you are so ignorant. unless you can back that up with proper research data, what you said is bullshit and motivated more by personal prejudices than actual fact. go away, kid!

@madstone,

oh my god yourself. stop living in a fantasy world. you need to grow up yourself if you believe sex is not important. what kind of misconception have you been living under all these years? SEX IS IMPORTANT! love is about so much more than JUST SEX. I totally agree. but Sex is an important part of a relationship. otherwise, the relationship will be called platonic, which doesn't really exist in a genuine boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. even your father and mother are in a non-platonic relationship that involve sexual contact. Malaysian people like you really need a wake up call and a reality check.

as I said before and I will say it again, there is absolutely no reason for anyone to avoid sex  FOR THREE YEARS if the relationship is healthy and passionate. exactly what is so wrong about sex that you have to avoid it in such a manner in a relationship? nobody it putting a pre-existing condition on relationship and love but if a person repeatedly, incessantly, vehemently refuse sex for such a long period of time, any person who has a normal desire for sex, be it a girl or a guy, will start to ask question. exactly what is so wrong with sex? is there something wrong with me? is there something wrong with you?

i strongly believe it is her decision, as long as she doesn't get pregnant and be regret of it.
--> safe sex!

let say when you buy a car, do you wanna test drive it?  what happen if he/she cannot really perform?  :-)

you are starting to sound like an overprotective conservative parent.