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 Apr 9 2010, 12:29 AM
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in the times of demanding from others (not your cup of tea) why don't you think are you making yourselves not a cup of tea for many? sometimes we need to tolerate in certain issue, if we demand too much than no happiness forever
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Apr 13 2010, 10:40 AM
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in the times of demanding from others (not your cup of tea) why don't you think are you making yourselves not a cup of tea for many? sometimes we need to tolerate in certain issue, if we demand too much than no happiness forever
QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 10:25 AM) 170cm.. its no me that said im pretty.. its most of my frens commented.. if you didn't think that you are pretty, why post it here instead... hehe.. i am very humble person lol...    haha... |
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Apr 13 2010, 10:44 AM
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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 10:42 AM) i posted it here just to share my feeling.. when get peer pressure from relatives... with your mentality of over demanding, can you achieve happiness by keep on demanding? my 1st sentence had said it...when you think of others who are suitable for you think the opposite site..then probably you get to learn something. it is not meant for fun...just would like to get u all support.. not posted here just for fun... pls dunt misunderstanding me... |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:02 AM
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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 10:52 AM) i got wat u meant... before dating the person already have high expectation, then what is the use of the term "Love" after all is it just used by girls to lie to themselves that they want "Love" ? of course i understand the concern of being choosy in choosing a successful man but how many man out there are "successful" or be able to develop to other stage? is it why there are so many "Affair" out there? tats y i let it be natural.. off course i need to look for a good guy.. yes i am picky, but i did expect guys will picky as me too.. if a guy just cincai to get a gf w/o any criteria or high expectation, tat guy i also will not choose... tats mean the guys are not serious in looking for a good and serious gf.. im picky becos i want to get a bf tat can develop to another stage.. im very serious in this matter...im not just look for a bf just to dating only.. im thinking for my future as well.. although some ppl said this cant be controlled.. but i m particular on this.. i dunt want to get hurt at the end... Clearly love is not something you are looking for but however stability and money is the main criteria. |
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Apr 13 2010, 12:36 PM
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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 13 2010, 11:15 AM) yes, they are some girls tat looking for a rich men as that kind of men can give them security in term of money... that again is not so reflective of the reality out there, ambition guys are everywhere....we as guys have 1 common objective which is to find as much money there as possible, because we have the responsibility but however i doubt that not many guys have this mentality of take care of wife or GF....i.e She no need to work also can....i have seen too many examples out there that guys left by his gf or wife because no money and got other man offered or a better man have appeared....i am not agree with them totally.. for me, i think girls should be independent.. although had a rich bf or husband, girls oso need to depend herself by working... to see the outside world.. dunt let the guys think that we r always depend on them.. for me, it doesnt matter the guy is rich o not, at long as he got the ambition (siong chun sam), i dunt mind to work with him together to build a good & happy family.. as long as he got the ambition and confident on it... i always said a happy family is when "kung yat fan pho yat fan" is in the family.. wife will understand what her husband encountered during the work and so do him... for me money is important but the important thing is to get a good bf and husband.. if the man is so rich, but playboy.. im sure i will be the one who suffer in tat relationship.. so to omniknight86, not every gals are like tat... and picky doesnt mean that we are looking or hunting for a rich man.. we picky just becox we want to find a good and caring bf & husband... and the most important thing for me, he can love my family too.. this is very very important for me in choosing a bf... or husband...  Money is important...good or no good is very subjective Like many people said...a man give you so much money per month, gives you a car, house you want or not? depends on the girls...but i hardly seen any who will reject of course i do not said all girls are like that...but the girls who want love is rare. being picky is okay...but we have to understand that people can be picky on us as well, if you don't mind people picky then i guess it is okay....since picky is okay....then the word love is no longer applicable in today society...but however it is much more on the man ability |
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