QUOTE(jeans_owner @ Jan 10 2008, 04:48 PM)
I do confess to a guy b4....ofcoz he turned me down...so if u ask me how i feel now, i would say is a mixture of regret+relieve
relieve as in...some times u just have to do something once in your life time then u would have no regret...honestly speaking, in year 2008 i am already 22 years old and i dun have any bf before...even when i meet up with my secondary school friends, they cant stand me and keep asking when am i going to get a bf....and they are the ppl who encourage me to confess....but they didnt know i actually do it.
honestly, my self-esteem is super low and becoz of tat, i try to cover it out, so ppl though i am confident and ego....when that guy turn me down, he though i will be conpletely fine but he never know he destroy that little bit of ego that's left...this is why i regret becoz seems like i bring this to myself
so now i am of no hope to myself as i try very best to convinced myself not to like any one...becoz expectation comes along with disappointment. so girls, maybe i am too pesimistic, unless u r really confident that he likes u but he is just super super shy, never ever try to confess....
can I be your bf? fufufufu just joking.
well I think you've made a right thing by confessing to this guy eventhough he turn you down. I guess the feel of relieve is much greater than regret. think about it, if you don't confess and the guy gets a gf before you confess the regret would be much greater. at least now you know how he feels about you.
so instead of just regretting about what have you done, just try your best to recover from it. It may take some time but it's better than not recover at all.
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Apply to girls too lah nowadays....some girls loves to cheat and lie too sweat.gif
Yup this is also applies for girls. I've been cheated by girls a couple of times. the latter one is the worst coz the girl is a total playgirl, maybe a slut also eventhough she look like a total innocent girl. But hell, it didn't stop me from trying to find a suitable girl for me.