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post Jan 15 2015, 01:33 AM, updated 3y ago

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THE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP FELLOWSHIP THREAD V13
TO SHARE IN OUR EXPERIENCES AND HELP EACH OTHER
V1 V2 V3 V4 V5 V6 V7 V8 V9 V10 V11 V12
FOUNDER : mandysu

What Every Person in a Long Distance Relationship Should Know
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Many people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken.
Nobody says it is going to be easy — the extra distance makes many things unachieveable. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. However, the extra distance also makes the simplest things the sweetest, being able to hold the other person’s hand, eating together at the same table, feeling each other’s touch, taking a walk together, smelling each other’s hair… these small wishes could suddenly mean so much more in a long distance relationship.

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This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jan 11 2018, 03:30 AM
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post Jan 10 2018, 09:15 AM

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post Jan 10 2018, 11:19 AM

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post Jan 10 2018, 04:14 PM

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LDR sucks sad.gif
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post Jan 10 2018, 08:44 PM

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Mandy hasn't logged in since 3 years ago and lots of the old timers don't hang out here anymore.

I guess only 3 of us including kenzie are still here.
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post Jan 10 2018, 10:03 PM

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sad.gif . Going through one?
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post Jan 11 2018, 03:31 AM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Jan 10 2018, 08:44 PM)
Mandy hasn't logged in since 3 years ago and lots of the old timers don't hang out here anymore.

I guess only 3 of us including kenzie are still here.
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I hardly come on LYN anyway. I used to be very active in CC, but now I just maintain information threads and check in every so often.

I used to have you on Skype. Do you use any sort of chat program? Discord maybe? It'd be nice to keep in touch smile.gif
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post Jan 11 2018, 02:01 PM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jan 11 2018, 03:31 AM)
I hardly come on LYN anyway. I used to be very active in CC, but now I just maintain information threads and check in every so often.

I used to have you on Skype. Do you use any sort of chat program? Discord maybe? It'd be nice to keep in touch smile.gif
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I switch job and the company doesn't allow skype. Whatsapp can? I don't have discord.
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post Jan 12 2018, 02:08 AM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Jan 11 2018, 08:06 PM)
I switch job and the company doesn't allow skype. Whatsapp can? I don't have discord.
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Discord has a phone app and there is an LYN server on it smile.gif
Whatsapp is a bit personal, don't you think? exchanging phone numbers?

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Penang & KL considered long or short ?
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QUOTE(genjo @ Jan 12 2018, 08:37 AM)
Penang & KL considered long or short ?
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To me, any distance where it is inconvenient to go to your SO's place on short notice is far enough to be considered LDR. 1 hour? 1.5 hours? 2 hours? Far enough that any emergency means you can't reach in time - to me, that's far enough.
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jan 12 2018, 02:08 AM)
Discord has a phone app and there is an LYN server on it smile.gif
Whatsapp is a bit personal, don't you think? exchanging phone numbers?
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lyn discord? is it from /k channel wan?

QUOTE(genjo @ Jan 12 2018, 08:37 AM)
Penang & KL considered long or short ?
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i'm currently in that distance with my partner, PEN - KL.
to me it's considered long distance because meeting each other daily or whenever you need it immediately is not exactly possible although it's not impossible..haha!

wondernoob describe it quite accurately smile.gif
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it was a 6 years of relationship (first love). 3 sdr + 3 ldr. on june 2017, she dumped me.
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Things will get better!

QUOTE(Lynixx @ Jan 12 2018, 08:15 AM)
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All the best! This thread is here for you smile.gif

QUOTE(justnits @ Jan 12 2018, 02:03 PM)
lyn discord? is it from /k channel wan?
i'm currently in that distance with my partner, PEN - KL.
to me it's considered long distance because meeting each other daily or whenever you need it immediately is not exactly possible although it's not impossible..haha!

wondernoob describe it quite accurately smile.gif
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Hope you both are going strong smile.gif
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QUOTE(wondernoob @ Jan 12 2018, 10:24 AM)
To me, any distance where it is inconvenient to go to your SO's place on short notice is far enough to be considered LDR. 1 hour? 1.5 hours? 2 hours? Far enough that any emergency means you can't reach in time - to me, that's far enough.
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In a relationship where it involves a minimum of 16 hours flight just to see each other, 1~3 hours car drive? I WILL BE JUMPING IN PURE JOY!
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Jan 12 2018, 02:08 AM)
Discord has a phone app and there is an LYN server on it smile.gif
Whatsapp is a bit personal, don't you think? exchanging phone numbers?
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Not really to me considering we've known each other for like 10 years here? Even though we never met before. I'm ok with that actually.

How do I join discord?
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post Jan 13 2018, 01:42 AM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Jan 12 2018, 07:42 PM)
Not really to me considering we've known each other for like 10 years here? Even though we never met before. I'm ok with that actually.

How do I join discord?
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omg now that you put it that way, we HAVE known each other for 10 years lol. I have ken_zie on FB, are you on FB?

https://discord.gg/ph7hTsN

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QUOTE(justnits @ Jan 12 2018, 02:03 PM)
lyn discord? is it from /k channel wan?
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