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 Can gals and guys be good fren?

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alanyuppie
post Jan 11 2008, 11:24 AM

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QUOTE(Shirli @ Dec 6 2007, 06:58 PM)
Definitely Can....My best fren were a guy,been fren with him since college time(hmmmm already been 12 years).
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hehe.. u're hitting "3 pages" liao..!

so did that guy ever hinted to get to the next level with u? not even once?
alanyuppie
post Jan 20 2008, 01:39 PM

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QUOTE(WiNdGa| @ Jan 20 2008, 04:39 AM)
Am I the only girl who is going to say that guys and gals cannot have platonic friendship? Honestly, 90% of my guy friends ended up falling in love with me. My hubby is one of them and now he is my hubby and my best friend!!

Anyone heard of the proverb "Yat kau sang cheng..."? So, how is this possible at all?
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well u said 90% had fallen, the rest of 10% are ur platonic frens lo.


imagine this scenario: Well if a guy have a gf liao, and consistently meets his female good fren , but for normal stuff like yumchar or just be a friend, helps her if she needs help etc (like how he treat his guy buddies too), I'm sure its still sustainable as platonic right? Its not as if that guy has made any "special" xtra moves. If this happens, what are the chances that the girl (a typical one) might start to "lose control of the frenship" and start falling for that guy?



 

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