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 Urge, WTA (serious)

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post Mar 3 2016, 02:45 PM

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QUOTE(careyluv @ Jan 25 2016, 03:53 AM)
Hi All,

I am unsure whether to post this in Girl's Club or Cupid Corner or Serious Kopitiam, but decided to post it here to get more female's serious opinion.
I have sexual urge, i dunno whether it is in normal or high sex drive.

The thing that is bothering me is, i do not know how to release it in a healthy way. I meant since i am small, my religion, background, and surrounding ppl certainly despised ppl who engaged in ONS, or to cincai sleep with any guy. N i do not have a bf. I do not want to find a bf just for sex.

I actually quite in awe of some of my frens who can know some guys, after some time, sleep together. N then move on, and know another guy again, and sleep again, and move on after that. For me, our culture dun encourage such open relationship.

My question is, I need help and advise, on how to control these sexual urge?
I know some will suggest masturbation, i tried b4, but I dun reli enjoy it. I want a guy, but deep down, i know i don't want to with just any guy, because after doing it, i'll cry and look down on myself.

So, i want to read other's female's opinion on how to control own's sexual urge when one is single.
Serious opinion/advise, no troll please.
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best advise I can give is to find the right guy. And to remind yourself that you still have some value of dignity.
As for the urges, if you dont like it, but its the only way to settle it temporarily. Masturbation.

Just be creative bout it. Once you have your first orgasm, those urges should subside.
Its the only solution if you still want to maintain some semblance of dignity.
If you dont want to do it that way, theres plenty of river to throw out those babies later on, and new abortion clinic keeps opening up all the time.

Good Luck controlling your urges.
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post Mar 3 2016, 02:47 PM

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one more advice that always works for me:

try to do something tiring but beneficial once u get these urges i.e. cooking, cleaning, running, working out.

once u get distracted and tired, the urges will disappear.

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