock him to bed. at home how you put the kid to sleep? with a rocker? if he always learn to sleep when things moving or always quiet, then susah later.

dont need pity the baby. he came out at 4kg. enough nutrients di.

My wife did not vomit at all.

Yup, my baby is the same. Reason as what hutazi said.

does not really means the baby is active.
it means the hormones are different, hence different perception of the world.

suddenly tastes, smell etc, all perceived differently.

hormones are also to prepare the mother's body for the baby. with the hormones, the mother goes thru changes, these changes can cause the morning sickness as well.