A guy and a gal can be juz fren, but at at point or another, they will fall for each other... maybe temporary, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, maybe forever...

well u said 90% had fallen, the rest of 10% are ur platonic frens lo.


imagine this scenario: Well if a guy have a gf liao, and consistently meets his female good fren , but for normal stuff like yumchar or just be a friend, helps her if she needs help etc (like how he treat his guy buddies too), I'm sure its still sustainable as platonic right? Its not as if that guy has made any "special" xtra moves. If this happens, what are the chances that the girl (a typical one) might start to "lose control of the frenship" and start falling for that guy?

i still feel that if the guy and girl are too close each other, they must got something between them(俗称"有耶")...

hmm...i personally do think guyz n gurlz can b close fren...nothing is impossible ~~

sure can be good friend lo

yeah,why not??

i hv few good friend(guy) wo...
v oso closely friend
there is nothing happen between us..
purely friend only
y not...

My former bestie was a guy (and my ex-boyfie).
Apparently I find it easier to talk to a girl bestie than him.
We're still good friends though

Do like hitz.fm...
tell ur guy friend u just broke up with ur bf and u wan to be with him.
or if u dun have bf tell him u realised u love him.
im sure he will fall for that

before and after its still counted

until now, I will still say the same. Cannot.

good fren and normal fren, whats the difference ? Fren also. Not say is belongs to special category. If want special why not save some time, save some effort go find your destinied 1 ? Instead of recognizing each other as good fren and hoping something special will happen. lol

and also, those who already attached or couple better dun get to close to your opposite sex close fren.

it all depends...
best friends/good friends/close friends...
when a girl and guy see each other alot ... and always...
somehow, there's this feeling there... hard to explain... probably not enough for you to get together but would have a chance... alot of lasting couples come from friends or good friends or even best friends... seen many...

i've my fair share of good friends... females... not much feeling because we're both attached but then again... when we were both single... things were a little different... almost like couple but not yet couple... wanting to get together but don't want to lose friendship... and etc etc

but it varies from person to person... if its about your bf/gf being too close to a particular friend(opposite sex) ... just be open and let them knwo about it... and of course TRUST them about it... normally... it is because you don't trust them that ruins the relationship and your partner would end up wit that friend that you suspected....

[quote=WaCKy-Angel,Jan 22 2008, 01:46 PM]
Do like hitz.fm...
tell ur guy friend u just broke up with ur bf and u wan to be with him.
or if u dun have bf tell him u realised u love him.
im sure he will fall for that


y should we break this relationship??
since this is comfortable for us
Dont u think to couple every1 is a tired work???
loss ur own thinking and satistified for some1
lossing mind for him and make the relationship more n more tile
and the end...
dumping us for the non sense reason...
sometime in single status oso could be very enjoying 2

Of course can.... But if the guy already being booked.... then harder for him lor.... but good friends are forever. They are willing to help to their means every time you need them.

surely can...

it depends on the personal character of 2 person.. which is the guy n the girl are they matc to be perfect best friend/ good friend or even close friend.

yes TRUST is important.

it happen in me with my buddz which i call him my heng tai. we do call each other darl (darling), or even dear or b**** or ******* or etc.
we could be even more closer then bf/gf... cause we understood each other so well.

n he has become apart of my life like my bro..

ofcourse can be good friends larr..

i myself have many many good girl friends.. around 7 very close friends..
can talk on the phone for hours.. go out just 2 of us watch movie or dinner..
when go out, put arms around each other.. they sit on my lap.. etc.. (basicly all the things people do in relationships before all the kissing la lol =P)
and their boyfriends dun get jealous (well most of the time)

and we never fall for each other. guess we just know too much private stuff about each other lar. =D

yes...i also have few good/best female friends and our friendship more than 10 years already

really????
anyone that i might know?

Hell ya. Why not? Most of my best friends are like guys untill they start falling in love with me. LOL.

I like to act like a tomboy but yet i love the idea of how i can cheat my way around not having to do all the heavy work and dirty stuff

I enjoy a man's conversation more than i enjoy the ladies talk. Very much about what the bf did and what the bf was, what to wear and what to use. Beachy and beaching about other woman. I dont mind the info of whens the next sale happening and where it is though

Man's topic move along very fast. They talk about something, everyone gives their two cents worth of thoughts and then move on. Prolly alittle bit of discussion still but it never drags for the entire week.

Well, overall a man and a woman can still be besties if its well balanced and also we are aware of the boundaries that we are not allowed to cross.

But then when u said something bout gals n boys can be best frends, here something u should b careful of. It happen me though. I have close female frend around, where we share anything, like sex, porno, period and so on. There's no gap for shyness or watsoever. But then when i develop feeling for one of them who r still single, n we bcame couple, here comes interesting story. Some of my frend starting to avoid calling me to yum cha. I dunno wat the real reason, but there's totally a gap being developed. Having some "special" reason for the frendship should be kicked out as the reason for the gap, as they too have their own gf n bf. For them, it's really weird for frend to bcome couple. Mayb they think one day i may also fall for them? But then i tought shouldn't us bcome frend to knoe each other better b4 moving further into relationship ? If frend cannot bcome lover, means there's only love at 1st sight ? Am i wrong ? But if so, how would u probably knoe his characteristic or know him or her well ?

So, conclusion guys n gals can b best frend, but must b very careful not to developed unwanted feeling. If not, mayb u will b like me?
Juz my 3 cent. Lolz

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