Someone pls enlighten me as to how this constitute as a relationship???

Come on... By now you guys should've know for a fact that how a person communicates digitally could, and most likely, will be very different from how they communicate in person. I'd give some leeway if it's FaceTime or video chat but texting, like pen pal in the olden days, is grossly out of touch with reality. If you have already meet and started the relationship prior to it going into LDR, that's OK! That's LDR! But if you text a random stranger for 6 mths, a relationship it is not! Maybe my take on the term "relationship" is different than most? Is it me?



Fill loneliness, boredom, these reason does not make those texting with someone you've never met a "relationship" right? I'm talking about boy girl relationship not friendship.

Just my 2 cents!

Does that talk about the future includes you ghosting her suddenly?

All this "talk" digitally carries very little weight for many and there's little to no responsibility to either party that you can just suddenly disappear without any explanation. A real relationship would require more tact than that. Sure there's plenty of people who's in a real life psychical relationship that ghost their other half as well, but it's significantly harder to pull of than say, a digital "relationship" right? Just look at you, no remorse whatsoever as if your 6mths "relationship" doesn't matter more than dog poop on the road side.

This post has been edited by Cmyong88: Jan 26 2021, 11:40 AM

You're right.. Who am I to judge.. My apologies


What's stopping you from engaging with her again?

Good for you. But bare in mind, life doesn't wait for anyone. The sooner you learn to juggle every part of life at the same time (career, friends, love, own self, pets etc), the sooner you can start living your life. Otherwise, you'll find yourself always working on something and not living.