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post May 30 2015, 01:06 PM

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QUOTE(seiferalmercy @ May 29 2015, 11:49 PM)
salamualaikum my brothers and sisters,

REQUEST FOR YOUR DUA

Im going through a very difficult time with my job cry.gif

I find the problem totally out of my control

Only a miracle from Allah can save me

I have made taubah, and dhikir and and dua these past few days to get Allah's help

even cried and falling into depression

Ive suffered occasional headache, I suspect that my blood pressure shot up

please make Dua for me, Im at the point of mental breakdown cry.gif

I have a few more days until a special meeting at my company to decide my fate
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Insha allah everything ll be ok ..

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post May 31 2015, 01:48 AM

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dear brothers

hmm idk if i can ask here in this thread. i am having a difficult time atm. i would love it if i can hear some input from you all. better if there is first hand experience frm anyone here.

question: what do u say on love after marriage?

by any chance can i say that you canot run away if or not the jodoh remains till jannah? can i say it is no different whether you know or love your partner before/after nikah?

is it a good decision to getting to know your so called other half after nikah? tbh, idk what to expect out of this arrangment besides that i think i needed a leader and a bff. idk what he's like. idk whether we're going to click. idk if he likes what i like. idk if he can tahan w my antics and the other way round. basically u can say i dont have the slightest idea what this person is going to be like besides that he dont skip his prayer that so i heard. does that suffice?

although i admit, i rather do love after marriage should there be someone who is in the same ship as i am and i been telling this to fellow friends, i never think it really happens. guess this is not an easy business and ive got panicked attacks whenever i think abt this now. rclxub.gif

i have yet go with istikharah. actually idk how to do it. i am still reading on the net but i dont understand it so am going to ask a friend how she did it and how the guide from Allah will come. im really worried with myself cos i have been so comfortable going solo for whole life. and being a fickle minded person, i am afraid if i would call off this arrangement when everything's ready.

fyi, i have yet to meet the fella. will do soon maybe.
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post May 31 2015, 06:45 AM

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QUOTE(edvey @ May 31 2015, 01:48 AM)
dear brothers

hmm idk if i can ask here in this thread. i am having a difficult time atm. i would love it if i can hear some input from you all. better if there is first hand experience frm anyone here.

question: what do u say on love after marriage?

by any chance can i say that you canot run away if or not the jodoh remains till jannah? can i say it is no different whether you know or love your partner before/after nikah?

is it a good decision to getting to know your so called other half after nikah? tbh, idk what to expect out of this arrangment besides that i think i needed a leader and a bff. idk what he's like. idk whether we're going to click. idk if he likes what i like. idk if he can tahan w my antics and the other way round. basically u can say i dont have the slightest idea what this person is going to be like besides that he dont skip his prayer that so i heard. does that suffice?

although i admit, i rather do love after marriage should there be someone who is in the same ship as i am and i been telling this to fellow friends, i never think it really happens. guess this is not an easy business and ive got panicked attacks whenever i think abt this now.  rclxub.gif

i have yet go with istikharah. actually idk how to do it. i am still reading on the net but i dont understand it so am going to ask a friend how she did it and how the guide from Allah will come. im really worried with myself cos i have been so comfortable going solo for whole life. and being a fickle minded person, i am afraid if i would call off this arrangement when everything's ready.

fyi, i have yet to meet the fella. will do soon maybe.
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when it come to istikharah, most of people forgot or did not know that they had to istikharah, along with istisyarah.

ask people that know ur husband to be, about his behaviour, background, strength, weakness, inside out. how he managed himself, financially, physically, mentally, interests. it is strongly recommended to do both, even by scholars.

of course istikharah is directly asked from Allah, but istisyarah also encouraged as part of our effort to manage and get the best out of our blessed marriage.

but my question is, does the marriage has been confirmed before u guys met? or yet to be confirmed?

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post Jun 1 2015, 03:44 PM

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nisfu syaaban tonight.
a reminder that ramadhan is just around the corner.


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post Jun 2 2015, 07:21 PM

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@seiferalmercy

I suggest donate some of your money, but with sincerity.

It can be a small amount, as long as you are sincere.

As you are donating the money, ask Allah for forgiveness and his help for you to find a way out of your problem.

Insya Allah.

This post has been edited by darium: Jun 2 2015, 07:23 PM
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post Jun 4 2015, 05:16 PM

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"English is a Germanic language formed by a fusion of Old English and Norse. If you want to talk about religion or science or law or medicine you must use Latinate words (from French or Latin) and a smattering of Greek. English is basically a skinny barely functional body of Germanic (bones, basic organs and muscles) with a huge overgrowth and brain of Latin and Greek words, more than trebling it in size. Sort of like a massive genius head crab perched on a hillbilly."

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post Jun 4 2015, 05:19 PM

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QUOTE(edvey @ May 31 2015, 01:48 AM)
dear brothers

hmm idk if i can ask here in this thread. i am having a difficult time atm. i would love it if i can hear some input from you all. better if there is first hand experience frm anyone here.

question: what do u say on love after marriage?

by any chance can i say that you canot run away if or not the jodoh remains till jannah? can i say it is no different whether you know or love your partner before/after nikah?

is it a good decision to getting to know your so called other half after nikah? tbh, idk what to expect out of this arrangment besides that i think i needed a leader and a bff. idk what he's like. idk whether we're going to click. idk if he likes what i like. idk if he can tahan w my antics and the other way round. basically u can say i dont have the slightest idea what this person is going to be like besides that he dont skip his prayer that so i heard. does that suffice?

although i admit, i rather do love after marriage should there be someone who is in the same ship as i am and i been telling this to fellow friends, i never think it really happens. guess this is not an easy business and ive got panicked attacks whenever i think abt this now.  rclxub.gif

i have yet go with istikharah. actually idk how to do it. i am still reading on the net but i dont understand it so am going to ask a friend how she did it and how the guide from Allah will come. im really worried with myself cos i have been so comfortable going solo for whole life. and being a fickle minded person, i am afraid if i would call off this arrangement when everything's ready.

fyi, i have yet to meet the fella. will do soon maybe.
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Besides love (and lust obviously) what helps maintain longevity is definitely friendship. Obviously there's a different level of friendship between sposes and between friends.
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post Jun 5 2015, 03:14 PM

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Just want to double check:

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Did our beloved Rasulullah S.A.W. ever said as per image? I don't think it is as critical as other issues, but just want to know.

This post has been edited by gr8fr8: Jun 5 2015, 03:15 PM
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post Jun 5 2015, 03:22 PM

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QUOTE(gr8fr8 @ Jun 5 2015, 03:14 PM)
Just want to double check:

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Did our beloved Rasulullah S.A.W. ever said as per image? I don't think it is as critical as other issues, but just want to know.
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Hadith from where?
If there is no reference then be cautious.
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post Jun 7 2015, 07:57 PM

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since ramadhan is coming i wonder any of you guys know any Islamic app?prefer for android? hmm.gif


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post Jun 8 2015, 10:24 AM

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Assalamualaikum.
Lets do Dhuha...
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post Jun 8 2015, 12:17 PM

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Ramadhan is coming, yer whippers snappers ....

A lil' reminders fer yer young'uns what's Ramadhan is all 'bout ...

Aiman Azlan (feat. Anwar Hadi)



Anwar Hadi (feat. Aiman Azlan)

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post Jun 8 2015, 03:59 PM

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QUOTE(Hunther @ May 23 2015, 05:15 PM)
Kyai Haji Abdurrahman Wahid, ex-President of Indonesia and ex-Chairman of largest Muslim organisation in the world had an interesting say on apostasy:
"In examining the issue of blasphemy and apostasy laws, it is thus vital that we differentiate between the Qur’an – from which much of the raw material for producing Islamic law is derived – and the law itself. For while its revelatory inspiration is divine, Islamic law is man-made and thus subject to human interpretation and revision.
For example, punishment for apostasy is merely the legacy of historical circumstances and political calculations stretching back to the early days of Islam, when apostasy generally coincided with desertion from the Caliph’s army and/or rejection of his authority, and thus constituted treason or rebellion. The embedding (i.e., codification) of harsh punishments for apostasy into Islamic law must be recognized as an historical and political by-product of these circumstances framed in accordance with human calculations and expediency, rather than assuming that Islam, and shari’a, must forever dictate punishment for changing one’s religion."

What are your thought on this? smile.gif
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Logically I would agree. As long as the ones who left or converted can keep to themselves rather than create a fuss or mount an attack on Islam. After all, there is no compulsion in Islam. But that's me.
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post Jun 8 2015, 07:52 PM

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SIAPA YANG SUKA TIDUR LEPAS SUBUH TOLONG BACA, MESTI BACA!

siapa yang suka tidur lepas subuh tolong baca .. dan siapa suka tidur lepas subuh then bangon nak solat dhuha pon tolong baca .. sentap n muhasabah sesamer .. takde ruginya..in shaa Allah..
Tidur lepas subuh, bagi pandangan orang soleh.

Sedikit perkongsian. Sebelum ini, aku sempat berjumpa dengan seorang soleh.
Hatinya itu terlekatnya ilmu basyirah yg tinggi iaitu ilmu firasat yg sangat kuat. Jadi sesiapa yg dekat dengannya, hati-hati. Apa yang terlintas di hati dan fikiran, pastikan niatkan perkara yang baik.
Aku perbetulkan niat, adab aku, tingkah laku bila tiap kali berdepan dengan beliau ini.


Diberi peluang, aku terus bertanya.
“ustaz, macam mana nak buat supaya tak tidur lepas subuh?”
Dia menjawabkan,
“tak pernah wujud istilah tidur lepas subuh”.

Ohhh, “jadi ustaz, ape hukum tidur lepas subuh?
“Kau nak aku jawab dalam mazhab kau atau mazhab aku? Dia mengatakan lagi.
Aku bisik dalam hati “ada byk mazhab ke dia ni?”.

Jangan kau nak menyatakan perkara yg kau tak boleh sorokkan dengan aku.
“Astaghfirullah, dia membaca lintasan hati aku…”
“maaf ustaz”.
Aku cakap dekat dia,

“dua dua mazhab lah ustaz”.
Dia kata, kalau dengan cara hidup kau, cara amalan kau, mazhab kau, kau teruskanlah tidur lepas subuh dan jadilah kau seperti anjing mati.
Aku nak menangis.

“Tapi kalau dalam mazhab aku, cara aku, amalan yang aku tau, orang yang macam ini dia jatuh KUFUR!”
Aku senyap.
“kenapa ustaz?”

Dia menjawab, orang yang macam ini SOMBONG dengan Allah. Dia berlagak depan Allah!. Dia menolak pemberian Allah! Bagaimana dia boleh tidur sedangkan Allah itu menurunkan rezekinya, rahmatnya setiap pagi selepas terbit fajar, tapi dia boleh tidur. Umpama mcm kalau kau seorang yang jutawan,

bawa duit yang berjuta-juta berjumpa dengan seorang miskin papa kedana setiap hari. Tetapi apa yang dilakukan oleh fakir tadi kepada kau? Dia tidur dan tak mempedulikan langsung duit kau sedangkan dia miskin. Jadi ape yg ada pada fikiran kau? Mesti kau akan kata “dia ni dah lah miskin nak mampus, sombong pulak tu”.
Aku tersentak.
Dia berkata lagi

“orang yang tidur lepas subuh dan lepas itu bangun, ada hati lagi nak Dhuha, Allahuakbar. Orang macam ini lagi tak malu depan Allah. Tadi dia tolak pemberian Allah. Sekarang mahu tarik semula rezeki dan rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya manusia itu jahil. Sepatutnya orang ini perlu bertaubat dulu sebelum nak solat dhuha”.
Allahuakbar.

Bila duduk dengan orang yang setiap masa takutkan Allah, baru sedar macam mana amalan kita selama ni. Betapa hinanya fikiran aku selama ini. Jauh beza nak banding amalan kita yang tak tau Allah terima ke tak. Tapi hidup setiap hari macam tak rasa banyak dosa. Allahhh…

Kita ni banyak dosa, bukan setakat banyak dosa bahkan bermandikan dosa.
Dia kata lagi
“orang yang riak kalau bertaubat Allah ampunkan. Kalau orang yang sombong apa kau rasa Allah nak ampunkan sedangkan itu adalah sifat iblis?
Allahuakbar.

Aku tanya tentang tidur lepas subuh je dah rasa macam nak ke neraka. Belum tanya hal lain lagi.
Dia kata lagi
“ramai orang muda kata perlu tidur lepas subuh sebab tak cukup tidur malam tadi sebab main futsal lah, jalan-jalan dan apa kau tak pernah fikir siang dan malam itu adalah sunnatullah?”

“Allah dah kata dalam Al-Quran, siang aku jadikan untuk kau bekerja, malam untuk kau berehat. Kalau sunnatullah kau ubah ikut kepala otak kau sendiri, sebab itulah hidup kau tunggang langgang.
Kau siapa? Nak ubah sunnatullah?

“Allahuakbar, jauhnya beza pemikiran kita dengan orang yang takut dengan Allah. Orang yang dekat dengan Allah. Hidup memang kena pandu Al-Quran dan hadis. Tapi, carilah orang yang boleh memperjelaskan lagi apa yang ada dalam Al-Quran dan hadis itu. Janganlah asyik meminta dalil dari orang itu orang ini dan memproses dengan kepala sendiri. Ada orang bawa Al-Quran ke hulu ke hilir.

Tak salah, tapi carilah panduannya dengan baik supaya tak tersalah tafsir hukum ikut nafsu.
Sentap beb,,rase macam potong bawang halus2,,tapi benar setelah aku mula sedar fakirnya aku jika aku tidur lpas subuh,,lantaran itu aku mula sedar dan tidak tidur lepas subuh,,ku baca surah al waqiah dan solat dhuha setiap hari,,dan ku rasakan rezeki ku melimpah limpah smpai aku rasekan,,,ya allah!!!!!Murahnya rezeki MU jika ku tidak tidur lepas subuh..


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QUOTE(hafiez @ Jun 8 2015, 07:52 PM)
Kesimpulannya, tidaklah terdapat sebrang halangan utk tidur selepas subuh. Cuma sunnah yang sebenarnya adlaah tidak tidur tetapi memanfaatkan waktu tersebut dgn amalan2 seperti zikir dan seumpamanya. Begitu juga tidur slps asar. Walaupun begitu tidur ptg mmg terbukti boleh membuatkan kita lemah tapi tidaklah sampai gila. apa yang penting, kata2 di atas tidak boleh dikatakan hadis drpd Rasulullah saw. memadailah sebagai petua biasa utk tidak melemahkan badan. WA

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Da'wah bil hikmah, reading the harsh words ustad above explaining gave me cancer. Taking nap after fajr due to sleepiness after waking up for tahajjud is permissible, wallahua'lam smile.gif
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QUOTE(yuusuke-kun @ Jun 9 2015, 09:55 AM)
Kesimpulannya, tidaklah terdapat sebrang halangan utk tidur selepas subuh. Cuma sunnah yang sebenarnya adlaah tidak tidur tetapi memanfaatkan waktu tersebut dgn amalan2 seperti zikir dan seumpamanya. Begitu juga tidur slps asar. Walaupun begitu tidur ptg mmg terbukti boleh membuatkan kita lemah tapi tidaklah sampai gila. apa yang penting, kata2 di atas tidak boleh dikatakan hadis drpd Rasulullah saw. memadailah sebagai petua biasa utk tidak melemahkan badan. WA

Source

Da'wah bil hikmah, reading the harsh words ustad above explaining gave me cancer. Taking nap after fajr due to sleepiness after waking up for tahajjud is permissible, wallahua'lam smile.gif
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Yeah i thought the same too

But i put that aside. Thinking that maybe he witnessed many new age muslim love to sleep after subuh instead of doing something else that are useful but complain not enough this and that.
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post Jun 9 2015, 03:14 PM

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QUOTE(yuusuke-kun @ Jun 9 2015, 09:55 AM)
Da'wah bil hikmah, reading the harsh words ustad above explaining gave me cancer. Taking nap after fajr due to sleepiness after waking up for tahajjud is permissible, wallahua'lam smile.gif
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mgkn lenggok bahasa dia gitu.
maka kita yg dengar, kena la lapang dada.


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QUOTE(yuusuke-kun @ Jun 9 2015, 09:55 AM)
Da'wah bil hikmah, reading the harsh words ustad above explaining gave me cancer. Taking nap after fajr due to sleepiness after waking up for tahajjud is permissible, wallahua'lam smile.gif
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Whats so harsh? Perumpamaan dia guna semua dalam al-Quran. Allah yg kata sebegitu, dia hanya menyampaikan. Wallahualam.
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QUOTE(meazurali89 @ Jun 7 2015, 07:57 PM)
since ramadhan is coming i wonder any of you guys know any Islamic app?prefer for android? hmm.gif
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What kind of islamic app? Android got Quran for android.
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post Jun 9 2015, 10:38 PM

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QUOTE(xpole @ Jun 9 2015, 09:32 PM)
What kind of islamic app? Android got Quran for android.
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em..a calendar that show usual calander and muslim calander?

an app that can recite the muqaddam and Quran like a mp3 player for song?



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