first of all, i dont want to use my wealth to find my other half, it is like the person likes me because of my wealth, and makes me like an atm machine, which i dislike...it makes the whole relationship becomes...contract-based...and the statement "have money, have amoi", what's the point of having a gf that admire u coz of ur money?...what is the different between this and a pet (why pet? coz...u can give food to the pet...and the pet will start clinging to u...so it is an similar example to the above situation)?

secondly, age is not a matter here, the matter is, i totally not interested anymore, few years back, i rather looking forward to have one, but now, not really, well, one thing that i noticed the girls around me are:-
bf type(for those girl who have bf around my age):-
1) very tall (180cm and above)
2) very handsome (taiwan/jap/korean star looks)
3) rich? not really

then? when working? most female (not all...) will look for fat wallet...which makes me feel so fake for a relationship to happen...haha, it is just what i noticed, so practically, i want to find a gf? it is not a matter of old or young, just that i'm not interested in "contract-based" relationship:)

first of all, i dont want to use my wealth to find my other half, it is like the person likes me because of my wealth, and makes me like an atm machine, which i dislike...it makes the whole relationship becomes...contract-based...and the statement "have money, have amoi", what's the point of having a gf that admire u coz of ur money?...what is the different between this and a pet (why pet? coz...u can give food to the pet...and the pet will start clinging to u...so it is an similar example to the above situation)?

secondly, age is not a matter here, the matter is, i totally not interested anymore, few years back, i rather looking forward to have one, but now, not really, well, one thing that i noticed the girls around me are:-
bf type(for those girl who have bf around my age):-
1) very tall (180cm and above)
2) very handsome (taiwan/jap/korean star looks)
3) rich? not really

then? when working? most female (not all...) will look for fat wallet...which makes me feel so fake for a relationship to happen...haha, it is just what i noticed, so practically, i want to find a gf? it is not a matter of old or young, just that i'm not interested in "contract-based" relationship:)

i think this is an insult to all girls around you because you think they are
1.) only like tall guys
2.) only like handsome guys
3.) only like rich guys...
if that's the only quality you think a girl is looking for in a guy, then i'm not surprised you didnt have a gf...

for this part...i have forgot to mention, it is not an insult, because it is fact, the girls that i knew, those who ALREADY HAVE bf, they bf type are:-
1.) tall guys
2.) handsome guys (this part does not intersect with tall guys criteria...)
3.) rich guys...(did i said this line? i think i mentioned RICH? NOT REALLY...for their bf's family background, just normal kind of family)

for ur second part, hmm, maybe u r right...a man with a stable financial can give more security to girls...
but when i rich, i cant really identify the girl likes me because of money or me...

and it is hard to find this kind of girl...
"i like u, i dont care u are rich or not, for better living, we can work hard together and create it..."

First bolded part: then again, is because you dont know what love is!

when woman fall in love, she just wont mind whether you are rich or poor..

she will just love you the way you are!
second bolded part: well, indeed some girls dont buy that idea but i tell you most of the will! dont ever judge because you havent meet one! is not fair!

agree agree!!

you just can feel it when she is the one, love you fully not because of ur money...if you can't feel it, then i think you haven't met 'the one'...

on the other hand, why you guys always think that girls fall for only "tall, handsome and rich" guys? i know plenty of guys who just want "pretty, cute and preferably rich" as their girlfriends...feel very blek blek because the guy's quality is not even up to my mark (and i'm not a choosy type)...should buy them a mirror...and what a shame to those guys that like girls because she's rich....or have rich family...euwww....

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Added on May 18, 2010, 1:25 pm

yes, i agree, girls are not always fall for  "tall, handsome and rich" guys, as u said, they like capable guys...
well, for one of my case, a few years back, i'm good in studies(well, just being ok), strong in assignment presentation, u know what is the girl told me? i feel so  ...

"u r just too capable, good at everything, i'm not suitable for u, i feel pressure around u, just like i'm standing beside a high status person like president of USA, do u understand the pressure?"

well, i really don't understand what is a girl criteria...really complicated...

wow...u r surely attractive to ur coursemates   

see? no need to be tall, handsome and rich...just being yourself will do...

i think u misunderstood...the girl was actually rejecting me...haha
this is what she said

"u r just too capable, good at everything, i'm not suitable for u, i feel pressure around u, just like i'm standing beside a high status person like president of USA, do u understand the pressure?"

too capable also will be pressure to girl, less capable will also be pressure to girl...really complicated...

Hi.

Would like to share my real story..

im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..

i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..

but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..

im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment)  and i have a stable career at my age..

and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....

really...

there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..

but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..

"have u ever got a real bf?'"

this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...

i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...

i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"

and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...

maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?

i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....

if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

LOL so u and TS can double date wif me