I couldnt agree more with anzen here. I feel that it doesnt matter what type of guy you are, everything boils down to meeting the right person at the right time. There is no point in trying to advice or persuade a doormat to take a middle ground view towards relationships. I have tried before and got bitten as a result. So now, I have come to see the whole picture. Doormats may be disgusting or whiny to some, but still there is someone out there whom is willing to take their crap (or qualities whichever you see it).

I used to know of a "nice guy/doormat" whom I found out not too long ago that he has found his true love. He is deeply in love with her (I highly doubt so consider he falls in love way too easily based on past incidences), and I am sure the girl genuinely loves him. Now put it in a crude way, that girl is what I call that "someone" whom is willing to take his crap. That someone whom like those qualities/flaws (in whichever way you see it) in him. At the end of the day, one man's junk is another man's treasure I suppose...