Then, use other way to tackle the problem lor.

Like what?

hii ppl...long time no post le...just to update
..my gf's might be down with a critical illness...so sad now..

Gonna have lunch with suiteng ~

A nice and supporting quote for all LDR couples to ponder: -

BECAUSE, you believe in Faith, Hope and Love no matter the distance, or the telephone bills. Because you believe in the Relationship that grows over time no matter the distance, or the late night tears. Because you make the Long Distance Relationship Work and believe that it is only FOR NOW and will eventually become the relationship of your dreams, to be in each other arms. Because of LOVE, is why your Long Distance Relationship exists and succeeds until you meet each other again.

hello everyone,
me reporting in. seems like everything is progressing well. trafox, mind to tell what kind of illness she's got?

There is many ways.

I am sorry to hear that.
May I know what illness? Anyway, be strong. Be your gf side all the way down and support her. I am sure she need you at her side, and you must be strong. Believe in our current medical, won't be any problem.

I will pray for u

might be cancer...still dunno the stage yet..tonight she will get the results....sigh..i rushing down to kl tomorrow morning...hope she still can cope with it in the future..Thanks for praying

This post has been edited by trafox10: Apr 4 2007, 08:21 PM

PROBLEM:
I've been dating my boyfriend since Dec 22. Long distance relationship. I leave for the US in July-ish to spend four years there in college. Parents want me to "end all commitments and remain friends with him". At this point, I can't. And I don't think at any other point I can. Parents want me to make myself detach from him in order to prevent "third party intrusions and heartache" (which I can actually guarantee will never happen because I don't believe that any sort of cheating is justified) and to save each other the pain.

I don't want to do this. Parents say I can maintain contact with him and care about him AS A FRIEND...but I don't think I can do that. I highly doubt I can remain friends with him. I highly doubt I can continue to talk to him without wanting to be with him.

I don't know what to do.

Ouch! Let's hope that's not the exact illness alright. Hope to hear from you soon. I'll pray for her as well.

Have you told him about your parents? What does he has in his mind? Or you're trying to solve this alone?

Well, be firm with what you're doing. Try to do something to assure your parents that you two will be doing well in this LDR. Hmmmm...

confirm it;s cancer already..sigh..now need to stage it..very worried for her..

I'm sorry to hear that. Be there for her, okie?

LDR is hard to maintain ...

Finally, we have broke up in a peaceful way, even though i still love him ...

Take care there ....

Awww....

I m very sorry to hear that....

Don't worry k? And you must be strong no matter what. She really need your support. I have seen many cancer patient really need a strong heart people to accompany them to fight against the war, as this war isn't easy at all.

I have ask my catholic society members to pray for her. Can I have her name please?

Again, be strong!!!

What happen all of the student??

Thanks Joshua for yr prayers.. .me going to zzz...this few days nv zz properly...

This post has been edited by trafox10: Apr 5 2007, 12:41 AM

Okok, go and sleep. Have some good rest as you need to have drive to KL.

Good Night Trafox.

I haven't talked to him about it...though I've had fragments of attempts to tell him to "maybe you could find someone else" but he gets really really upset and really really pissed off when I say that. I already told him before we got together that I AM leaving for somewhere very far away...but he said he didn't care about that and that he loves me.

I think that if time wants us to fade, then it will fade. I just don't want to end it when it's not fading. My parents are adamantly insisting I end it in July before I pack for the US.

OMG.. really vy sorry to hear that... she really need your FULL support, just be there with her and comfort her... we will all pray for her too...

Glad to hear that he isn't distracted because of the distance. Since both of you are willing to give it a try, I'll say that stay on. Try to win your parents' heart instead of ending this off.

Though I don't know any good ways, try to convince your parents.