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post Jan 12 2012, 06:09 PM

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QUOTE(aarondotcom @ Jan 12 2012, 02:11 PM)
yes, i have a big argument with him 2 weeks ago. This was what happened, one of the main water pipe is leaking and my father inform him, and he told my father that "this is the shit made by u(including me), u guys goto settle it". Tat water pipe broken before.. so coincidence i was onleave, so my father call someone to fix it. like i said, tat 1 is main water pipe, to replace it, need to stop the water supply, and at the same time, tat animal using water in the toilet, once my father close the water supply, he ran down and scold my dad gao2 infront of the public, it is like a master scolding a dog. my father keep on apologize he keep on scolding, then i cannot tahan already, i ran down scold him gao2. I'm very sure this is the ignition. He smart enuf dun dare to argue with me infront of outsider because he know i will scold him that he con my parent money and house now still wan to act like the big boss of the house.

he brainwash all his frens that im the big villain in the house, i still rmb tat day while being chased out by him, his fren tell me"ur brother pay the house-loan, u only pay half the eletric and water bill, ur brother let u take the master room and u somemore let the dog out to bite him?". No surprise, he will brainwash his frens to the max. The house loan already paid off long time ago by my parent. I was using the master room is because he force me out of the guest room, then he use guest room for cooking and washing cloth bla bla bla(yup, cooking and washing on 2nd floor of a terrace-house). He abuse my dog twice, my dog went into "hospital" twice, i still got the x-ray of my dog bone broken. Tell me, if u hit by someone until half-death, the next time u meet him again, will u smile at him? of course i will become hostile. I asked him why abuse my dog, he said NO. i dim do so, even my neighbor come and tell me he is cold-blooded treat a small dog like tat. my dog are size of tzu zhu, do u believe such a small puppy attk u then left u no choice but to abuse it?

and about the electric & water bill every month I pay half, every month i pay rm100 for water and rm200 for electric bill. I work everyday, do u know i can consume that much of water and electric?this is already unfair to me. he waste all the water and electric and i have to cover half of it. And this is i hate the most, i complaint to my mum, she told me "nvm la, dun kira so much...".

and now he brainwash his fren twist the fact and accuse me.
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I feel like punching this animal.
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post Jan 12 2012, 06:43 PM

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post Jan 12 2012, 07:36 PM

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QUOTE(Hunakadoo @ Jan 12 2012, 11:08 AM)
Yep , seriously , you cant do anythings , is u personal willing to sign the document and pass the asset to others , nobody force TS father . I only can say the way the animal "convince" is smart and pro enough .

etc : today u ask ur dad to sign selling agreement for a property & let u get the money to do business , ur business fail afterwards and cant repay back to ur father . So do you think ur father can sue u and win back his own money by at court ? There's a big NO .

Both party willing to sign the agreement under observer .
& i believe TS parent didnt do any agreement between he and the animal .

Please do read some books about law before you denied other's people advice here .  smile.gif
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if the situation is like what you say above, then cant get back anymore.

but there's suspicious factors, why do business need to transfer land as well? unless he take it and mortgage to bank,
but the father himself can mortgage and loan to son what, dont need to transfer.

well, i've never read any shitty books about law. i read law books sick to my stomach.
and your giving wrong advice too.

stick to your day job, drink your RM7 milk teas and later complain that the cost of living is too high. thumbup.gif
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post Jan 12 2012, 07:45 PM

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QUOTE(lucifer401 @ Jan 12 2012, 07:36 PM)
if the situation is like what you say above, then cant get back anymore.

but there's suspicious factors, why do business need to transfer land as well? unless he take it and mortgage to bank,
but the father himself can mortgage and loan to son what, dont need to transfer.

well, i've never read any shitty books about law. i read law books sick to my stomach.
and your giving wrong advice too.

stick to your day job, drink your RM7 milk teas and later complain that the cost of living is too high. thumbup.gif
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That's so his brother " the animal " just wanna swallow all the asset & property from his parent .
What he gonna do with 500k asset and 400k cash , nobody know .

U try to read previous page then u will understand the story ,
Ts mum threaten his father to sign the transfer document to the animal , or else divorce with Ts father .
Anyway , property is under animal's name , sue also no use . chances to win is lesser than 20%

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post Jan 12 2012, 07:50 PM

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Wow!
I noticed a lot of people jump to conclusions based on 1 side of the story (TS story) without listening to his "animal" brother side of the story....

Anyway, this is other people's family problem. Like they say husband/wife or family members argument, we as outsiders, should not judge or intefere....

What happens in the family stays in the family....




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post Jan 12 2012, 09:55 PM

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QUOTE(aarondotcom @ Jan 11 2012, 04:24 PM)
Hi everyone, this is what happened. I was staying with my elder brother(I called him "animal" now) in my parent house for over 20yrs. During his age 25 until now 34, he is jobless and all the while getting money from my parent. In some point, he conned my parent to sign some legalize document to transfer all my parent assets to him which these all my parent last resource. In total 400k cash + current my parent house(500k). My mother fed-up enough and flied to US work as illegal worker again(she is age 57 now). And my parent house left me, my father and that animal stay together.

Since that animal took all the money included transferred the house to his name, he is the big boss of the house now. Inaddition lucky I bought a new house but now my house just starting renovation(no water and eletric supply), estimate will be completed during march this year. And this is what happened, on monday while I went out to work, that animal called a moving house and 3 big size guys come to my parent house, the 3 big size guys force my father sit on the chair, and he start ordering ppl to break my door and pack all my stuff not in a gentle way and throw into the lori and move it to my new house(Please! my new house is under renovation not ready for living). At 1st, I tot that animal only want to chase me out of my parent house, but a moment later, 2 more lori coming to my new house as well, all the stuffs in the lori are belong to my father!!!! that means this animal chasing my father out of his own house which my parent works so hard to paid off the loan.

Before those barbarians leave, he threaten me that if i goto "cari pasal" to my brother, he will come and find me, I felt like my life are being threatening. Now should I log a police report? What else can I do? I just a common working man in the office. I feels so helpless now, not to mention about my father, it is very humiliation that he chased out by his own son from his own house.
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Wow! I am just wondering how did you parents brought the animal up? Was he sleeping in the cage? Eat dog food? Damn..

So heartless. I think you should go and see Michael Chong. Good luck man.
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QUOTE(aarondotcom @ Jan 12 2012, 02:11 PM)
yes, i have a big argument with him 2 weeks ago...

He abuse my dog twice, my dog went into "hospital" twice, i still got the x-ray of my dog bone broken. Tell me, if u hit by someone until half-death, the next time u meet him again, will u smile at him? of course i will become hostile. I asked him why abuse my dog, he said NO. i dim do so, even my neighbor come and tell me he is cold-blooded treat a small dog like tat. my dog are size of tzu zhu, do u believe such a small puppy attk u then left u no choice but to abuse it?..

and now he brainwash his fren twist the fact and accuse me.
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QUOTE(khelben @ Jan 12 2012, 06:09 PM)
I feel like punching this animal.
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The tzu zhu already got broken bones 2 times. Why you want to punch lagi?

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QUOTE(mercury8400 @ Jan 12 2012, 07:50 PM)
Wow!
I noticed a lot of people jump to conclusions based on 1 side of the story (TS story) without listening to his "animal" brother side of the story....

Anyway, this is other people's family problem. Like they say husband/wife or family members argument, we as outsiders, should not judge or intefere....

What happens in the family stays in the family....
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huhu 34 years old still jobless, what else u wan to hear lar?
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Hi All, the story might favor to my side, I'm not asking you to trust me. Anyway, just stop the debate. I will update once any progress.
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maybe jobless : didn hold any government/ office work. theres always 2 side of story, i doubt ill want to tell u guys my bad side if im writing 1 case like this. thats why theres court and lawyers
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post Jan 13 2012, 11:01 AM

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Nothing you can do about your father's house. But be watchful. he may after your house next.
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post Jan 13 2012, 11:28 AM

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sorry to hear you;ve such animal brother, but unfortunately I dun think theres anything you can do. Move to a frens hse at the moment, your things can move to a room in your new hse, speed up the reno and stay with your father.

Or rent a cheap apt and stay time being
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QUOTE(mercury8400 @ Jan 12 2012, 07:50 PM)
Wow!
I noticed a lot of people jump to conclusions based on 1 side of the story (TS story) without listening to his "animal" brother side of the story....

Anyway, this is other people's family problem. Like they say husband/wife or family members argument, we as outsiders, should not judge or intefere....

What happens in the family stays in the family....
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If someone asks us for help, then we shouldn't turn a blind eye.

But yes you're right, it's a 1 sided story. TS is looking for advice, and a ear. We can give him as much without interfering.

If we want to take action, like find the brother or what... then naturally the first thing I'd do is, here his side of the story first.

Though from my experience, such people do exist. It is known that among us, are psychopaths. People who have no conscience, no remorse for their actions.

They can cheat, lie, con or even bully to get what they want. And most of the time, these people have honed their skills pretty well.

Their so good, that from the outside, they appear like u and me.

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have faith.. one day your brother will insaf one.. im one living example.. and living thru guilt every single day... maybe your brother will insaf later when he gets older.
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Better not get involve, family conflict does involve anyone else besides the family. Sorry that you have to see all that but thats what happen when money and power is the main interest for people living in the family. Especially families who value money and success and pride over common sense. And im pretty sure your brother was taught just that.

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"He abuse my dog twice, my dog went into "hospital" twice, i still got the x-ray of my dog bone broken."

Dont tell me this is the guy who abuse a small puppy dog in the youtube .


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QUOTE(aarondotcom @ Jan 12 2012, 02:11 PM)
yes, i have a big argument with him 2 weeks ago. This was what happened, one of the main water pipe is leaking and my father inform him, and he told my father that "this is the shit made by u(including me), u guys goto settle it". Tat water pipe broken before.. so coincidence i was onleave, so my father call someone to fix it. like i said, tat 1 is main water pipe, to replace it, need to stop the water supply, and at the same time, tat animal using water in the toilet, once my father close the water supply, he ran down and scold my dad gao2 infront of the public, it is like a master scolding a dog. my father keep on apologize he keep on scolding, then i cannot tahan already, i ran down scold him gao2. I'm very sure this is the ignition. He smart enuf dun dare to argue with me infront of outsider because he know i will scold him that he con my parent money and house now still wan to act like the big boss of the house.

he brainwash all his frens that im the big villain in the house, i still rmb tat day while being chased out by him, his fren tell me"ur brother pay the house-loan, u only pay half the eletric and water bill, ur brother let u take the master room and u somemore let the dog out to bite him?". No surprise, he will brainwash his frens to the max. The house loan already paid off long time ago by my parent. I was using the master room is because he force me out of the guest room, then he use guest room for cooking and washing cloth bla bla bla(yup, cooking and washing on 2nd floor of a terrace-house). He abuse my dog twice, my dog went into "hospital" twice, i still got the x-ray of my dog bone broken. Tell me, if u hit by someone until half-death, the next time u meet him again, will u smile at him? of course i will become hostile. I asked him why abuse my dog, he said NO. i dim do so, even my neighbor come and tell me he is cold-blooded treat a small dog like tat. my dog are size of tzu zhu, do u believe such a small puppy attk u then left u no choice but to abuse it?

and about the electric & water bill every month I pay half, every month i pay rm100 for water and rm200 for electric bill. I work everyday, do u know i can consume that much of water and electric?this is already unfair to me. he waste all the water and electric and i have to cover half of it. And this is i hate the most, i complaint to my mum, she told me "nvm la, dun kira so much...".

and now he brainwash his fren twist the fact and accuse me.
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QUOTE(aarondotcom @ Jan 12 2012, 02:31 PM)
i will provide when the moment I feel comfort, i dun wan to post here, then tat animal see it will come and cari pasal again.
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QUOTE(aarondotcom @ Jan 13 2012, 10:57 AM)
Hi All, the story might favor to my side, I'm not asking you to trust me. Anyway, just stop the debate. I will update once any progress.
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sad to hear about your family's problem with this animal elder brother.
hope you settle the problems soon yar.

hows your preparation for chinese new year by the way?
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post Jan 13 2012, 04:47 PM

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QUOTE(meetxj9 @ Jan 13 2012, 03:36 PM)
Better not get involve, family conflict does involve anyone else besides the family. Sorry that you have to see all that but thats what happen when money and power is the main interest for people living in the family. Especially  families who value money and success and pride over common sense. And im pretty sure your brother was taught just that.
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We shouldn't think that way. It's because of this that, many cases of child abuse, or spouse abuse goes un reported.

Whether or not we have the right to interfere, should be based on a case to case basis. Whether "possible abuse" out weighs privacy.

If the guy is really an animal, and the victimized brother wants our opinion, why do we care about the animal's sense of privacy?

Of course, this doesn't warrant, a posse though.

We try to help without unfairly misjudging one side, by advising to talk to a lawyer. It's up to the lawyer to find out the truth.
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post Jan 13 2012, 05:31 PM

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no drill? gangster? house? animal? father?
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wadafuk is wrong with ppl? Hide here hide there hide for the rest of your life!?

TS already consider letting go his parent's house, doesnt mean he needs to sell HIS OWN HOUSE to avoid confrontation.

TS, stay in your house. It's legally yours.

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