Nothing wrong but sex driven only. Well, I believe that everyone has the right to do whatever they like to fulfill their needs but not create a mess or suffering to the closest or others innocent.

This post has been edited by cutiepooh: Jun 16 2012, 11:41 PM

that is marriage scam, you all really believe that? if ts's father is a pokai means takde wang or bankrupt, his mother would also leave the father lar. don't be so naive. the father is 57 yo , how many more years he can live? if he wants to play girl, let him play lar since we only live once.


please don't call me an animal. so you expect the father who has a high sex drives to live unhappily with the wife who can no longer satisfy him in bed? masturbate till he dies? what's wrong with him having other woman? as long as he still fulfil his responsibilities as a father and husband

I think the mother should learn to accept it. why want to be unhappy over the husband affair. i believe she also ard age 50+. so carry on with life and be happy. .

I really really hate the fact that guys who sleep around are considered 'OK' and girls who sleep around are sluts. Guys who sleep around should be called sex maniac/perverts. And i also hate the fact that females are being said useless in sex when they get older. Well, males are the same!!! When they get old, their **** gets old too!!!

okay. cool down.

like this 100000000 xx

China b****es are Horrible. The purpose of having baby is just to milk money from those old man.

Suggest you talk to your father first. Go and identify whose baby is his. This baby might be someone else. Dont fall into her trap.

Also, i believe she might holds temporary or holiday visa to enter malaysia. For such a short term, how your dad have affair with her. Call immigration and report her. It sounds bad, but at least u can stop her harrasing your family now.

You are selfish, please don't always think and ask women to tolerate. You also mentioned she is 50+ but how to be happy when the husband had fun outside and god they got a new born baby soon? Another 15 years of life enduring all the pains, how other peoples giving comments to her and TS?

+99

I would say this is not the second time my dad having affair with other women. My mom has chosen to keep one eye closed over this problem. She told me that as long as your dad doesn't have a committed family outside, she wouldnot want to care anymore. Now situation has changed, at his age of 57, he has a new born baby child with other woman. What would my mom react if she find out? How is she going to face our relatives and her friends? Even, me myself also cannot accept and embarrassed of my dad.

Yes, my dad does responsible to us and our family. However, he is so stingy to us, even in education. He rather spend his money playing with other women than to support me to study in an university. I have no option to choose but to study part time, thank god I am kiasu enough and manage to complete my professional degree by myself! Luckily he did support the other two of my siblings to study. Because I am girl! (but cannot compete with china women outside)

I was thinking, how many years that my dad has to live? And what happen to this child outside who is so innocent? Who is going to responsible for that child when my dad is not here anymore? I couldnot accept having a "made in china" small little brother. This "child" is going to impose a very huge problem to my family.

This is about a broken marriage at the age of a couple who has been married for almost 30 years. I'll discuss with my other siblings, because there is nothing that we can do as of now and I donot know who and where the china woman is currently.

This morning, my mom asked me to send sms to wish my dad "Happy Father's Day" What a joke! Ask the china woman and the baby infant to celebrate with him then!

Anyway Happy Father's Day! (to all the responsible and GOOD dad!)
Not every dad deserves to celebrate this particular day!

This post has been edited by untitled99: Jun 17 2012, 10:25 AM

No doubt about your hate, I had seen many of my father's friend, in their mid 40-50, from heart warming family turn into damnation, son even ask the dad when he gonna die and pass him the money. All happened because of the dad selfishness and horniness to get laid by another woman.

Blame the father for all you want. I also don't condone this kind affair. A fact is a fact and what is done cannot be undone. If TS thinks that the family will be better off without his dad, by all means take the necessary action. It's not just your mom decision, it's a family decision.
Well, please note that most men reaching the age of 40+ are likely to stray and it's advisable for their spouse to keep an eye on their movements and behavior. And men over 50+ are more attracted to china dolls but fathering a child is really stupid and dumb!

bro , don't insult china girls pls. How if I insult yr mother? do you like that? Not all china girls are bad. I met some really good one.

i cant believe ppl like u still exist and still dare to post like this so openly like you're damn proud of it.

Wait till it happens to your loved one and you'll soon find out how it feels.

People like you is among the many reasons why ppl lost hope in humanity.

Just because my views/opinion differ from you, you criticise me. i think our freedom of speech is threatened. oh wai, since when our freedom of speech is not threatened. learn to accept different views. not everyone has a same thinking cap as you do. Everyone has the right to pursue happiness. Very often we allow ourselves to be unhappy so others can be happy. What's wrong with human being be a bit selfish to pursue our happiness?

This post has been edited by jayqc: Jun 17 2012, 10:43 PM

What responsibility that a husband and a father has? For me a husband/dad has the responsibility to keep the family in order, to be there and to love them. A father's responsibility is Not to provide for the family financially and f***s around cause his wife is old. Do you know we women can earn more than our husbands? We have equal bargaining power and we can leave anytime we want. If my husband did that to me, go f*** around and have a child, i will leave.. my children will definitely follow me and that i am financially capable!

I think you all misinterpreted me. I know many women who earns more than their husband. My point here is since his father wants to play outside, let him play outside. His father is 57yo and he is not getting any younger. Ts i assume is an adult most probably working. so you would prefer yr husband to live with you unhappily and sexually deprived just because you don't want the family to separate?

do you know we women enjoy sex as much? do you know we want varieties as well.do you know we watch porn as well.. not all women, but most of us do want to satisfy each other. I believe if my husband tells me that our sex life is dull, maybe we can work things out. We too want sex as much, so if my husband under perform, too tired from work to have sex, does this mean i can go f*** another guy and be pregnant with his child?
i dont blame your thinking, maybe its bcoz u are quite traditional guy who thinks only guys can enjoy sex and have fun. You get old too, u will underperform too... teach your wife new things, explore together.. instead of having the excuse that she is old and wrinkled and unappetizing. I believe growing old together with someone we can trust and a loving family is better than having a responsible husband but leaves the family to seek his own desire.

sometimes there is no feelings for each other anymore. how to have sex? not all marriages ends happily. there are many cases were happy marriages in the beginning, towards the middle and the end, it start to fade. there is no more feelings liao. Cant blame them. there is no right or wrong. In life you can meet someone new and start to fall in love again.

Great !

I dont understand you, no feelings means you wont patch things up? Not happy means no need to put effort in repairing your family? Remember, its you who ask for her hand in marriage, you take her hand means that you promise to grow old together.
Yes there is no right or wrong, thats why there is arguments but people do try to patch things up and compromise, thats what the marriage institution is all about..
and yes we can meet someone new, but if we so easily fall for someone new, why would you want to get married in the first place where we meet new people everyday.
its commitment towards rship, not happy then settle it.. if cannot then divorce, why want to make both parties miserable staying in a marriage when my husband is having an affair outside?

Yes, from your opinions it shows you're a true blue selfish person that should remain unmarried so that you wont bring hurt to your family members. Be happy all you want, just dont hurt other ppl.

Thank God my father is not like you.

This post has been edited by slushie: Jun 17 2012, 11:26 PM