just approach before you regret.

i hope some1 will really approch to me and tell me tat she love me ~.. lol..
last time kena once but tat time i got gf liao so decline zor..

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?
I don't dare myself, I let someone else dare me and then I'll do it. I'm shy but daring hahaha

2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls share and give me some ideas... tongue.gif
If there's chemistry, I'll give like signs.
Like replying his msges AT 3AM!! Ask him out (my treat)..
and well.. put him as a top friend on MYSPACE..
if i want to be friends, i'll talk about other guys with him.. then he'll get the picture

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...
Sometimes.
Especially when the guy is so damn hot la right.
OR he has like royal blood and stuff..
And when he has hotter female friends than me....

well....i do approach guy tat i lik...
to me...if u never do anything...then u never progress...
but of coz i will try to be his fren 1st...
u hav to b confident with urself....
guy do lik gal with confident...it's lik some attraction to them...

how to hint them? eemm..it depends whether tat guys is a stranger or ur fren noe tat guy...
it happen to me..a guy who is my tuition mate...i wrote a letter to him tellin him i lik him...he kinda of ok with it...v start being fren after tat...

now i'm workin...i lik a guy in my office...i start to join his gang for lunch...in order to get chance to talk to him....slowly v becum fren...chat in msn...did giv him lots of hint...n guy senses it too...
sometimes i do think tat i'm not suitable for some guy...a bit look down on myself..but i tell myself..he may not b perfect oso..so i take the chance to giv a try...
it works...the guy in return oso lik me..i'm lik..whoa...never dream bout it..

lol. there's others who look much better than me.

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Added on January 25, 2008, 8:55 pmlol. may be.

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Added on January 25, 2008, 8:57 pmWOW. congrats. i don't think i'll b that daring. never thought that i'll do that. haha.

This post has been edited by michelle980: Jan 25 2008, 08:57 PM

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Added on January 25, 2008, 8:57 pm
WOW. congrats. i don't think i'll b that daring. never thought that i'll do that. haha.

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hav confident with urself...
at first u may not get used...once there is ppl look at u...
u fell good...n u really feel different..

oh my gosh... ok, here's the story, I've liked this guy since i was.. TEN. (i'm turning 15 this year) and he's had only one girlfriend in his entire life <my 1st heartbreak> and just last year, he and the same girl got back together <2nd heartbreak> but all the times, it's the other girl's fault for their break-ups. I gave him a bit of time to recover from his break up before i decided that i would confess to him how i feel.

It was Malaysian merdeka day, (my break up anniversary <yes, i had a small relationship with one of my good friends>) and i just looked the guy in the eye and said

"hey, u remember the guy i was telling u about?"

he said "yea, the one you were telling me about? the one you like?"

"yea, that one.. u wanna know who it is?"

"You wanna tell me, then go ahead, but if you don't then it's ok"

"umm... he's... you"

turns out, he likes someone else.. he started liking another girl just ONE WEEK before i told him.. So girls, if you like someone, JUST TELL HIM!

u r brave gal....
at least u tell..n din hold back...
at least u know he's not interested....n u can move on with ur life...
brave gal lik us..dun waste time on guy who dun appreciate us...
go search n look for guys together...haha....go go go..
yeah.....

erm..nope....

hard to have confident in myself lar.
haihz. see how ler.
my ex owiz compare me with his gf and he said i look much better than them. but i don't think so. =( don't know why i've no confident at all and such

Lol, can!! we go "window shopping" together even the guy say "At least you brave enough to tell me" lol then after that, i was a stuttering mess

...what kinda hints? =)

em...

wat if i approach... n the guy say ntg bout it...
end up, he being with me first because i wanting it...
but he dont love me at first...

i felt like forcing him to love me...
but things change from no love to love...
is wat he said... dunno how to he feel when being wth someone he don't really have feeling ----> have feeling....

any comment?

i think it's better to hint the guy rather than approach him directly...
normally if u give out hint for few times the guy wil realize it... if he din do anything it might bcoz he dun love u, that's y he jz act like nth happen b4...
giving up after that is quite gd bcoz u ady did wat u can, n yet nth changes... wat u can do is give up only, if not wat else u wanna do..? those kinda so called scary ppl wil do whateva to get a person they want, but think from another angle, if u give up n leave with ur "zhun yan" is always better lo...
that's what i think la...at least u'll leave dat guy a nice image...^^

i walk to his place..everyday to chat before i go home..

i try to sit in front of him whenever v hav lunch together so tat he can take a good look at me (with other colls oso)
always giv him a wink/smile whenver i pass by his place...

purposely pass by the pantry when i noe tat he went in there for coffee...(so if u bump into a gal everytime u go pentry..it;s not coincidence)

try to get interested in the DSLR cameras since he's very into it..then can ask him quest...create chance to converse with him..

ask for his msn...so tat i can chat with him at home...

create chance tat v can go out yam cha...

if u r the guys can u sense it??

Awww.. that's so sad

hmm.. for me, i never bother to approach the guy that i like. because so far i have no crushes. all the while it's the guys that want to be my friend. but anyway i'm having guyphobia since i got 2 guys keep on calling my office just because they want me to be their gf. sigh ... i'm kinda tired so i'm now very low profile.

hey you dont sound like youre 15 wtf

nowadays kids r so mature...
even kindergarden kids oso hav bf/gf....

Haha... It's ok... Both of u could have talked longer if it's not for "BLACKIE". hAIZ...

O... and i dun approach the guy that i like... It's just scary... Dun even talk to them.
FORMICA MIEL!!!

This post has been edited by Peichen: Jan 31 2008, 05:40 PM