The intention is good.

Please follow through. Marriage isn't easy.

Your friend should also increase his knowledge in Islam at the same time.

This post has been edited by darium: Nov 14 2014, 09:42 PM

What is your age?.

You can ask your parents to look for your spouse if you find it hard to do it yourself. I'm sure they know people who know other people who may
be the right spouse for you.

If you have been through a bad relationship or a relationship that didn't work out, have faith.

Allah gives us what we need, not what we want.

Have faith in Allah.

Getting married isn't easy. Staying married isn't easy either.

I'll share my own story.

I've been married for 11 years now and have 3 kids, 2 girls and 1 boy.

When I got married, my salary was only about RM1,300 after deduction of EPF.

At that time I was 29. I'm 40 this year. Both my wife and myself have been through 1 relationship with another person each
and both didn't work out respectively before we met each other.

When I got married I was working in the government sector and now I'm in the private sector with a higher salary after
changing jobs 3 times within 10 years. I was given Forced Separation Scheme back to back in my last 2 jobs.

Forced not Voluntary. Both the companies closed down after not making a profit, in 2008 and 2012.

You get to know your spouse and appreciate their sincerity when you go through a hard time in your life.
For me, my wife stood by me when I lost 2 jobs back to back.

Don't have the image in your head that you see in movies or tv about couples living happily ever after every single day
once they are married.

There will be good times and there will be hard times.

As a husband I would say, you have to give and take and yet at the same time be firm.

For those getting married or about to get married, marriage is a work in progress.
You work on it everyday.

For those not yet married, stay positive. Insya Allah there is someone for you.



This post has been edited by darium: Mar 4 2015, 04:14 PM

I've been married 10 years. I got married at 30 so I'm 40 this year.

Alhamdullilah, I would say life is good. We complement each other.

Marriage has ups and downs. Yes we do disagree over big and small things.

We also discuss how best to solve a problem together.

Work hard.

Have patience.

Give and take.

Trust and ask Allah, after putting in your own sincere effort.

http://www.halal.gov.my/v3/index.php/ms/si...yang-diluluskan

@seiferalmercy

I suggest donate some of your money, but with sincerity.

It can be a small amount, as long as you are sincere.

As you are donating the money, ask Allah for forgiveness and his help for you to find a way out of your problem.

Insya Allah.

This post has been edited by darium: Jun 2 2015, 07:23 PM

https://islamqa.info/en/147198

I've to disagree.

1.)A bank is a business. All business have to make a profit.

2.)You are free to choose which bank to apply a loan.

https://ringgitplus.com/en/home-loan/islamic/

Notice that the interest rate @ profit rate is different.

Some also allow early settlement with no penalty.Some have a lock in period.



Depends on how you think.

Profit - > Bank -> Workers salary and also Tax and Zakat

Zakat will help the poor.