you are taking two different issues entirely. one takes life while the other just cause unhappiness.

just because you disagree with me doesn't mean you are right and i m wrong. And pls don't pull my family here. tq. ntg to do with them.

This post has been edited by jayqc: Jun 18 2012, 02:25 PM

... and does it look retarded? Of course it does. It's using the same logic you did.

In what way he acts like 15yo? just because he has extra marital relationship doesn't mean he acts like 15.

Nope, not being able to keep his d!ck to himself is.

Some people has 'big appetite' . not everyone is like you, eat one bowl or rice. some need 2 bowl of rice

aiyo.. then why u want get married in the first place? go cheong la, rm200 per session can satisfy for 1 hour.. can eat so many dishes.. eat till you old loh..
with your mentality, there is no reason for u to get married

whos dupe are you? acting like a female. in real life is a male. some marry because people perception on you is better. got family means more steady , good for career advancement.

It can happen, my cousin didn't go bankrupt nor lose his job, just that his ex-wife expected him to earn more.
Could see that from many years ago, after since he was with that girl he changed so much. He stopped taking pills,
stopped being a "player" (or whatever term its called), to striving hard to earn more, being a good partner, got married
and being a good parent yet his wife left him.

Their biggest problem all along was just the finance part. What can my cousin do, he still loves his ex-wife, being down
cos he's also worried about his kid's future growing up under a broken family. All he can do now is just to accept it and move on.

what? girls dunno what is cheong? dunno market rate? pls la.. dont think girls so naive now la.. if u can prove i am a guy then prove it to me.
if you marry is for peoples perception then just put a ring on your finger, better than hurting ppl in real life

You can lie to the whole world except me. I do not have to prove you are a guy anyway. if you think you are a female then fine.

Sounds like you can't keep your d!ck in your pants neither.

What's wrong is wrong. No matter how you justify it. It's still wrong.

okay lar righteous man. standing next to God. Our sinful world is not suitable for you, pls migrate to another planet.

This post has been edited by jayqc: Jun 18 2012, 03:27 PM

people nowadays are just getting more and more complicated.

frm 'eating fish' outside of marriage is acceptable until married with purposes. what happened to the 'true love' .. and don't hav to sound me that im living in a fairy world.

jacqy, its good that u shared with us ur valuable opinions but the fact is, TS is asking for advice on how to deal with an unacceptable situation at home rather than listening to all ur theories of 'no wrong having a bigger appetite' advice.

there is no reason for me to pretend to be a girl here, i think u got problem with thinking that girls know a lot more stuff than they are supposed to know. yes i know bcoz my bf have frens who goes cheong whom are single and that does not bother me one bit. i dont need to prove anything to u.

I'm an atheist, in some religion I'm suppose to go to hell.
I feel sorry you've to still live in the same planet as my self righteous butt. /lol

If you think true love still exists. then go on believing. sometimes it is good to live in a perceived wonderful world. to the question ts asked, I already answered in one of my replies.

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Added on June 18, 2012, 3:49 pmokay jonrev. my bad for thinking you are a guy. If you think you are a female , i m fine. bcoz i m not having sex with you. so doesn't bother me.

This post has been edited by jayqc: Jun 18 2012, 03:49 PM

You are right when you say you are entitled to your own opinions. I don't think anyone can dispute your rights. But it goes back to the fundamental understanding of morally right or wrong.

I read through your replies and i am really amazed on how you argued your opinions.

Wrong is wrong, having an affair is wrong no matter how you say or defend it. Having an affair plus having an extra "offspring" through other woman (be it accidently or intentionally) is wrong.

I don't understand your statement when you say, if he is happy, he can do it lah. Sorry, this is purely an irresponsible statement.

You don't make yourself happy at the expense of your family. Humans are selfish yes, but there is a limit and you clearly cross that with your thinking.

Yeah this world is evil, and that's because of people thinking like you.....People who thinks that a wrong is right because is right to him even though it is not right.


Is just as good as saying, you gonna rape a girl because you have "big" appetite and you will take responsibility afterwards. So, to you, this is not wrong isn't it?


Back to TS issue, i think is a very hard decision for you right now. But i personally think your mum will be hurt someday, is just a matter of time whether the truth is reveal now or later.

Perhaps you should speak to your father first??

this is what a 'right' man's thinking about..+100

Actually that's what men with 'small appetite' would think.

/end sarcasm.

so u agreed with hungry man having more appetite outside??