Questions to the girls :
1) Will it be scary if a guy that you are intrested come and confess saying " I likes you, can you be my gf" and you are not really know that guy although he is your classmate for 2 years.

2) What kind of reaction, feeling , other ( please say) when a guy come and confess to you saying something, EG: "I likes you or intrested in you" but he didnt ask for relationship, and he wants to know you more or i should say he want to ask you out after saying those word.. And will it be the diffrent if you like or dont like the guy?? Get what i mean??

Questions to the guys:

1) Usually which way did you use in pikat girls?? :-
(a) Know her more by chatting with her not tips given my her or your friends.
(b) You know she got feeling towards you, and you got feeling on her, confess terus..
2) Before confess, did you think that is the girl is suitable to you?? Or just confess cause you are likes her thats all..

I m looking forward to those answer..

question 1
of coz i try my best to chat
question 1b and 2 , unable to answer , never confess be4

i did 1a and b...
q2 leh... not so important... cuz we never know tat until we spend lots of time together...

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Oct 25 2006, 10:53 AM

Most guy including me don't accept girls that approach us.
I admit that the feeling of being approached is Good but U won't accept that girl !!
(** I notice that most of the girls approach the guy one, normally recognise/know the guy not more than 3 months, just my opinion, don't spam me)
But, I think if approach indirectly, there is still chance of sucees. Treat him good, just wait & see.

This post has been edited by Irresistible: Oct 27 2006, 01:13 PM

i know i will but depend on situation lar... now won cuz got d...

Is the reason that you do not accept is that you feel bad that the girls is doing your job?

I m with you man.. Ahah.. Not the girl really approach me, is like she is giving me signal then that time i got abit abit of feeling.. Once i know, i confess terus .. Hahaha.. Kind of DESPERATE though, and know what.. Break UP less than 3 month..

So what i think is, if a girl approach to a guy first.. I think the guy will automaticly confess and wont last long.. Desperate huh??

well.. thats wat i think too
if a girl approach me.. IF haha a big IF... well.. i might say.. lets give us together a chance and know each other better to see whether compatible anot then only go to the next stage
i didnt get girls approach me b4 so i dont know haha

I wont do that cause if get reject will be vry "pai se".....
If the guy loves/likes u sure he will tell u no need gurl to go approach.

nt all guys face also thick 1 leh...

So, do you mean that girls should just stay as a comel little kitty and wait for someone to approach them? And that their feelings should be hidden and be useless?

Approaching someone you have feeling for is not "DESPERATE", at least not always the case. More modern woman particularly the younger generation are equipted with education at the university level, grow up in/with a more open-minded family/parents, surrounded by easy access resources and more.

We learn that, if you want something, you have to go after it. Waiting = time-wasting, also, we learn to express our feeling more. All-in-all, female has always been more expressive than male.

If you think that a woman approach you is due to desperation, you must feel happy that you could now rest your right hands, as one finally come forward to stroke your long buried ego.

that quote 'rest ur right hand" sound so kewl dude..yeah it did justify male in a more subtle way..i think u must be alwys thinking big..would like to hear more from this topic..

Like I said, I don't mind girl approach guys indirectly la.

A girl call me by phone said : " she love me."
I try to avoid her & told her I can not be her boyfriend. Then, she spread rumours that I m "chase after" her, show all my friends the sms I give to her.

U know la, all those sms say like "I like u" with cute pics. It make so embarrased bcause all the college know about us & tought I m after her. Even some of the guys don't recognized me stand up & give me a seat to sit with her when I m in a bus. Maybe think we r couple.

After she got boyfriend, she still call & sms me all those stuff....

Just recently, she accused me tht I flirt with her to my first girlfriend. My first love is destroyed by her... (don't know can consider 1st love or not, just watch movie together, not even hold hand).

Anyway, she hate me. I hate her now...

Whetner accept or not is personal preference. But, I do admire the braveness of a girl to approach a guy!!
U can tell him directly : " u love him" but don't use tactics to get him.

I apologise if I wrote something offended some of u.

This post has been edited by Irresistible: Oct 29 2006, 12:59 AM

its not only girls la... i've experienced the boys the ones who accused me go after them. BUT that was when we were in high school. i've not met such thing in college. cant help it but to say the girl is real childish if she really did that.

I'm agree what u said, but......i prefer be a hidden kitten, maybe indirect way to let him know...

XD i experience those during my primary years haha after that no more liao
even spread until my class teacher

fully agreed... i wouldn't mind my gf pounding me for missing me 2 much...
If the guys reject u tat means they 2 much "da nan ren pi qi" or ego... those guys are not worth ur tears...

who wants to talk to me?

well IF you find someone that u think is really the ONE, i think that who approach who is not a problem. if a girl ask a boy out, she's cheap? what about the guy who asks girls out? man whore? no sexual discrimination lar. its common for anyone to ask anyone out nowadays.......

yeap... well said... memang nothing wrong... some ppl are juz 2 uptight...