Many people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriously, in case you get your heart broken.
Nobody says it is going to be easy — the extra distance makes many things unachieveable. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. However, the extra distance also makes the simplest things the sweetest, being able to hold the other person’s hand, eating together at the same table, feeling each other’s touch, taking a walk together, smelling each other’s hair… these small wishes could suddenly mean so much more in a long distance relationship.

Mandy hasn't logged in since 3 years ago and lots of the old timers don't hang out here anymore.

I guess only 3 of us including kenzie are still here.

I switch job and the company doesn't allow skype. Whatsapp can? I don't have discord.

Not really to me considering we've known each other for like 10 years here? Even though we never met before. I'm ok with that actually.

How do I join discord?

lyn discord? is it from /k channel wan?

Are singles allowed here?

Time does fly...without realize how fast it flies, it has been 3 years since my last LDR...

It's weird that we virtually known each other for so many years but never meet or speak to each other. The power of technology.

Yeah.. when I looked back only then I realise how long it was. Time flies.

LDR for one year, met only once a year.

This is my first time in a relationship. They say couples usually plan the future together, buy house together, 2 years then marry..etc. But no.. we have been together for 6 years and have never planned any of this before. Sometimes I doubt my own relationship.. haha..

HI!~ not LDR, but happy to say hi here :3

as we all know, in every ldr, one person will have to make the move once you take the rship into marriage.

for those of you who have to make the big move, what's the biggest hurdle for you?
and how do you overcome them?

I got some information from one of her rl friend which i cant 100% confirm if its legit or not and found out that alot of things my "ex-gf"  told me were actually lies. I actually get kinda mad and hurt. But I've been thinking for awhile, and decided to tell her that lets get back to be just normal friend, i hope thats the best course of action and probably i would feel better and get over it sooner.

Hello spunk long time no see haha

I see. Nowadays I barely have time for discord.

But still, I hope that everyone is doing well. I can see that you are doing well ^^ Still got cook fry rice?

Nice, still remember how you told me about cooking and advised me

and the cats still plotting something?

There's no benchmark on this, but contacting every hour seems a bit excessive.

reporting in since my first serious relationship since August 2017.

proposed for marriage but there's a lot of uncertainties and doubts growing within my gf/fiancee as we're both very different individuals and my financial status is not at a comfortable level to most girls and definitely not to her as she's financially much stronger than i am.

i definitely want to pull through this even though it is very difficult.

as justnits mentioned on the previous version, 168km is actually quite short, but at the same time, every weekend traveling has definitely put some strain to my already weak financial capabilities.

So there is such a place here?

Hi everyone, I am in LDR since December 2016. I studied in Malaysia and she was my junior, still studying there until now. I graduated July 2016, continued to find job in Malaysia, but it isn't easy being a foreigner looking for job there. Summore, my visa was terminated after I finish my studies. So I always do visa run every month and give reasons to the immigresen every time.

I eventually came back to Indonesia and found a job, I even moved to the capital city (which makes our distance even further), but still going strong until now. For now, I just plan to keep working and ask to be transferred to the KL office so I can get back there. Looking at circumstances now, I am pretty sure she don't want to move to Indonesia. I still prefer Malaysia, too. LOL.

EDIT: BTW, going back to KL next weekend and will be there for a week! So happy, we last met on January this year. It has been almost 4 months.

I still see some old members here when I was in LDR 7 years back. wow you all area really persistent.