STFU!

I read everything and I totally agree with it, from experiences. I was a good boy. But thankfully, I'm more exposed now and learnt to build self-confidence. Had not locked lips for the first 17 years of my life and now, they are like breakfast for me. Read it and learn!

i've just broke up with my gf...the reason is i just request a little small matter which is want she to sms/call me for sometimes(she doesn't call me at all but sms-ing will just happen 2 or 3 time a week.) and then she thought our attitude got problem already...in the end break up...

but before this...i gave her alot of gift...and she told me which will make her feel guilty(this i really dun understand lo) i tot gf would happy to receive gift from their bf de?

well....i generally feel good doing what 'the nice guys' do. i kinda believe that the 'hardships' i go through show that i'd put effort in my actions and not treat them as half-baked pies =/ yes, i worship my gf, i told her i needed her. we had sex. I do feel insecure...but that happened only 3 months ago. before that, i've been treating her nicely without desperation but more on free will. when she's happy, that just leaves a ticklish smile on my heart. eventually, things got ugly...in just 3 months....and after that, she dumped me for the recent 'bad' things i've done. we've been together for 2 years + so where does that land me? 'tragic nice guy'? ^^"

This post has been edited by together: Dec 26 2010, 05:42 PM

haha..i wish someone request me to do that ..but hmm

Soon you will la. Give yourself some time off first

Epic whining thread buster

this article is da bomb...there are so MANY "NICE GUYS" in /k/..

especially foreveraloneclub

I couldnt agree more with anzen here. I feel that it doesnt matter what type of guy you are, everything boils down to meeting the right person at the right time. There is no point in trying to advice or persuade a doormat to take a middle ground view towards relationships. I have tried before and got bitten as a result. So now, I have come to see the whole picture. Doormats may be disgusting or whiny to some, but still there is someone out there whom is willing to take their crap (or qualities whichever you see it).

I used to know of a "nice guy/doormat" whom I found out not too long ago that he has found his true love. He is deeply in love with her (I highly doubt so consider he falls in love way too easily based on past incidences), and I am sure the girl genuinely loves him. Now put it in a crude way, that girl is what I call that "someone" whom is willing to take his crap. That someone whom like those qualities/flaws (in whichever way you see it) in him. At the end of the day, one man's junk is another man's treasure I suppose...

It is nice to see this thread got pinned on CC.

With silverhawk's thread, I think this thread and silverhawk thread is probably the best thread in the whole forum.

HOHOHOHO! this is the best most epic anti whining thread ever! Long live TS!!

I know. It is ME. I'm the problem... everything is so true... how can i repent ? how can i change ?

the irony is that real "nice guys" never proclaim to be nice, and they fit the stereotype of "jerk" more than "nice guy" o.o;;

but yea, agree with the TS and the guy who posted few posts down about guys liking 'not so easy' girls xD

just for the sake of argument, it could also be that every girl you've come across has issues. not likely probable, but still possible.

although, it could also be that you're the one subconsciously picking the worst girls ever XD

bah, anyways, good thread, haven't been to this corner of the forums for a long long time, while i don't fully agree with the points 100%, they do indeed make some sense, and could lead to the right direction for "nice guys", if you're able to attune your own definitions to this article, and properly digest it. take what's useful, leave what's useless.

im a nice guy...im a doormat D< WHY COULDNT I FIND THIS EARLIER!

Still not too late... I'm a nice guy too... now don't want to be a doormat...

Sadly... being told a nice guy... but always get the end of the stick

This post has been edited by hairyLGS: Apr 11 2011, 06:21 PM

it sucks a lot...time to get rid of this "nice guy" persona

Its not easy to get rid of this persona really... it is like saying 'we are who we are' and it comes with the traits that is in us...

We just have to be careful only...

More aware la...sometimes we dont even know were doing it D:

Hmmm... true. I repeat that like twice... I am not even myself that time... which is bad...

the problem with personalities like the "nice guy" is that women take advantage of it ... so I'm never surprised when I hear about situations like this and the guy is practically crying because of what she did.