Hi.

Would like to share my real story..

im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..

i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..

but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..

im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment)  and i have a stable career at my age..

and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....

really...

there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..

but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..

"have u ever got a real bf?'"

this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...

i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...

i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"

and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...

maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?

i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....

if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

yes, they are some girls tat looking for a rich men as that kind of men can give them security in term of money...

i am not agree with them totally.. for me, i think girls should be independent.. although had a rich bf or husband, girls oso need to depend herself by working... to see the outside world.. dunt let the guys think that we r always depend on them..

for me, it doesnt matter the guy is rich o not, at long as he got the ambition (siong chun sam), i dunt mind to work with him together to build a good & happy family.. as long as he got the ambition and confident on it... i always said a happy family is when "kung yat fan pho yat fan" is in the family.. wife will understand what her husband encountered during the work and so do him...

for me money is important but the important thing is to get a good bf and husband..

if the man is so rich, but playboy.. im sure i will be the one who suffer in tat relationship..

so to omniknight86, not every gals are like tat... and picky doesnt mean that we are looking or hunting for a rich man..

we picky just becox we want to find a good and caring bf & husband...

and the most important thing for me, he can love my family too.. this is very very important for me in choosing a bf... or husband...

as i dunt want to get hurt... 

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Added on April 13, 2010, 11:22 am
of course money is important.. but got enough money is enough oredi for me...

no need to be like millionaire.. got money for our own commitment, and no need to borrow money from relatives or frens is considered ok lol...

not every gals had the opportunity to become millionaire's wife..

if got the chance oso, their husband oso will not loyal to them for whole life.

u r very matured in thinking.. u know how to think about ppl's feeling.. normally i heard ppl said secretary is sexytary..

not all sec or pa are like tat.. there are still good a good sec or pa that depend their own capabilities..

when ppl said tat like admin clerk only ma, i think these kind of ppl did not think about their feeling. admin clerk oso human ma.. in an organisation, all staff are important too... the bosses and top mgmt also need to depend on the admin staff to smoothen their work ma... right?

spanker, although at beginning, i thought u r a very negative person n always feed back the negative one, but now i know u r not.. u r able to think deeply and rationale...

i'm 23, single and never had a girlfriend during secondary school/uni time, still feel happy.

propose wat?

she means wait till the god makes the water to flood up den only she will swim ...