Are you masturbating the correct way?

I would say go out and get an understanding fubu, but since you mentioned that is out of the options, then the only way is to settle it yourself. Either that or do other things to keep your mind of your urges, but it'll only probably come back stronger after that.

If you are easily affect by emotions and form emotional bonds easily (you seem like one), then it's gonna be difficult to be in a casual sex relationship with someone else. Yes, some casual relationships turn into 1-sided romantic ones, hence why I said an understanding partner is required. A casual relationship ain't simple, there are rules that you two will have to come up with and follow closely. It's hard to say what's the norm and what's not. To some, having sex daily is a norm, and to others, the norm is that sex is only for reproduction. Normal is different to everyone when it comes to sex.

Yes, societal's image of a girl is pure/innocent/virgin, everyone around you makes you think that you should be like that. That is how you should live your life. A girl is not suppose to have high sexual desires, a girl is not suppose to initiate such things, blah blah.. Well, we are only humans and sex is natural. It's just how you yourself can find the preferred way to handle your urges. Who cares about what the society thinks? There's no right or wrong when it comes to such things.

Of course there are risks of STDs and pregnancies when it comes to sex. We do take precautions when engaging in any form of sex, as no matter what, you will expose yourself to such risks. So if you wish to not do so, then just settle with masturbating/meditation and keeping your mind off sex.

I don't really wanna go into details but maybe you can google about masturbating and see if you are doing all you can with your masturbation techniques.

This is kinda true. We as humans will crave variety. If it has been with the same person for years, sometimes we get curious. And that will again depend on how good our self control is if we are in a relationship. Some will even go into swinging or open relationship if both partners can come to a solution for that undying urge.

We can try to keep things spicy in the bedroom but for some, that'll never be enough.

But TS not yet reach there yet. Wait till she has a bf and has been sleeping with him for years first. For guys it may be a year or two to get bored, but not for all girls. There were definitely temptations but I was definitely still not bored even after >5 years.

You probably have not met enough girls or no girls around you are comfortable enough to share such things with you.

She can't. She can get emotionally attached to others easily. Which isn't ideal for people who engage in FUBU relationships.

I agree that a fubu will be the best way. In my first reply to this thread also I mentioned that ideally, she can find an understanding fubu.

I do hope things work out for her soon.

It depends on your lifestyle. Some may meet their ONS/FUBU at a club, some may meet them online. But whatever it is, one would usually chat, flirt and meet up with them before engaging in any sexual activities. There's always a risk that he could be very dangerous lol. As mentioned before, always use condoms to prevent STDs, some cannot be prevented with a condom but YOLO, everything we do has risks.

I think you should get some experience then set some rules for yourself. Like say maybe you won't do ONS or you won't sleep with married men, etc. Find out what you like and don't like, what is acceptable to you and what's not.

When you learn to separate sex and your emotions, sex is just enjoyable for that moment. The urges are released, satisfied. And actually when the time comes for sex with a loved one, it's different, it's passionate and loving and also satisfactory when feelings and emotions are involved.

Understanding fubu as in both are on the same page, and knows what your thoughts are about sex currently. Some fubus are just there to have sex then leave, some willing to be good listeners and advicors. You don't want one who would treat you like a sex toy, you would want one who knows that you are also a person with feelings and emotions. You most likely won't be with one fubu forever, unless you get married to him. It's more like a period of exploring and just having fun. One day you would meet the right guy who will make you his wife. Till then, just go and enjoy yourself.

/ktards are reminded that they are not in /k.

Warnings/bora tickets will be given out.

Get some sex toys maybe?

Well I guess it depends what really gets you off. Some are satisfied with just clitoral stimulation, some need more.

Get a few toys, I'm sure you know where to get there reliably by now. Try them out and see what you like.