ther's a problem btw me n my bf...we r in LDR indeed..
i felt like we got communication break..its like most of da time we having phone chat,he got to fall asleep or dont pay much attention on our conversation...its really iritates me but i always calm myself by thinking that he's just prolly too tired....i got no idea what to do...hms..

LDR needs lots of trust and u need to tolerate at times. why don try telling him. find a good time when both of you are free then have a good chat. might consider sending him an email as well.

She has a colleague going with her.

Yalor... not going alone ler...

Sigh.. happened to me too, a few times! SMS halfway also can fall asleep! But what to do, maybe he's just tired. Things get better when he wake up in the morning right?

That happens to me also, I mean like because she's too tired that's why she tend to close her eyes and listen to what I'm talking.. Even though I was a bit irritated but then when it comes to thinking I tell myself 'she tired mah.. so nvm lor.. can understand one de..' But then also have to really tolerate la human being cannot be like robot like that one mah..

all of a sudden miss her so much. ow... ow... ow... haih.....

Be strong

agreed... thatz normal... even my LDR oso the same... we been togather for juz 3 mth.. but we been thru a lot... altho we only saparated by 2 hours drive.. pahang and KL (thatz y i drive there / she come to KL), we onli can meet once a week.. i think thatz alot better than many people here... actually she is vy bz, not much time for me. even we meet oso i will fetch her meet her customers... so normal day we seldom tok on phone.. even got MSN oso seldom chat coz she reli bz with her work...

we onli tok on phone almost 2hrs everyday.. but after long working hour sure she veli tired... sometimes she reli feel wanna sleep when toking phone... once i hear her voice change to sleepy voice, i ask her to rest... even i wanted to talk, but i prefer she got enuf rest for the next day...

fortunately she know that i do all this is for her... she appreciate things that i do... thatz the most important...

anyone here from perlis...? need some help... my gf is currently studying there and i need a place to stay over if i were to visit her till late night.. any budget inn i could stay in? thx in advance..!

Kangar, Perlis? There a hotel called prince hotel ar..?? Forgotten the name already, very cheap but nice hotel.

Ya, I agree.. the most important thing is that your partner appreciates what you have done for her.. So all the best dude

Is it better for me to block her MSN, delete her from my friendster list, delete her contact from my hp, etc?

Because everytime she comes online, I feel it in my heart, everytime she updates her friendster, (although I told myself not to click it) I still click it, everytime I see her new photos, I feel so pain.

But..... it's not nice to do this....... it makes me feel so low, not gentleman, etc etc.

How?

Aih.. ya.. sometimes so fan jin hor? Well, if you wanna do it then do it lor.. if don't delete also can.. just have to live with it. It will hurt lesser soon enough..

leave it there, dont bother about it, as soon as you get used to it, you'll be alrite

This man speaks the truth.

ya... leave it there 1st... for certain period at least.. if u still feel the pain after a long time, then mayb onli u consider do those things...

It has been 6 months..

its only 6 months. give yourself some more time.

almost be with him around 1 year 3 months, didnt see each other about 6 months ....

Miss him so much ....

be strong. i feel u. i didn't see my girl for less than one month and i miss her so so much already. need to wait till june only can see her again. sadzzz... but you and i have a lot of members here for support. thats what LYN are for. we stick up for each other.