How true...

Hi everyone... Like you guys, i'm having LDR as well... unfortunately, she asked for a temporarily breakup abt 2 months ago... she said she was suffering... but then i found out from her friend that another guy is chasing her... and acc to my friend, she said that my gal almosted accepted him... i'm so dissapointed... we promised each other that this LDR will be our test, and we both need to work hard to pass this test... i cant believe she pull out first... It's so painful... now, it seems that she's advoiding me as well... acc to her friend, she said that my gf is trying to be fair to me and the other guy by not talking to each other... but i seriously think this is not fair to me... if only she knows how painful it is to miss someone and you cannot see her nor talk to her... to make it worst, there is another guy... my finals is tomorrow, and i still cant concentrate in my studies... i'm coming back in 3 weeks to msia... i really dunno how things will turn out... because after 3 months in msia, i will be back in aussie again for a year.... i really hope that we will be together again during that short period of time... but i'm really really scared that it will be the end.... any advise??? btw, LDR since Feb 2006, Aussie to Msia...

i know it is because of the loneliness... when i get back, i will definitely persuade her using this point.... part of me wanna hate her for the pain she caused me now... i really wanna replace this feeling with hate... then it'll be easy for me to bear... but i cant... i still love her deeply... prob is, after 3 months, i'll be gone again, and we need to suffer the same thing... she will definitely reject me because of this... tat's why i dunno should i ask her to cont our relationship or not... i really wan to cont the relationship, even though it is for a short time... but wat she thinks is another diff matter... i feel like i'm losing her... i told her that i'll be back and whether will she wait for me at the airport... i got no reply... i don't know wat that means...

It's so hard to bear... i dun hate her... i still love her... and i wont give up this relationship so easily... what i need now is a plan to get her back... anyone care to contribute?

hmm... will try it... thats a good idea... thanks..

jdreamer: i believe quiksilver replied to one of my post saying that it is not worth your love to a girl who is not loyal to you. I know that it is hard to do, but you must learn to let go. Mayb cry if you have to, to release everything... you will feel better after that... Dun let yourself in too deep or else it will be hard to get out of it... the deeper you go, the more painful it is to let go. Just let it go now....


As for my case, thanks quiksilver for your advice... But i realise something today... nothin was wrong with our relationship... we juz love each other too deeply... and we cant handle being seperated from each other... as for the other guy, she rejected him... according to her, she said she is scared of this and don't want to think of this after she graduate. we had a long chat juz now... i've decided to let her go... after i've graduate, i'll try again... although it is hard, but after letting her go, i felt much better... so, jdreamer, dun be afraid to let go... it is not as bad as it seems... you will find another truly worth ur love... i'll pray for the both of us tonite....

Hi... It's me again... I've thought the whole nite through last nite... I've got slightly more than one year to come up with and idea to make her not to be afraid of loving me and to touch her heart all over again... i don't know is this thread is a good place for this or mayb i should open a new one? But anyways, i think from today onwards, i'll write my feelings and thoughts for today abt her or abt our relationship on a piece of paper and i'll fold it into a star or a heart and throw it into a jar... i'll write one everyday until she accepts me... at the end of the day does this shows that i'm thinking of her everyday, or am i just some maniac who is obssess with her? will this touch her heart? besides that, any other suggestions???



This is true... jdreamer, you might hate her now for playin with your heart... there will come a point in time where you will realise that because of what she did to you has made you a better person, a stronger person... everyone in your life will play an important part influencing you... when you meet your special someone, you will then treasure and love her even more than before... juz think of it that she is just a passenger in your life... what doesn't kills you, makes you stronger... juz my humble opinion...