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 ...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 2:::...., The Fellowship of LDR

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miyoko
post Mar 23 2007, 08:18 AM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Mar 22 2007, 08:37 PM)
Is it better for me to block her MSN, delete her from my friendster list, delete her contact from my hp, etc?

Because everytime she comes online, I feel it in my heart, everytime she updates her friendster, (although I told myself not to click it) I still click it, everytime I see her new photos, I feel so pain.

But..... it's not nice to do this....... it makes me feel so low, not gentleman, etc etc.

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Leave it there. dont have to block or anything. you'll get used to. it's hard at the beginning, but you'll do fine. I'm speaking from my experience.
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post Mar 23 2007, 09:02 AM

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Jdreamer,

I can fully understand your feeling. But do you think that after you have blocked her MSN, deleted her from your friendster list, deleted her contact from your hp, you could totally forget about her? Honestly, I think even you have done so, you will still try to find her name in the friendster or even can memorise her hp number directly from your heart. No need to lie to your own feelings ok. If you think after you have done that, you will live happier, just do it ok?

Try to immerse in other activities that you enjoy doing and not to think of her. Trust me, time can heal your heart, but you must give chance to it you know? I will always support you here. Cheer up ok smile.gif
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post Mar 23 2007, 11:20 AM

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miyoko and mandy is right.. just do what you always do. Memories will be memories, feelings will be feelings. Memories will not be erased, but the feelings will slowly fade.
jdreamer
post Mar 23 2007, 11:30 AM

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Actually last night, I told her not to talk to me anymore. It was painful but it's the only way for me to move on.

Thanks a lot.
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post Mar 23 2007, 11:32 AM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Mar 23 2007, 11:30 AM)
Actually last night, I told her not to talk to me anymore. It was painful but it's the only way for me to move on.

Thanks a lot.
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Let's hope your decision will last longer this time wink.gif
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post Mar 23 2007, 12:17 PM

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J dreamer , must ganbade more!! No use u delete her account 1~~
juz slowly take some time la ~
trust me , u delete her , u will add again 1~~
let time wash it away , if dun have sorrow , where you can feel happiness leh ?? be strong ok ??
when you "wake up " , you will know ur world is still wonderful around with ur gal beside u !!
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usually , i fall asleep when talking to my bf , so bad ler me!
he calls me everyday from thailand ! every day , at least half hour , phone bill sure ~!@#$@
really happy to at last found a guy who really serious n LOVEs me !
poor him , sometime i also din sms him coz too busy or sleep at odd time ..
blink blink ~ he din angry me ~
miss him now , huhuh ....5 5 come back ler ~!!!
p.s when" YOU "are reading this , dun spam me ar!
suiteng
post Mar 23 2007, 01:32 PM

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I wonder who is the "YOU" hehehehe..
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post Mar 23 2007, 01:55 PM

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Haha, at least you appreciate your bf and he knows that.. That's why he didn't angry with you smile.gif

Good luck ooo!
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wassap
post Mar 23 2007, 03:08 PM

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good o.... hehehe.... hope it lasts.
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post Mar 24 2007, 01:27 AM

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QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Mar 23 2007, 11:17 AM)
usually , i fall asleep when talking to my bf , so bad ler me!
he calls me everyday from thailand ! every day , at least half hour , phone bill sure ~!@#$@
really happy to at last found a guy who really serious n LOVEs  me !
poor him , sometime  i also din sms him coz too busy or sleep at odd time ..
blink blink ~ he din angry me ~
miss him now , huhuh ....5 5  come back ler ~!!! 
p.s when" YOU "are reading this , dun spam me ar!
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Yes, my sweetheart dear! You have no idea how panicked I get when you suddenly end up dozing off with the headset attached to your ears. Not to mention the amount of electromagnetic rays that penetrates through your mind. That explains the nightmares you get... biggrin.gif

Being in a LDR involves some give and take. Distance may divide us apart physically, but in the heart and soul, we are two peas in a pod. Communication is indeed important, and even with the little time spent over short long distance calls (which occasionally drags on to hours of lovey-dovey talks) is good enough to keep the closeness intact. Sharing our daily life and events, be it joyful or stress-filled, always feels wonderful when we share it to each other.

Honesty is also important. Never ever succumb to wide lies, as eventually they will consume you back, and you'll have no option but to cook up more lies to cover up the initial ones. No doubt it's indeed challenging, especially when I'm staying in Bangkok (needless to say, everyone knows what this city is famous for). But as far as my conscience is clear, and we both are very sincere about it, I am 100% honest about my whereabouts and activities. Though sometimes my sweetheart gets doubtful thoughts, I always ensure her of my truthfulness. Especially since our story of love is still relatively new, still at the first few pages of our novel.

Happy 3 months anniversary, dear wub.gif

2 more days, and we will no longer be lingering in the LDR realm anymore. With open arms and welcoming hugs, there will be no more distance to keep us apart, with yearning hearts and constant missing each others presence...

Counting down the hours and minutes where we'll be in each others arms, locked in passionate hugs, showering each other with infinite T,L n C


QUOTE(suiteng @ Mar 23 2007, 12:32 PM)
I wonder who is the "YOU" hehehehe..
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Now the mysterious "YOU" has been revealed. Behold, the truth is out
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post Mar 24 2007, 01:44 AM

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Kanasai ... my bulu romas all menegak edi ~_~"
come back , whack u ar^_^
huhuhu , 3 months like taking 4ever ~~
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QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Mar 24 2007, 12:44 AM)
Kanasai ... my bulu romas all menegak edi ~_~"
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That's my special power - making you feel this way... Hahaha!


QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Mar 24 2007, 12:44 AM)
come back , whack u  ar^_^
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Kinky. Sounds fun dear!
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post Mar 24 2007, 10:36 AM

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Waaa.. So sweet leh you two ><

Anyway all the best to you two smile.gif
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post Mar 24 2007, 01:53 PM

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....so sweet
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post Mar 24 2007, 02:49 PM

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Jealous niah.... rclxms.gif
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post Mar 24 2007, 03:02 PM

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Aaaw... so sweet... make me jealous!!
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post Mar 24 2007, 04:41 PM

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sorry guys, not want to make u jealous...juz sharing ...A LYN'S LDR story.
I sure go to wish all of us find our happiness when i go temple happy.gif
so , u guys there sendiri also have to believe in yourselves , Love will come! Add oil everyday to earn more money YAH!!!! hahahah~~
Add oil everyday to find your another part!!!!!

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post Mar 24 2007, 05:57 PM

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hi all... wave.gif my gf might come to KL this 29th... might only doh.gif
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post Mar 24 2007, 08:56 PM

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Nevermind la, at least there's a possibility she is coming. Be positive biggrin.gif
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post Mar 24 2007, 11:21 PM

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few more days lo... nice... congrats. happy lo u.... hihihi....

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