Can gals and guys be good fren?
Can gals and guys be good fren?
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May 29 2006, 02:24 AM
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Nah...I don't think so. Casual friends, sure. Exclusively best friends where they think its ok for only the two of them to hang out together on a daily basis, hell no! I don't like guys who has female best friends. Please don't give me the lame excuse "but..but we're just best friends!" when I catch the two of you sleeping together on the same bed. There should be some kind of limit to what you can do with your "best friend" and your girlfriend. Especially, if you already have a gf/bf, please don't go all touchy-feely with your opposite sex "best friend".
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May 29 2006, 10:32 AM
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i hope to be good friend with angel(the thread starter)
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May 29 2006, 06:11 PM
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i think a girl can have a good guy friend, but a guy cannot really have a good girlfriend. what i'm trying to say that i think most girls know what they're thinking about, but if the guy treats u as a good female friend, there might have some intentions. hahaha well not all people are the same though.
as for girls.. if u've got a boy i think it's best not to have good guy friends..he might be jealous. |
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May 30 2006, 10:57 PM
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QUOTE(kerrk @ May 29 2006, 06:11 PM) i think a girl can have a good guy friend, but a guy cannot really have a good girlfriend. what i'm trying to say that i think most girls know what they're thinking about, but if the guy treats u as a good female friend, there might have some intentions. hahaha well not all people are the same though. same mahh... if we guys have a lotta of lady friends, our gf will be jealous as well. even worse, they say things like "ask your so and so to do lorr..". as if the "so and so" is my gf. aiyoh, girls ahh... takes things very personal lerr. that is why, no close lady friends. got also let our gf "phang chou/shoo away" with a fly swat. see... now want one single miserable lalat also don't have. so sad. as for girls.. if u've got a boy i think it's best not to have good guy friends..he might be jealous. |
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May 31 2006, 04:32 PM
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QUOTE(ångel @ Apr 14 2005, 02:50 PM) Just wondering that can a gal and a guy be a good fren? My fren alwiz tell me there is no such thing as good fren between gals and guys. Sure the guy want something from you or in either way. Is it true? Yes we can be platonic friends all right. I have just as many male friends as girlfriends. I find I can talk to the guys the most personal things and it stays with them, unlike girls......and I can count on them all the time.. |
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Jun 5 2006, 01:04 PM
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Girls and guys definitely can be good friends!!!
If not, guys will have many girlfriends, right? |
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Jun 6 2006, 01:36 AM
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QUOTE(kerrk @ May 29 2006, 06:11 PM) i think a girl can have a good guy friend, but a guy cannot really have a good girlfriend. what i'm trying to say that i think most girls know what they're thinking about, but if the guy treats u as a good female friend, there might have some intentions. hahaha well not all people are the same though. as for girls.. if u've got a boy i think it's best not to have good guy friends..he might be jealous. QUOTE(fashionbuyer @ May 31 2006, 04:32 PM) Yes we can be platonic friends all right. I have just as many male friends as girlfriends. I find I can talk to the guys the most personal things and it stays with them, unlike girls......and I can count on them all the time.. i hope to be good friends with u two also |
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Aug 4 2006, 03:41 PM
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can......girls and guys can be frenz....
i got 3 very good girl frenz ...now erm 6 years alreadi we know each other i fallen for one of them be4 but we over that already now we al just very very good frens... we help out each other ....talk and comfort if anyone are sad... i can discuss girl stuff and they can ask y guys this y guys tat.... all of them have bf and i think they don't mind me being their good fren coz we understand the boundaries i always ask them out to eat, drink, movie, talkin on the phone....etc etc |
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Aug 4 2006, 04:28 PM
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Can. I have male good friends. =p
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Aug 5 2006, 09:02 AM
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For sure can be good frens lar, if wanna cheat there's many ways..don't need 2 be goodfrens
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Aug 9 2006, 08:52 PM
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yes...
why not? |
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Aug 10 2006, 12:55 AM
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983 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Rawang - Sepang - Pasir Gudang |
why not ask these question then... if a girl rejects a guy, can both of them become close frens...
well... for me... the girls who rejected me.... one of them became quite close with me... another in da end became my adik angkat... |
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Aug 10 2006, 05:37 PM
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QUOTE(fashionbuyer @ May 31 2006, 04:32 PM) Yes we can be platonic friends all right. I have just as many male friends as girlfriends. I find I can talk to the guys the most personal things and it stays with them, unlike girls......and I can count on them all the time.. yeah... my gf also say like that... she say when make fren with gal they will say sumthing bad behind u.... and dun feel like talk any personal to them... but when come to guys she can talk a lot include family and her relation.... that's y she don had many gal fren but got lot of guy fren.... QUOTE(Larrylow @ Jun 5 2006, 01:04 PM) sure y not....QUOTE(pangping1510 @ Aug 4 2006, 04:28 PM) i'm available... lolz.... my gf also support me to find more gal fren.... |
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Aug 10 2006, 07:52 PM
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I think can lah dont lah every girl you know you want to marry her because she is so sweet
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Aug 12 2006, 04:10 AM
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442 posts Joined: Dec 2004 From: Kuala Lumpur, Kepong, Desa Parkcity. |
Er... for me... casual friend sure.. but... when getting really close... Girl always will fall to me... then finally cannot be fren anymore... I dunno why... i treat everyone just like good friend... also dunno why girl will so easy fall into someone... and if kena rejact... cannot be fren anymore one... come on... be sporting la... Don because of this spoilt nice nice friendship ma... right?
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Aug 13 2006, 08:44 AM
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One way or another, girl is the most beautiful creature God ever created.. hehehe
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Aug 13 2006, 12:38 PM
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best friends... how bout the gal says "bro and sis" relationship???
wad u pip thinks? will it last? or will end up engaged? coz i'm having problem... *sob* |
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Aug 13 2006, 08:12 PM
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QUOTE(Lipyueng @ Aug 12 2006, 04:10 AM) Er... for me... casual friend sure.. but... when getting really close... Girl always will fall to me... then finally cannot be fren anymore... I dunno why... i treat everyone just like good friend... also dunno why girl will so easy fall into someone... and if kena rejact... cannot be fren anymore one... come on... be sporting la... Don because of this spoilt nice nice friendship ma... right? Why you so damn lucky one!!!!! No GIRL FAll For me even though been around with girls for one year |
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Aug 14 2006, 12:15 AM
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erm... i think it can be exist!! cos i got a lot of 'bro', they treat as a guy as well!!
a bit troublesome cos they all treat me as a guy so nobody woo me at all... |
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Aug 14 2006, 12:19 AM
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can.... especially when both are colleagues
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