trafox,
Ow...You must support her 100% , always be there for her ..>.<"!!!!!
FIGHT the evil bad thing with her !
I truly hope she can fight against it and win!
support her to do treatment , stand by her ok !!!
MIRACLE N HOPE DO HAPPEN !!!

i go temple sure ask guangyin n buddha to support her!!

ADD OIL --the same word i will say~~

This post has been edited by Rena_blue: Apr 5 2007, 10:23 AM

Its better if you can tell us her name so that we can pray for her. Thanks.

so long don post in here so many things happen.


trafox,

i feel u bro. sad to hear that. all my prayers will go to ur gf. hopefully she will be fine. be there to support her. she needs u more than ever now. and yes MIRACLE do happens.

I don't think my parents can be convinced. They want me to end it with him so we'll be friends with no commitments to each other.

A very logical way of thinking and in the long run could be the least stressful method. I guess your parents are looking after your own interests.

Clearly your parents are insisting on that for your own interests. They want to make sure you have no distractions whatsoever. Nada. Zero. I dont know what can be done in such a short time.

Perhaps you could try to prove to them (before you pack and leave somehow) that you both can manage it. If you both are serious enough then perhaps, you could call him and then let your parents talk to him? =/ Bleh .. might not be such a good idea after all. I'll have to think. But one thing i do think you should do is inform him about the matter if he doesn't already know.

He PM me his gf name. I think he tried to keep it confidential. Let's make it Trafox's Girlfriend. God will know.

Thanks ppl for ya prayers..me in KL now..she appears to be coping well..monday's the appt for her staging..hope it's 1st stage..then easily to treat. Thanks again ppl~

yah...1st stage can heal 1~~ be postive o..ur galgal needs u !!!
although i juz can type blabla here , but in my heart , i hope she can recover n have a healthy body n continue to working hard to achieve her dreams!!

oish oish!!!

Hey trafox.. Be positive, be strong, and always be there for your girl so that she can stay strong and fight the illness.. I'm sorry to hear that.. And remember you must be strong and if you're not strong and going to fall apart then how is she going to be strong if no one supports her? Remember that be strong for her so that she can fight the illness..

ya bluewind..i will de..
Ppl thanks for all yr encouragement...
now still deciding whether to go private Hospital or Govt de now..

If you can afford or your gf family can afford then better go for private hospital because they offer better facilities..

I know that. I don't think I'm going to bother convincing them because I think they're pretty much insistent that I end it. I've told him that I have to talk to him when I get back to KL so at least he knows it's coming.

I love him... I really do.

Keep it rolling. We're at your back. All the best!

If your gf got buy any insurance like medical insurance, directly change her for private hospital. If no and you can afford, change her to private hospital too. Private hospital will give more attention to patients compare to government. I admitted to hospital b4, tat's why i know

Trafox, let us know the condition of your gf as soon as you can get online if you can..

He must be very tired right now..

Thanks Joshua and the rest for ya support..really appreciate it..abit tired..but then it's my responsibility and i love her..

just to update..now we've decided to go govt and private for checking of the cancer.to seek opinions from the doctors.. ampang (govt)and tung shin...anyone knows abt the facilities there? good?

This post has been edited by trafox10: Apr 8 2007, 11:32 AM

From what I know, Tung Shin is quite good. Perhaps you wanna go and check out there first.

Tungshin is very expensive ~~ i can say is not that worth , my family used to go there operate n blabla .. better go to gleaneagle at jalan ampang perhaps .. specialist in Government hosp some are good too ~ Dun give up!! try more!! UKM ..
Hospital besar KL also not tat bad , it cured my nose tumor lasttime^^

juz little opinion la...

WA.. nose tumor.. was it serious?