May 16 2010, 07:11 AM
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and i have a stable career at my age.. and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise.... really... there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy... everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds.. but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf.. "have u ever got a real bf?'" this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate... i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust... i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?" and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this... maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right? i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss.... if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi... 
hey gurl chill. ur just 22 n alrd bout bf bf? then i shud be worried more.
imo, from my personal experience, u really need to get out of the house more.
communicate with the outside world. get to know what is good what is bad.
enjoy ur life while ur still free from any commitment. dont care if ppl tease for not having bf yet.
have u ever had a steady/real bf before? if u never, dont expect a guy to come to u perfect.
even when he's perfect it doesnt mean u are. so that's y i advise u communicate with ppl more,not only to expose urself to whats good and bad,but also to learn more about yourself.
i use to be like u too,always contained myself from the outside world and always think that im good.
always thinks that im not sensitive,very open minded,very cheerful, etc.
but it turns out that i was this type of person while mixing with my colleagues.
i do thank my colleagues/my new found friends for pointing me out my weaknesses, n feel that im a much better person than i was b4.
on the bf part..i dont rili care if ppl tease me cos i always have this thinking, 'when its time,itll come'
but i do agree on having a little bit of experience. im not saying to fool around a guy.
what i meant was,if someone comes to you n say he's interested in you..how bout giving him a chance,some sort of stepping stone. learn how to treat a man, learn to divide time between work/dating/friends/family/misc. and also learn what type of man u want.
not everything is perfect on the first time.
for the time being, get out of the house more. but control yourself.
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