i don't understand why guys can confess to girls and ask them out and then be called brave and yet when a girl confesses, she's cheap. wth is wrong with this society? god taught us to love with all our heart. if a girl likes a guy and decides to take the move, isn't she doing the right thing? when a girl confesses, the guy becomes so egoitic (does such a word exist?) and then spreads to the whole world how cheap and slutty she was.. sorry if i offended anyone.. just something i would like to voice out

Do you know the meaning of "rest ur right hand"? Thinking big? not really, i do think a lot, but mainly analysing the different perspective of a situation. It is fun to be able to see the same picture and comes out with thousands of story from it. That is how i grow instead of sticking my head inside the A$$ like so many did in the Religious country.

woh... i didn't know u don like religions... same here... to me, religions were created for political reasons benefitting it's creator and supporters...

Nah, i like lots of religion, except I disagree with a few that i know of, due to the abuse that was bought into it and the way it is practiced after. I pity the one who first started the religion, as i am sure if he ever know how his successor continue his work... he will still feel intense amount of heat even hell is freezing.

i don think he's in hell though... tat is if his religion is genuine and not created for political reasons... i think the angels are trying to cool him down in heaven...

hate those politicians who use religions to pull vote points...

agree... politicians shouldnt be allowed to use religions as a mean of getting more votes...

normally u approach a guy, the guy sure will scare u 1

same thing when guy approach me i will freak out and run away as fast as i can

You both can revive a thread that has been isolated for more than a year.

yeah I approach guys I like...and mom fainted out of shock. *sigh* society's views always outweigh our own.

i will depend lo
hahaha

i make frens out side more than schools/uni .

so girl/guys approach me wouldnt freak me out

normal case

gals, what century is it now? ur love is on ur hands.. wats wrong with asking a guy out? u will get to know each better.. and if he scare of u then means u and him will got no chance and fast fast stop the feeling without guessing here and there... right?

actually i'm also very interested in this topic. i read and hear from alot places, saying that if you like somebody, make sure u let him noe. watever happens, at least u already done wat u should do n have no regrets. i asked alot male frens bout this question too. they say they will welcome it if a girl confess to them. not only that, they will enjoy it too. they also admire the girl. but for me, as a girl, i nv try it before. and i don't really accept the fact that me confessing to a guy i like. if i don confess to him, at least i can still be close to him as a fren. maybe i'll hint. if i confess and he rejects, i don think i will have the face to see him anymore. the situation will be very uneasy. but i really admire those who have the courage to do it.... someday i hope i have the courage too....

Well, i certainly believe that if you want to let somebody know that you like them, you should tell them.

I, on the other hand, have experienced being approached by girls saying that they like me (which many of my friends think is a bold move) the old fashion way and also...in some weird circumstances. However, did i get together with them just on the basis of their approach? Nope. Some of them were strangers whom i don't know all that well (admirers from a distance).

I suppose its just a matter of prospective. Some guys will feel a sudden ego boost (which is usually the case) and some will talk it out with the girl, which i think should be the right move or else you'd be breaking the poor girl's heart and effort summoning up the courage to express her feelings. In the end, whatever the outcome is, take it with a pinch of salt. Not everyone will just say 'yes' blindly (assuming the bloke is a despo or a player).

Oh, and if a girl admits she likes you when she's drunk/high, just forget about what she said. She'll most likely not remember she said that and feel bloody embarrassed about it. I had a girl calling me all the way from Singapore during my exams telling me that. Funny.

depends on fell also. There are numerous gal that confess or give signal to me. But i told them i m not ready. Got a gal ask me to be her bf, another 1 ask me whether i got gf or not in front bunch of friends during dinner outing. I was like then. Dunno what to answer. Also numerous gal that give signal like asking me to call them, but i just ignore them....NOW I REGRET DI.

This post has been edited by Singh_Kalan: Nov 16 2007, 02:42 PM

dont tell directly la...
give some clear hint like always find him go date with him ....
tell direct not a wise move!!!! if n only if the guy in love wit u then can la

nv done this b4. but if i like a guy, i will do it. why not? i only live once. if he turned me down, we can still b friends. if he gossips with his friends about it, even better.... i dun have to waste my time on such a barbarian

who bump the 1 year old thread?
I read read read then something sound familiar which is my post.

i don't approach the guy i like.
i'm somehow a little weird
i'll only fall in love to those who confess to me.
of course i'll fall in love to some other guys too but i'll never dare to tell them that i love them.
the only way is that I'll try my best to contact him and get to know him longer, sooner when he has feelings 2 me only i'll tell him i love him too.