i m once involved in LDR but then juz broke up

Reason was she hav found another guy that is suitable for her ....

wtf....

a little bit afraid to involve myself in LDR after that....

haha...few months ago , a gal in Perak told me that if both of us are in Perak , we r couples alredi ...

This post has been edited by steventan85: Oct 7 2006, 01:43 AM

I tot that day you went to japan's chinatown and bought?

She... told one of our friends that.. she regretted.

anyway , dont do any things that will let u regretted next time...

Part of me want her back, but part of me hesitated... Im afraid of being hurted once again in the future.......... I really dont know.

yeah...i bought it....
but like i said....cant get a good mooncake here....
i want good mooncakes....
like the cheese or the bing pei...

here the usual one oni...

I know, part of u want her back...part of u say stay back...

well....to me...There cud be a chance...everybody deserves a secind chance..thats true...Nobody is perfect....people makes mistakes....
BUT
give it time 1st...
this is too soon to be thinking of getting back together.
Both of u are reli confused now....what u think now cud be the opposite of what it shud be...

After a few weeks....maybe one or two months...When both of u can reli think clearly....and both of u know how it is living without each other....then, only then, u will know if u really want to be together again or not.

Now just break-up....of coz emotions speak louder than logical thinking...
Be strong...

I just hope that she doesnt regret her decision just because she symphatize u and she cant get to be with the other guy.

Be strong man. We are here for u.
Hey...u are still young....don worry....
If she is urs, she will be.
If she isnt, then she wont be...

Good Luck

of coz...Welcome!!! (not my thread though...lol)

I'll wait and see.

Thats good! Thats the spirit!!

Wait and see....what u and her feel now cud be different a month from now.
What u and her feel now is just the usual emotions people have after break-up...afraid of doing the wrong thing, regret etc....

Yea, I dont want to rush anything anymore. I'll sit back and wait for signs.

if u need someone to talk to, u can oso add me at msn if u want.

you have all the time in the world, just sit down and relax. just like when you drink a good wine, slowly enjoy and dont finish it in one gulp. let time prove to you that she's the one

U can add me. My email is in my profile. Click my nick and u will get it already.

true!!
i love this quote
"let time decide"
or
"biarlah masa menentukan segalanya"

haha...coz kinda lazy to do anything....just let time do something about it lol....

Thanks for this advice.

Hello everybody...
hope u guys are doing well....

I think maybe a lot of u guys came across this....

the article on LDR on Yahoo's main page....
Actually in Yahoo Personal's.....

Quite interesting to know that the success rate for LDR and not LDR are the same....

check it out for those havent read it yet!!

LDR on Yahoo

Looks like Im the unlucky one to be in the unsuccessful rate.

Guys... I just wrote a poem of my ended relationship. Go to my blog to read it. Remember to leave a comment.

jdreamer, as what quiksilver said, now is just mix feeling you have post-breakup. i would say, take some time to cool thing off first and when your mind have calm down, then think about it. anyhow, bear in mind that if you guys do get together again, then, it might not be the same already because there's a scar there. so, gotta think whether you can make it to make the scar invisible or not. a broke glass will still have a broken trail even after you try to glue it back. all the best, yeah.

WildChai, welcome to the thread. feel free to post but not spam (quoting mandy).