For those who suggest me to find a fubu, hmm. It is kind of exciting and very thrilling at 1st for sure, but when the sex is repetitively, i dunno how i will reacts. Emotional? I dunno. Will i get to attached with the fubu? I also dunno.

I can let go of myself not by having sex with strangers, letting go in the sense of dun think so much about sex, and just be in control of myself.

I know some gals who dun look at sex in a heavy way, meaning they r ok to date this guy and have sex, then few mths later date another guy, and have sex. Very casual kind. Like sex is not a big issue.

If date and have sex may still ok. But some just ONS, i cannot accept ONS. U never know how many gals he slept with b4, or any sexual disease he has. Dangerous.

As for FUBU, i am just thinking will one get addicted to it? I meant, guy A is 1st FUBU, and it is just so exciting and then u find Guy B. Just want to hear more of gal's experience. Some suggest an understanding FUBU? What is an understanding FUBU?

Highly sex person? Is there such thing? I am horny during certain period of time only. N when i watch/saw/heard something, then maybe ham sap lah. I dun think of sex 24 hrs a day. Highly sex, maybe i am.

As for FUBU, i am just thinking will one get addicted to it? I meant, guy A is 1st FUBU, and it is just so exciting and then u find Guy B.

For those who suggest me to find a fubu, hmm. It is kind of exciting and very thrilling at 1st for sure, but when the sex is repetitively, i dunno how i will reacts. Emotional? I dunno. Will i get to attached with the fubu? I also dunno.

U never know how many gals he slept with b4, or any sexual disease he has. Dangerous.

What we mean by understanding FUBU is you gotta be clear that you guys are meeting up to have some "fun" and as well as some moral support for the things that has been bothering your mind. if you ask me FUBU not only have fun, we do sit down and talk abt life and stuffs.
And as suggested by another former.. don't go near anyone who does not want to wear a condom, be safe, shit happens.
What kind of things makes you have the urge. ?

Time of the month will make me have the urge. Anything can also make me have the urge, include during free time.
I am reli controlling not to think so much about it. Sometimes fail.

I will try to handle it.

Sex addiction is a real psychological disorder,

Hi All,

I am unsure whether to post this in Girl's Club or Cupid Corner or Serious Kopitiam, but decided to post it here to get more female's serious opinion.
I have sexual urge, i dunno whether it is in normal or high sex drive.

The thing that is bothering me is, i do not know how to release it in a healthy way. I meant since i am small, my religion, background, and surrounding ppl certainly despised ppl who engaged in ONS, or to cincai sleep with any guy. N i do not have a bf. I do not want to find a bf just for sex.

I actually quite in awe of some of my frens who can know some guys, after some time, sleep together. N then move on, and know another guy again, and sleep again, and move on after that. For me, our culture dun encourage such open relationship.

My question is, I need help and advise, on how to control these sexual urge?
I know some will suggest masturbation, i tried b4, but I dun reli enjoy it. I want a guy, but deep down, i know i don't want to with just any guy, because after doing it, i'll cry and look down on myself.

So, i want to read other's female's opinion on how to control own's sexual urge when one is single.
Serious opinion/advise, no troll please.

I sense trollers from /k inkambing...

Sorry to jump into your topic but i hardly read/knew girl masturbate also. It will be a discovery and i believe is not a taboo thing if it is taken into considerstion

thank you all for all the suggestions and comment. It has been some time that i dun think of these urge issue, and i dun even think of sex/masturbating because i am busy.

I find that my urge is only when i am very free and nothing better to do. When i am occupied with work/with frens, i dun even think about this urge.

Some forumers mentioned their female frens masturbate 3 to 4 times a day, it is quite a lot. No work to do? Lol.