dear brothers

hmm idk if i can ask here in this thread. i am having a difficult time atm. i would love it if i can hear some input from you all. better if there is first hand experience frm anyone here.

question: what do u say on love after marriage?

by any chance can i say that you canot run away if or not the jodoh remains till jannah? can i say it is no different whether you know or love your partner before/after nikah?

is it a good decision to getting to know your so called other half after nikah? tbh, idk what to expect out of this arrangment besides that i think i needed a leader and a bff. idk what he's like. idk whether we're going to click. idk if he likes what i like. idk if he can tahan w my antics and the other way round. basically u can say i dont have the slightest idea what this person is going to be like besides that he dont skip his prayer that so i heard. does that suffice?

although i admit, i rather do love after marriage should there be someone who is in the same ship as i am and i been telling this to fellow friends, i never think it really happens. guess this is not an easy business and ive got panicked attacks whenever i think abt this now.

i have yet go with istikharah. actually idk how to do it. i am still reading on the net but i dont understand it so am going to ask a friend how she did it and how the guide from Allah will come. im really worried with myself cos i have been so comfortable going solo for whole life. and being a fickle minded person, i am afraid if i would call off this arrangement when everything's ready.

fyi, i have yet to meet the fella. will do soon maybe.

ade ke bahan bacaan tentang pembahagian harta. or any website/ book i can read particularly discussing on local practises?

ie. i and brother plan to join name to buy
a house for investment. if he's married n he dies, need some input the do's and dont's.

id like to do some light reading. just nak ada idea how things work.
google not helping much tho
tq

ic tq
kursus faraid ni sesiapa je boleh pergi ke?
macam mane u join? sorry i noob, interested to go kalau open for public.

need to pay one?
i googled n got jakim punye kursus last held in 2007
mungkin akan cuba walk in nearest pejabat agama n ask
tq for your input!

kelas kursus under jakim?
ade info kursus macam ni around jb tak?

bab faraid mmg jarang ade ceramah dekat masjid kalau ade pun mungkin too general, my mom cakap.

as a daughter and wife to be, kena ade good knowledge on the rights like basic thing kalau wife beli rumah lepas kahwin atas nama sendiri pun already declare harta sepercanrian kan, no?

hope k bros boleh share lagi kalau ade input
tq

n pasal husband bagi cincin tu (or bagi anything) kena mintak dia konfirm ke ape barang tu ialah hadiah?