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dark90
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Jun 29 2016, 02:49 PM
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jun 29 2016, 03:41 PM) yeah. can open a TH account for the kid as long as you have an account at TH as well. mine just got RM50 inside. M2U can transfer money to TH account, but not sure about automatically. The cost is RM1 per transaction if im not mistaken. well maybe 1.06 now. You need to register parent and child account at the ATM first. then can use online facility after 2-3 days verification. i wouldnt say that RM20/month will help too much. only about RM4.3k at 18yo (w/o interest). but its better than nothing. can cover some costs or maybe DP for car? or wedding. heh. I am considering moving my sons account to ASB though as the rates are better. went to TH initially just because ASB previously didnt accept babies. or something like that. but now seems they've opened up. Oh wow, right2. how to open account in ASB though? I need to go to banks is it? i tried opening online, doesn't seem to work. Sorry for all these questions as my dad is no longer around and my elder siblings are far. so dont really have sifus to ask about these things.
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panda-man
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Jun 29 2016, 03:16 PM
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Jun 29 2016, 02:49 PM) Oh wow, right2. how to open account in ASB though? I need to go to banks is it? i tried opening online, doesn't seem to work. Sorry for all these questions as my dad is no longer around and my elder siblings are far. so dont really have sifus to ask about these things. no prob. can help where i can. if you are bumi you can open an ASB account easily with a max limit of RM200k. but to my knowledge need to go to the bank to do it as they will give you a passbook. i opened super long time ago when i was only like 12 yo. so dont really remember if can open at all banks or need to specifically go to HQ. but if you are in KL, just go in the morning to the HQ. got free parking and i think they open at like 830am. i went there to replace my lost books. and dont have to wait long at all like 5-10 mins all settle. should be roughly the same. if you are non-bumi then im not entirely sure, there are shares available, but not sure on the process and seems hard to get funds, that one need to ask in the ASB sifu thread in finance section of LYN.
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TSMoonRider
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Jun 29 2016, 03:21 PM
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Jun 29 2016, 02:25 PM) yeah.. i'm looking to carpet the whole room.. how do you manage your child's saving tho? any one of you guys got any system? ASB or Tabung Haji per say.. any advice on son's savings would be helpful. in gold i trust...
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dark90
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Jun 29 2016, 03:22 PM
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QUOTE(panda-man @ Jun 29 2016, 04:16 PM) no prob. can help where i can. if you are bumi you can open an ASB account easily with a max limit of RM200k. but to my knowledge need to go to the bank to do it as they will give you a passbook. i opened super long time ago when i was only like 12 yo. so dont really remember if can open at all banks or need to specifically go to HQ. but if you are in KL, just go in the morning to the HQ. got free parking and i think they open at like 830am. i went there to replace my lost books. and dont have to wait long at all like 5-10 mins all settle. should be roughly the same. if you are non-bumi then im not entirely sure, there are shares available, but not sure on the process and seems hard to get funds, that one need to ask in the ASB sifu thread in finance section of LYN. I am a bumi and in Johor. so should i just walk in Maybank or must be BSN? Must have minimum deposit for first deposit ? Would like to open one for my savings .. huhu.
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panda-man
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Jun 29 2016, 03:27 PM
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Jun 29 2016, 03:22 PM) I am a bumi and in Johor. so should i just walk in Maybank or must be BSN? Must have minimum deposit for first deposit ? Would like to open one for my savings .. huhu. i think can walk in and open an account. so far all maybanks i go to have ASB services. but not sure about opening an account. i think minimum is RM100. you can check out https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/3945526got all the info you need.
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tedrichie
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Jun 30 2016, 10:19 AM
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Jun 29 2016, 01:42 PM) Hi guys, humble husband and father to a son of 8 month reporting in. Just want to say thank you for this thread. a lot of advice for us noob dads. Haha i think many will found this thread helpful bro. Me noob either
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TSMoonRider
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Jun 30 2016, 10:25 AM
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anyone of you going to labor room ? my exp nothing to be afraid yeah..
i been to operating theater for first son ceaser n seconf n third son labor delivery room
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dark90
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Jun 30 2016, 10:31 AM
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jun 30 2016, 11:25 AM) anyone of you going to labor room ? my exp nothing to be afraid yeah.. i been to operating theater for first son ceaser n seconf n third son labor delivery room Not yet, my wife was transferred to the operation room so czar for her.
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panda-man
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Jun 30 2016, 10:36 AM
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jun 30 2016, 10:25 AM) anyone of you going to labor room ? my exp nothing to be afraid yeah.. i been to operating theater for first son ceaser n seconf n third son labor delivery room i went in for elective cesarean. its damn cold in there.
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TSMoonRider
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Jun 30 2016, 12:21 PM
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Jun 30 2016, 10:31 AM) Not yet, my wife was transferred to the operation room so czar for her. ceaser is more faster .. it will takes 30 minutes at most if no complications ..
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Lovemyfamily
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Jul 1 2016, 11:25 AM
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Hi to all. Husband and father to a twins of 7 months checking in here. Thank you TS for creating this thread and thanks everyone for sharing your experience.
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Yveatel
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Jul 1 2016, 11:31 AM
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jun 30 2016, 12:21 PM) ceaser is more faster .. it will takes 30 minutes at most if no complications .. many people prefer natural nowadays.
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TSMoonRider
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Jul 1 2016, 12:07 PM
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QUOTE(Lovemyfamily @ Jul 1 2016, 11:25 AM) Hi to all. Husband and father to a twins of 7 months checking in here. Thank you TS for creating this thread and thanks everyone for sharing your experience.  twins must be very fun ...
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Lovemyfamily
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Jul 2 2016, 11:08 AM
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QUOTE(MoonRider @ Jul 1 2016, 12:07 PM) twins must be very fun ... Yeah, it's really fun. It's sweet to see them smile back when I acted as clown or doing something stupid.  It's fun for me and for babies because I'm their toy as well.
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Lovemyfamily
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Jul 2 2016, 11:13 AM
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QUOTE(dark90 @ Jul 1 2016, 12:09 PM) Twins : Everything times 2. but should still be fun. anyways congrats, not anyone are lucky enough to get twins..  Yup, everything times 2. Challenging in terms of mental and psychological aspects. Plus need to spend and save more $$. My wife cried when Gynae scanned and told us that she's expecting a twins last time. Now after work, drive faster and rush home then hug hug babies, help wife to wash bottles, etc.
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Magpies9
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Jul 3 2016, 06:29 AM
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QUOTE(Lovemyfamily @ Jul 2 2016, 11:13 AM) Yup, everything times 2. Challenging in terms of mental and psychological aspects. Plus need to spend and save more $$. My wife cried when Gynae scanned and told us that she's expecting a twins last time. Now after work, drive faster and rush home then hug hug babies, help wife to wash bottles, etc. Should be quite bz and occupied with twins. Once heard from colleague who got a triplet. Wife have to resign stay home besides hiring 2 maid at 1 go.
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Lovemyfamily
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Jul 4 2016, 01:57 PM
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QUOTE(Magpies9 @ Jul 3 2016, 06:29 AM) Should be quite bz and occupied with twins. Once heard from colleague who got a triplet. Wife have to resign stay home besides hiring 2 maid at 1 go. Yeah, very busy and no more futsal for me. Must rush home to help out or sleep after work so I can 'work' night shift. Currently my wife and parents-in-law are helping to take care of the twins. My wife works 24/7 non stop. Can't image your colleague's triplet how.
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tedrichie
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Jul 4 2016, 06:39 PM
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QUOTE(Lovemyfamily @ Jul 4 2016, 01:57 PM) Yeah, very busy and no more futsal for me. Must rush home to help out or sleep after work so I can 'work' night shift. Currently my wife and parents-in-law are helping to take care of the twins. My wife works 24/7 non stop. Can't image your colleague's triplet how.  Ure so tough to handle cute twins. Cant imagine how to b in the labour room next week. Pray for me bro! Here is my blog: Cara menjaga Bayi Baru Lahir. I love to blog so y not share something that i like and im going to learn! Lucky my brother n sister inlaw are doctors.
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max2k
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Jul 8 2016, 08:18 PM
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Twins here also. How do you guys cope with one sleep while another don't sleep after feeding?
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