ah decrease time of birth make sense

below based on my experience witnessing my wife delivered 3 kids at operation room

1) no drugs or whatsoever in pushing for birth (doc wants to use drugs to decrease the birth time)

depends on situation , if water bag burst, normally dr advise drugs to push the birth as baby will be in danger if too long if wbag burst .. my wife 8 hours delivered after wb burst. probaly always be prepared for operation if needed ...

2) have baby with her straight after birth, (but doc said you are risking life of baby. He said baby needs to be keep warm immediately cause baby might be cold and cause hardship in breathing.)- is it true?

what do you mean straight after birth? normally after delivered ... nurse will slap buntut baby then cry ... after that baby will be put on your wife top near the breast area for 5 minutes .. then tag baby leg and hand with name .. then bring back to nusery .. on/off tekan bell as nurse to bring baby for breast feeding
3) Allow blood from Placenta to fully flows to baby before cut the cord (doc did not agree on this)

there is some people praticing this and depends on dr but for me i opt for stemcell hence cut cord and suck the cord blood to the tabung for stem cell to keep which done by the dr

DOnt sleep with baby...

Dont start, dont try, dont make it a habit...

May I know which hospital?
hahaha, my mum said the same thing... not even in the first month for the convenient of breast feeding?

May I know which hospital?
hahaha, my mum said the same thing... not even in the first month for the convenient of breast feeding?

Congrats buddy~ all the best! Remember to be patient. Your wife will be damn tired and irritable. Don't take mood swings to heart.

hahaha, my mum said the same thing... not even in the first month for the convenient of breast feeding?

There is a high risk of sudden infant death syndrome. So don't even try.

You mean infant die when sleep together??

not 100% but there is a higher chance of suffocation via object covering them or parents rolling over, or pushing them off bed, or hitting them or SIDS. etc and so forth. its not worth it. people say 'get closer to baby' or 'more convenient'. also more convenient for baby to die.

You mean infant die when sleep together??

I see what you mean, thanks

Hi All, would like to know. My wife just went to KK for a check up on her current 3 months pregancy. KK ask her next week come back again for blood test & bring me along to do the test as well.
never heard of this before, is it a new practise?

father of 2.
my daily routine includes:

715am = wake up, prepare kids for kindy
8am =send them and go work
630pm = back from work, bring kids to playground
730pm= wife feed dinner, i bathe them
8pm= watch some tv, while i clean dishes
830pm= wife teach/see to the kids, i clean up the house (vacuum, mop, toys etc)
915pm = i bring one up first to sleep, or else 2 of them will be playing
10pm = one sleeps, my wife brings up the 2nd one. while i do last cleaning up

by the time done with cleaning, some coffee, bathe = 11 -1130pm.
time for some tv shows n go to sleep.

and it repeats ...

wow!! That's quite strict routine you are following there..

lol..or rather..what choice do i have

father of 2.
my daily routine includes:

715am = wake up, prepare kids for kindy
8am =send them and go work
630pm = back from work, bring kids to playground
730pm= wife feed dinner, i bathe them
8pm= watch some tv, while i clean dishes
830pm= wife teach/see to the kids, i clean up the house (vacuum, mop, toys etc)
915pm = i bring one up first to sleep, or else 2 of them will be playing
10pm = one sleeps, my wife brings up the 2nd one. while i do last cleaning up

by the time done with cleaning, some coffee, bathe = 11 -1130pm.
time for some tv shows n go to sleep.

and it repeats ...

Guys, is sex during first few weeks of pregnancy completely safe for the baby (which would be just the size of lentil at that time, before heart is even formed)?

it is safe i guess. most people actually dont know they are pregnant till after those first few weeks passed already . she might experience a bit of bleeding though. but best to avoid it. we didnt even know my wife was expecting till like 4-5 weeks. we were on holiday. snorkeling running around bangkok and phuket ahaha. all ok.