sob sob no girl approach me before

and u think ur d only one?

I also no girl approach me

Don't worry friend, you're not alone. Me either

conviencing each other ?
dont mind convience me too ....
i also on the same ship

My Perspective, feel free to use:

1. Yes and No

Yes - If i know that he is single
No - He is not single and is my friend/ best friend's boyfriend

(U can find out from asking around, use your info gathering skill)

2. NEVER NEVER NEVER tell a guy that you like him, even though that you really really do and that u get chill everytime u see him. Being friend with someone is easy if your mind is clear, if you cant keep your mind clear, then do this:

Find a right time and make use of relevant topic and start a conversation, following is an example of a situation:

Take note: Right time = Anytime

You saw that the guy u like is lining up for movie ticket, find a way to get behind him (there are many ways, but you would have to figure it out yourself), you saw that on his jacket it has a logo saying "westcoast chopper", then start a conversation by commenting on that, "wow.. i dont even know a single ppl in malaysia know of this club <point on the logo on his jacket>" or "ohh.. i am a fan of the New York Yankee as well as u saw he wear a NY Cap" If he response with awareness of the club/team, then you are screw (only if u know nothing of them), but if you are calm then u are not (answer vaguely but mean it, the first question he asked related to the club or team) and then.... this is when changing topic is smart, move on to "which movie are you watching?" "ohh really... i will be watching that movie too" "are u here with friends?" "ohh.... me too... all my friends are busy (even they have put you in charge of getting the ticket for the movie you all agree to watch)" if he responses... "would u like to watch together?" then... you did it... u open the door to first step... also.. this way you could know that this guy is gentleman as he offers to watch it with you instead of you asking if he wanted to watch with you since that u both are alone. Meaning... this guy worth your time persuing further...

3. Dont judge yourself, everyone come to this world with a unique gift, U have to look at your goodness instead of the badness to boost your self-esteem up. The best thing to do in the begining of any relationship is to keep thing simple, dont judge yourself, and dont judge the other, think positive and most importantly... BE YOURSELF ...

Formula:

Be friends + Know each other + if that is what you want + go further more!!!

*waiting for a girl to approach me*

u sounded like a pro...

my respect to u

Well I wasn't talking about you in particular, but if you want, you can join that group. Like kianwee said, why so upset? I didn't single you out, did I?

Well, you two might just take note that I didn't say "ALL the guys from KL..." I'm much older than the two of you (you sound very young indeed,) and I have to say thats why I don't have a very good opinion of you touchy youngsters in KL.

Think a lot of yourself, do you? I know I don't. Otherwise I'd not have told you people about the first girl, would I?

And what about listening to the older generation when they give advice based on experience? Or do you two think you're wise enough to ignore it?

My grandmother used to say, like the blind leading the blind. Don't just listen to people you agree with, keep an open mind to those you don't.

Anyway, you people do what you like. After all, you can lead a horse to the water, but you can't make him drink.

Hey thanks, i take it as compliment

If u like a guy, but u dun wan to tell him dat u liked him......
Will u do such thing as telling him both of u are best friend??
If not, what stuff do u gals will do other than those told by Gametaipan??


p/s: Gametaipan, u have a nice article for many ppl's reference.

This post has been edited by evilhomura89: Oct 20 2006, 09:29 AM

u're welcome

what would u do?

in my opinion... take time to understand the guy and see if he is ego or not... if not then feel free to approach him(and give him some signs )... i see some guys so kesian no gals approach them... if all gals do as gametaipan say then guys like sinister will be very kesian lor...

if wanna judge ppl leh... judge urself 1st... if not leh... don judge at all like gametaipan said...

but her formula is a good formula... great result 2...

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Oct 20 2006, 05:47 PM

i juz study watever i see and produce my opinion and juz sharing... we are not as obsevant as u experienced ppl ma... so "zhao zhui" a bit nvm lar... and i not from KL...
Older generation might have more experience than younger ppl... but ur exp still limited to wat u exp... not wat others exp... me leh... i try my best to harnest all ur exp...
i nvr agree wif ppl blindly 1... i don follow trends either...

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Oct 20 2006, 05:56 PM

Hmm.... i could come to a point where i said nothing and my best friend would know what i want or what i am going to say.... if you think u have already achieved that connection with this guy, then call him your best friend as it is true and u mean it and it's not fake. If this guy dont have much feeling for you yet, he would probabily think lesser of you. In addition to that.... why would u want to tell him u both are best friend anyway? First that will stop u and him from being more than best friend.... he might has misundestood you that u just want to be best friend. You need to re-evaluate your true goal here!

Show him that u care without saying it. Well.. i am not asking u to touch him, if he happens to be sick, then bring him an anime (get bleach) and watch with him (reason i said that most guy like anime, if you know any other thing that he likes, try your best to get it for him (not sex, most guy like), so while u both have fun watching Ichigo doing bankai... take a peak in his eyes.... you will see warmth in it.... his heart start to have a little chill too.....

Other thing.... just remember u can do anything.... but find relevance in it as it give u the opportunity to continue the plot naturally.

The reason as not to tell someone u like him right off or not too long after u know someone is to avoid freaking the other person out... then u might lose your chance of presuing further.... i had regreted doing it b4, as it freaked myself out too....

This post has been edited by Gametaipan: Oct 20 2006, 06:25 PM

Why kesian? And thanks, hope it helps.

nice tips...!!!

some guys are quite shy ma... and gals need to make the 1st move in tat case... so... u know lar...
haha... tat formula already in my head a few years ago... a general conclusion to all the relationship stories, problems and solutions i watched and read...

This post has been edited by t3chn0m4nc3r: Oct 23 2006, 08:45 PM

for me,i think it depends on how the girls thinks about it..
coz you see,i think in both ways,some girls might think that the guys are suppose to approach them first. but for some girls, they will make the first move coz it's they are brave enuf to do so...
overall lah,in my opinion, i will approach the guy to be his friend first and then slowly move on and see how things goes lah.
for the 3rd question, last time,i used to think like dat coz i feel that i'm not good enuf for anyone..but now, after mixing around with different kind of people and sharing experiences with my girl friends, i feel dat, you are what you are...
no one can change you...if the guy really loves you then he shud except for who you are.