Sigh.. Count me in this topic.. I'm also having LDR..

Alright lol I'm happy to have her as my GF

I appreciate her very much hehe

Dude you really need to clear this thing up on who you really like lol

This post has been edited by BlueWind: Jan 5 2007, 10:47 AM

Be strong, have faith, commitment, and patience mate

Cheers!

Maybe you just missed that nice moment? But you and your girlfriends don't have this kind of moment?

Yeah.. So it's best not to hide anything from them.. They are your girlfriend.. So if you intend to hide from them and one day your secret has blown, watch it though as your girlfriend will flame over you lol

To all my fellow LDR, do you all think that is it possible to have a real relationship without meeting the person (e.g Girlfriend) but are going to meet soon?

I kinda disagree that it's impossible to have a real relationship with a person and are going to meet later.. Anyway, guys girls go check out the 'Internet Relationship'(Page 2) thread to find out what I mean.

This post has been edited by BlueWind: Jan 9 2007, 12:42 PM

Hey bro, IMHO I think she's not ready to commit this relationship with you. And maybe if you could wait then just wait for her until she's ready to accept you or ready to commit a serious LDR with you, even so she said that she doesn't want to have from that far away bf, that doesn't that you have to forget her. Instead what you could do is to meet up with her someday and try understanding her more.. Bear in mind though, LDR is real tough... So maybe you should look around and find other girls. I'm not discouraging you, it's just that LDR takes lots of trust commitment and patience.. So, wish you all the best bro.

Cheers

What do you mean by "backup plan"? Like secretly find a girl and say all of sudden your gf dump you then you will have another one back up?

Can't you both have an advance plan? Like say, when the both of you really free..

Anyway, if you both are really going to meet eventually, I'm sure you two will.. So don't rush the time..

This post has been edited by BlueWind: Jan 19 2007, 11:23 AM

It depends on whether the two you are ready for the commitment or not.. IMHO, you should get to know her more rather than just straight away develop a further more relationship with her.

Try tolerate... also both sides must have faith and commitment to each other... but it's not as simple as that because there are many things will happen when you're experiencing it...

Life is ok for me at the moment.. LDR future is uncertain... My life is uncertain too

Well, guys just try to be strong for our LDR future

Yeah... the future.. nobody will know.. when the time comes.. then we will get to know the answer..

Well.. I would say the possibility of breaking up at that period is there. But I wouldn't say ALL of them will break, maybe one of them can survive till the end.

Yeah, certainly will not give up but if my partner doesn't want to continue anymore.. perhaps I should let her go..

So fast over already?

Well, you can continue to love her.. But whether she will get touched one day, nobody knows.. Sure, you can continue to love her but IMHO it's just waste of time since she told you that she doesn't have a feeling for you.. That's all I want to say no hard feelings on ya buddy

Good luck!
Cheers

Well well well, welcome to the LDR

Actually, IMHO its takes two hands to clap ya? And so is love, love takes trust, commitment.. Actually LDR is almost the same as the SDR, but the only thing is that it's separated apart and whether two person can wait and be faithful to each other or not..

LOL, what am I saying right now