Yes it can. We chat during the day and called every night, even talk about future planning

Does that talk about the future includes you ghosting her suddenly?

All this "talk" digitally carries very little weight for many and there's little to no responsibility to either party that you can just suddenly disappear without any explanation. A real relationship would require more tact than that. Sure there's plenty of people who's in a real life psychical relationship that ghost their other half as well, but it's significantly harder to pull of than say, a digital "relationship" right? Just look at you, no remorse whatsoever as if your 6mths "relationship" doesn't matter more than dog poop on the road side.

This post has been edited by Cmyong88: Jan 26 2021, 11:40 AM

thats penpal.
a real relationship consists of touch, sex and communication.

youre purely immature, dont lead girls on if youre not intended for LTR

he has deeper trauma to solve.
Lead himself in right direction

eventually both of you will run out of things to say because lack of togetherness.
Women may want to feel angry, but they never want to feel bored.

It is not up to either of you to decide what constitutes a romantic relationship, since various ones have various priorities.
You can think that it wouldn't be a long-lasting one since they've never met in person nor consummated the relationship, but I don't think you can say that it isn't one.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jan 26 2021, 12:53 PM

I felt regret too, after a month, i was looking at the screenshot of a video call, i was thinking what happen if i look for her now and apologise, can i rectify? I had this kind of thoughts.

I did admit is my fault for ghosting out on her but if it weren’t for the mco and restrictions, i would’ve definitely meet her physically.

there are asexual or demisexual guys out there.
but i think its pretty rare (unless the guy is a complete beta, which affects his testosterone level)

Oh. This explains everything about you.

there's nothing wrong with sexuality. Depends how one expresses it.

You're right.. Who am I to judge.. My apologies


What's stopping you from engaging with her again?

That was not what my comment meant.

Exactly. Your example harms no one. So glad you get it.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jan 26 2021, 02:37 PM

Plan to focus in my career first. If not i will lost focus

Good for you. But bare in mind, life doesn't wait for anyone. The sooner you learn to juggle every part of life at the same time (career, friends, love, own self, pets etc), the sooner you can start living your life. Otherwise, you'll find yourself always working on something and not living.

Focus on right relationship will give you more focus on other aspect

Mco got extended again... haven't seen my gf since 12th January. Argh being back to long distance fukin sucks

I haven't seen my gf since a year ago. Talk about long distance.

I live more than 30km from my gf and because of the mco/cmco, I have had to endure months and months of not being able to meet up with her. We talk on phone every night, but I miss taking her out on dates. This feels like a LDR even though we live in the same city.

I want our country to get this pandemic under control, and I agree that we should have MCO to maintain social distancing and prevent huge gatherings in public places. I just don’t see the effectiveness of banning inter district travel. We both work in same company and our company is not the type to give letter without valid reason.

Anyone else going through the same situation as us? Just ranting bcoz I’m feeling kind of burned out from all this.

See you want take risk or not. For me I can inter-district since MCO start and I always waze to bypass road block.

I at Subang and my GF at Setapak. no problem go her house and she also no problem come my house.