well,when i see a guy which i like.. i will feel shy la.. my heart start to bee very fast.. face also turn pink colour..

no matter who makes the 1st move there's always a chance to fail and a chance to succeed... u juz gotta take the risk if u really want it... tat's the 1st rule in business... correct me if i'm wrong... not a business student nor businessman...

A girl once approached me....

I dont know her well...i know she is my schoolmate...her class is next to mine.

She asked a fren to arrange for us to meet.

I met her.

She told me she really likes me.
Wants me to be her bf.
She said she isnt forcing me, im free to make my choice.

I said sorry. I dont think thats possible.
Looking back at it....
I wish i wasnt so cruel and said NO right there.
I shud have taken time to consider...i mean longer time, eventhough i already decided not to be with her, i shud give her time.
After that meeting, i always runaway if she is around or we were walking on the same corridor, i would turn away...I avoid her..Why?
Coz I feel so embarassed.

And for girls...
Dont just tell that guy suddenly if u like him...eventhough ur so damn hot.
Get to know him as frens 1st. He might be not that great when u get to know him.
Anyways, it is better to be more intimate after u get to know someone better.
My case? Im ok if she wanted to be frens...but coz she suddenly said she likes me and wanna be my gf...i was shocked. And like i said...i tried to be frens with her...but cant coz i was so embarassed after that.

Lastly....
To that girl that pour her heart out to me, and all the gurls out there who tell the man they like their feelings, I salute u all.
Seriously, i know it wasnt easy for u guys to do it.
It takes more than just courage.Esp when u are a girl.

I respect u all.
And oso to that particular girl, im sorry if i hurt u by saying NO that time...and avoided seeing u after that. I didnt mean it.

err, how bout u smile to him then wave back to him if he waved to u when he see u from far......mayb 10-15m

My Perspective, feel free to use:

1. Yes and No

Yes - If i know that he is single
No - He is not single and is my friend/ best friend's boyfriend

(U can find out from asking around, use your info gathering skill)

2. NEVER NEVER NEVER tell a guy that you like him, even though that you really really do and that u get chill everytime u see him. Being friend with someone is easy if your mind is clear, if you cant keep your mind clear, then do this:

Find a right time and make use of relevant topic and start a conversation, following is an example of a situation:

Take note: Right time = Anytime

You saw that the guy u like is lining up for movie ticket, find a way to get behind him (there are many ways, but you would have to figure it out yourself), you saw that on his jacket it has a logo saying "westcoast chopper", then start a conversation by commenting on that, "wow..  i dont even know a single ppl in malaysia know of this club <point on the logo on his jacket>" or "ohh..  i am a fan of the New York Yankee as well as u saw he wear a NY Cap" If he response with awareness of the club/team, then you are screw (only if u know nothing of them), but if you are calm then u are not (answer vaguely but mean it, the first question he asked related to the club or team) and then.... this is when changing topic is smart, move on to "which movie are you watching?" "ohh really...  i will be watching that movie too" "are u here with friends?" "ohh....  me too...  all my friends are busy (even they have put you in charge of getting the ticket for the movie you all agree to watch)" if he responses...  "would u like to watch together?" then...  you did it...  u open the door to first step...  also.. this way you could know that this guy is gentleman as he offers to watch it with you instead of you asking if he wanted to watch with you since that u both are alone. Meaning...  this guy worth your time persuing further...

3. Dont judge yourself, everyone come to this world with a unique gift, U have to look at your goodness instead of the badness to boost your self-esteem up. The best thing to do in the begining of any relationship is to keep thing simple, dont judge yourself, and dont judge the other, think positive and most importantly...  BE YOURSELF ... 

Formula:

Be friends + Know each other + if that is what you want + go further more!!!

Hey thanks, i take it as compliment

If u like a guy, but u dun wan to tell him dat u liked him......
Will u do such thing as telling him both of u are best friend??
If not, what stuff do u gals will do other than those told by Gametaipan??
p/s: Gametaipan, u have a nice article for many ppl's reference.