In malaysia, most of the girl here still not that open lar. Cannot expect much on them, so for guy like us just have to be more initiative lor.

haha. true true but when some girls open minded, some people will judge them by saying they're cheap or desperate

normal lor for malaysian.. think too much and they scared of wat others think about them too much

live your life free dont let paranoia stops you !

Player spotted

I'm actually a humongous pansy

I can't do it, but so far all the guys I've liked - have liked me back. So I kinda wait around for them to make the first move.

if this happen,i will think the girl is so straight until will scared me.

but i will like her too as she has a brave to show wat she is thinking.

but anyway,i don think she is my gf as we met in so short time.

I'll be happy if a girl approaches me and say she likes me. It will save a lot of time and effort for me at least.

How I wish I would get approached.

wah, u lucky gal! why sometimes the guys i like dun like me

aiyah juz try la =) u nvr know if u don't try..if fail than regret later

those ppl are just jealous cause they cant have the feel of it

its always lovely to be admired by someone

If possible make the boy interested in you, tempt him, seduce him, give hints but don't comfess straight up. Leave a little enigma. I'm ashamed to acknowledge that guys are egoistic *as*ards. If you give yourself fully to him, he will not appreciate you as much. Let him think that you two hooking up is HIS idea.

If not possible, the guy don't have even the slightest interest, then approach and confess lor. Nothing to lose now anyway.

Agreed. What if the guy didnt notice you and you like him alot. He maybe your ideal partner. If you dont make a move, getting to know each other as fren you will never have him at all. Personally, I have been approached by girls, and I dont find it wrong because there's nothing wrong to pursue the one you like. Society is moving fast, you will let go the opportunities go if you dont act.

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Added on December 30, 2007, 12:46 amit depends whether the guy you like is a barbarian. lol, normally I would not have the time to gossip, let alone mention to my frens. Tiny matter like this also want to talk? only girl does it, not guys and definitely not me.

This post has been edited by Vv.SoViEt.vV: Dec 30 2007, 12:46 AM

Guys always approach me so I never really had the chance to approach them.

lanci ar???

if a girl i know were to approach me...damn ill be the luckiest dude alive!

I wont approach him. Not that daring but I will try my best to get his attention unless I'm poorly dressed but I'd still give it a shot.

This post has been edited by WiNdGa|: Jan 2 2008, 02:45 AM

a bit agree n disagree wif u, i agree in the point that u really have to try hard on someone u really like

i disagree on the point that the guy didnt get the girl hint, if the guy like the girl, no need hint oso the guy will pikat the girl... as long as the girl already tried to approach the guy is enuf..

will try to approach him, hehe....
everything starts from frens.
i m the one who approached my bf at 1st, used some reasons to help him
finally he asked me to b his gf~

experienced something similar like this. there's a girl who I think likes me and always give me her homemade cooking for my lunch. unfortunately after I switch jobs I've lost contact with her after my handphone got stolen.