In short:

"Bad boy" = guy who got the girl.
"Nice guy" = guy who didn't get the girl and blames everyone else for it.

nice article.
but, 'nice guy' is too general to categorize them. i think it's more like sensitive guy.
and also it depends on how the girl want it. bad girls want bad boys. nice guy want nice girl.
god already chose the most suitable partner for everyone of us. just relax and you'll meet him/her.

Wow, fate huh? So I sit all day at home Prince Charming will come...

no I don't believe God has chosen someone for you ... you choose who you're gonna be with.
no you shouldn't be out there headhunting for someone, but you shouldn't be sitting at home doing nothing hoping he/she would show up either.

Moderation, people, moderation.

try watch the killer inside me. its a nice movie.

yeah i kinda realise tooo...

definition of "nice" is a bit deviant in this thread.


When someone say "nice guy", he/she means those who will hold your hand, open the door for you, chivalry? will stay by yourside when you need him the most, will not cheat on you, will not tell lies, will take responsibility... and also knows how to deny,

especially denying drinking too much in pubs because hes the one gonna drive u home later, but girls get turned down if the guy refuse to drink right?

That is a gentleman and a GENUINE guy ... not necessarily a nice guy

love is just like a game . It does not matter whether you are a nice guy or bad guy,all it needs is the right action at the right timing at the right place . Treating a girl too good does not necessarily secure the deal . You need to do the right thing to the right person.

If anyone hasn't read my topic, read it and come back here. All of it makes sense and was spot on with my previous relationship.

I don't understand why everyone is getting butthurt over it. It's all true.

Sometimes, we can't stomach the truth. We want to believe fairy tales do exist. When it happens, it's too late already.

yes, it explains the part where some guys are "too nice" and insecure. This only covers 50% of the whole situation. There is another 50% left where the article did not explain why most girls are b!tches to begin with.

because they think they're entitled to a certain manner of treatment but don't give out the same treatment to others. it's a two way thing, you can't put all the blame on one party.

You can't control how other people treat you. You can only control how you expect to be treated, and what kind of treatment you'll put up with. There's no point writing an article about your "other 50%", because it'll just be an article full of whining.

exactly. thus girl is partially responsible on this shit too, not only nice guy. Enough of whining? tired of guys whining? no one feckin force you to feckin read cupid corners every-single-feckin-day. lol

not really. whats the purpose of putting up this article if you are not helping? whine about whiners? lol

The only thing here about "whine-about-whiners" is that it'll actually help whiners get a clearer picture, so that the blaming can stop, hence makes one self-reflect upon oneself.

<sigh> This article helps by telling guys to stop being doormats. Which is something you can control. Girls who are b1tches is not something you can control, so whining about them would be, well, whining. Unna stan?

I unna stan xD
@selectt, noob13 makes a good point. This article is to make guys more self-aware of what their standards are and should be.

nice article.im a bit of the nice guy definition.that quite explain things.wow relationships are complicated.

I'd have to say, Bravo for the wonderful article...

This is why "Nice guys fail"... they do not know what they want...

if guys think that this is brutal, then you've never heard of this saying:

"Lessons not learned in blood are soon forgotten"

Nice guys need to learn that if the results are the same everytime they try their luck in a relationship, then someting must be awfully wrong with them...

Therefore, to all the nice guys and I say "Nice guys" out there, Don't sell yourself short... Improve your self-confidence and list down the criteria u want from the girl u wanna be with...

All the best and stop looking into the past and start afresh...

it's not between bad boys and nice guys. It's between nice guys and good guys.

derp, to much info

This post has been edited by cake_everyday: Dec 17 2010, 08:52 AM