Recently, a fren of mind encounter a problem. She and her bf decided to get married by next yr, so they have been having sex a few times d but my fren does not really enjoy it. She feel uncomfortable and she said its painful for her bcoz of it.

So, she's been giving excuses and tried to avoid from having sex coz even after she told him the problem, he still insist. Now her bf did not push my fren anymore, but he also did not tok to her. Did not touch her anymore, not even hold her hand!!! he basically just ignore my fren. Not just ignore, he totally pretend as if she's not there!!!! FYI, they're living together and both parents also know about their relationship and the suppose to be coming soon marriage(i dont really know if marriage will take place anymore anot) so their relationship is very very much a serious 1.

haiz....i did not know how i can comfort my fren but i personally disgusted at that guy. I wanna ask my fren to dump him straight out but then i just dun wan push my own opinion on her. Pls give ur opinion on this so i can tell my fren about it.

@madstone,

oh my god yourself. stop living in a fantasy world. you need to grow up yourself if you believe sex is not important. what kind of misconception have you been living under all these years? SEX IS IMPORTANT! love is about so much more than JUST SEX. I totally agree. but Sex is an important part of a relationship. otherwise, the relationship will be called platonic, which doesn't really exist in a genuine boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. even your father and mother are in a non-platonic relationship that involve sexual contact. Malaysian people like you really need a wake up call and a reality check.

as I said before and I will say it again, there is absolutely no reason for anyone to avoid sex  FOR THREE YEARS if the relationship is healthy and passionate. exactly what is so wrong about sex that you have to avoid it in such a manner in a relationship? nobody it putting a pre-existing condition on relationship and love but if a person repeatedly, incessantly, vehemently refuse sex for such a long period of time, any person who has a normal desire for sex, be it a girl or a guy, will start to ask question. exactly what is so wrong with sex? is there something wrong with me? is there something wrong with you?

Sigh....sanook and still with his attitude..