yup! i think it's possible that guys and girls can be good friends

y not?? i got a few good fren (buddies) which is guy also....

confirm can...all my best friends are always the girls....
in my opinion,it is better for us to sharing our things with girls..
because they are more mature and sometime they also can give us the useful solution...

good friends with benefits is more like it.

not necessarily. My best friend is a guy and we've been best friends for about four or five years now. We have our own partners, but we're recognized as purely platonic so we have no trouble at all.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Aug 1 2007, 11:11 AM

err... i don agree wif gals are more mature part... got bad exp on tat b4 d...

No doubt is not all gals r mature.....BUT majority of gal r mature than a guy who is same age with her...

it depends. it's a two-way thingy just like a relationship. if both of u have the same mentality, then it's ok.

there're ppl who r just fren but r casual sexmate.

i have a lunch partner which is a gal and ppl started to tease us already. Just don't said best fren.....normal fren also ppl start to talk. Make both of us so kam kai.

most defiantly yes..
becoz we don understand much of each other's preferences..thats what gives us such great topics to talk about...
at least from my experiences....

I got a very good friend once ( a girl..duh) back in Form 4. We have a lot of common interest and friendly toward each other. She's a very good frenz.

But somehow she says the wrong thing to me and we go downhill from there. I quite miss her as a fren now...

mayb u can call her up and jus talk for fun...

of course girls and guys can be good frens..
but jus the matter how the girls think and the guys think......
i´ve bad experience becos the girl heard too much from a guy saying tat girl and guys cannot be good fren....
since than.......ai......hope tat guy get the same situation when he try to close with this girl... hahaa:lol:

I try but well its not like in the good days. But at least there is no hard feeling between us now.

gals tends to hav seasonal best guy frens
first, gal might think...hhmm, tis guy is okie, nice to talk to, great sense of humor, can b fren
later, gal might think...this guy realli great, can share all my probs, summore treat me so good(like lil sis)
finally, gal might think...wow, this other guy is great, nice to talk to, great sense of humor, can b fren, n my old fren still close to me even i dun talk to him so much oredi, onli sometimes can share personal stuff

guys alwayz wants permenant best fren, at least with a gal
first, guy might think...yup, i do not hav spark 4 her, can b best buddy since we so close
later, guy might think...wow, she let me hug her, she keep on telling me she n bf got probs, mayb hinting me
finally, guy might think...yup, i wanna b a spannar...coz i really like her

so, guys...if ur best fren is a gal, make sure dun persist to be so close when the season is over
sign of season over: she still talk personal things to u, but not so personal, n on occasion
dun ever think everi little things gal do is a sign for u to proceed...ITS NOT...IS A FRIENDLY GESTURE

n gals, if u wanna make a guy ur best fren, make sure dun mislead him...
dun even let them hav the slightest opportunity to think u r interested(IF U R REALLY NOT)

Most of my good friends are girls. Some are ex-crushes though but things turned out fine.

i can't agree wif tat... i've met gals 8 years my senior and 8 years dumber...

u are very true.... some time when a guy hav a BEST friend (gal) mostlyi is oni a person.... not a group.... mayb most of the guy think they hav alot of best girl friend..... the "best friend" part mayb diff..... like how deep ur friendship is towards one gal... or u think u are best friend with a gal oledy when u talk everything.... but for other ppl ... mayb they jus see u both as a normal friend... so wat i wanna say is the "best friend" word is really hav to see each individual... how much u did for her...

and i also think tat there's no such thing as best friend between guy and gal when they both are single... ( i think at least they like sth of each other ) but nvr wanna think so much about it.... enjoy every moment togather... ( so nvr quarrel like gf and bf ) so this way is much more enjoyble.... but they duno sometime they hav been cross the line... where they almost seen as a couple for outsider's eyes...

gal really hav to becareful dun mislead a guy..... and guy also hav to be strong and control tats wat i think ....

Definitely can..but should know the boundaries especially if you have a partner.

if both no feeling can, but very seldom lar(at least in my case)