QUOTE(jdreamer @ Oct 5 2006, 11:23 PM)
"soli..i know u hav nothing to tok to me anymore...soli for disturb..maybe i will regret for all my done"
What does she means by this..
she's just trying to get you to respond to her because she's not use to not having you respond to her.
QUOTE(jdreamer @ Oct 6 2006, 08:36 AM)
Yea, last night she msged me in MSN. Telling me that I've changed. And asked me some questions like what kind of friends we are now, etc etc. I replied. I said "Just friends, thats what u wanted too". Im trying to treat her coldly.. I wont get back to her.. I wanted to ask her not to find me anymore, but I still think that I have to be a gentleman and not to be disrespectful to her.
Btw, I'm 18..
you absolutely have the right to ask you to not find you for a certain period. and by doing that, it's not that you are being not respectful of her. you ask her politely and tell her that you wanna be left alone at the moment. she should understand that you need time away from her in order for you to let go and she should at least be less selfish to think that by her always contacting you, it will not do you any good. sincerely speaking, she should leave you alone because i believe, she wouldnt be having any trouble letting go as she's found a replacement. now, spare yourself some tortures and try talk to her and ask her not to bother you.
well, if i'm her friend, i might have advised her to leave you alone at the moment. you guys can always be friend after things have calm and cool down and certainly not now.