I also dun see someone who say others stupid without a reason, mature.

I don't see someone who say others narrow-minded without a reason, mature.

I don't see someone who prove people wrong without a fact or figure, mature.

p.s: I think "mature" itself is already an adjective, there is no "-ed" needed
But, how come you got matured and mature one?

seriously you do not deserve even a shred of sympathy.

What do you expect out of a person who has given up on you in the first place and don't you think out of all these while she deserved someone better and yet you have the audacity to call James an Axxhole?I believe you would have done the same if u were james but seriously i do not think violence solves anything.

You should really be ashamed of yourself, barging into people's life and expect people to patch up with you while she's moved on. Very selfish and childish of an act i'd say.

Perhaps the best thing to do if you were a gentleman was to let go and move on. The best memories are the ones that you left behind because only then you will realise it was the one you missed and wished you had. That makes you a better man.

Oh Winner, I need more flame wars to train up my critical views and thoughts.

My whole day is wasted to flame with a man who support polyamorny.

whats wrong with polygamy?

it helps single ladies get marry to men who can afford to have multiple wives...

its better than being mistress ... do you know how hard living as a mistress? who prolly will never have chance to marry the man they love.. even if they cant have him alone at least they get to share him..

This post has been edited by Flizzardo: Dec 7 2009, 06:13 PM

sounds like a tvb drama lol

hahahaha... really luv dis... both u make my day... luv u both~ haha

agree with u
now he only accept those ppl who supporting him to pursue her
his mind all about pursuing her only
he say that we are immature.... but does he think of himself mature enough?
a mature person wont do those thing go to his ex-gf until she need to call HELP ~~~
yes, if we are immature .... then what he is?? can we call him crazy? or insane? or lost his control?


sorry TS... i'm not here to argue or what
i just feel that u should let her go for her own happiness and life
love isn't about you only ..... don't be so SELFISH
i knew how much u love her by reading your story
she just like fated to be with you when you meet her in airport and study together
like god sent her for u.... but have u think that she not belong to you?????
she also a human being ... she got feeling too.... how much u hurt her in the past, she still got the scar in her heart
let her choose whether she wanted to be with u or not
let her choose her own life
i feel that the way u treating her is damn SELFISH
that y we all dont agree with u to pursue her

such a guy like you, high income, businessman, Uni student and rich family background ... but in the matter of love, u being selfish
all what u did to her now is for your own sake ~~~
anyway ~~~ i wish u good luck ~~~

This post has been edited by outsider: Dec 7 2009, 11:40 PM

o.O?
kinda true when i read the whole story all over again.
reminds me of a novel actually.
the whole story is almost 98% like this.
TS, you plagiarized from there ah?
haiya..

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Added on December 8, 2009, 12:44 amhaha. his story didn't melt my heart at all.
It makes my heart burning with flames of anger!

This post has been edited by michellelurve: Dec 8 2009, 12:44 AM

8 years wasted.

If she ever accepts you back, well.............hopefully you are not like during the first post.....if not, then......it is as good as none.

actually, i also suspect TS story make up one (due to our legendary ihatekiasuppl who create multiple account and spam made up stories).

but, whatever. i'm free, even if it's fake, i'd play!

good luck TS wat a long journey u have walked! is been 9years!

Still trapped in the whole obedient-son-bad-BF cycle huh ?

Apparently you never read my previous post, so I'm reposting:




Do know that you've already done your best to fulfill your dad's expectations since you were kid. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. In the future, when the time is right, you should tell him straight in person that he should stay the fark out of your personal relationships.



He ruined your 8 years of relationships after all, don't you see ? Why aren't you angry ? Because of him you couldn't take one mere trip to Australia with your GF. You couldn't be more intimate with your GF. Because of him your GF was forced to be 'trained' on high profile situations like attending parties/golf/etc. Because of his high expectations of you to master various business-related skills and do well academically you never had a chance to just relax and be with your GF..... IT WAS BECAUSE OF YOUR DAD WHO GAVE YOU SEPARATE VOUCHERS THAT LED TO THAT "SEPARATE HOTEL ROOMS" INCIDENT, REMEMBER ? Let's not fool yourself into a sense of obedient denial now. Have the guts to face the truth, what you really feel. Just because he's your dad doesn't mean you can't get angry at him.... you're only human, after all, no ?

Even though he may never be proud of your achievements compared to his own, he will at least get a shock that his only "obedient son" suddenly man up and fought back against his unrealistic expectations. I can assure you that even though he may be pissed off for a while, eventually he will be proud of you for taking charge of your own life.

Just talk to your Dad calmly how you really feel like mature adults do.



Finally, I dedicate this song to you, theWinner.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XqTzrUJNtyU

winner, things are easy when u know what u want & need the most
now u think and choose 1
which of the following options u wanna have with u in the rest of your life?

A : your dad & mom
B : your job , your phd or watever
C : your winne

the answer is pretty simple, your dad and mom wont stay forever with u, you gonna live with your wife til old/die
and if u choose B, yes u can be very very rich in the future, a doctor/prof , with lots of money , but will u happy if the person u care the most married with another guy? money isn't everything man

now it's the time that she needs u by her side, if i were u, i will sacrifice everything and stay by her side, and about father? nah, i make my options of my life, im not a dog that need to obey to him, can't live without him? that's bullsh*t . and bout studies can continue later on

if you can't even sacrifice for the one u love, call yourself loser and not winner

go ahead and do whatever u want, life is short, dont add regrets in it

This post has been edited by dertb: Dec 8 2009, 04:38 AM

yea... this story seems more believable to me.

Replies from TS have always been self-victimising, and no, he doesn't condemn anyone but himself. Playing the role of a repentant, humble man who's turned a new leaf eh?

Me too, I will play.
But if he posts his picture up, I will play more!

Story too fake to be real ady. Dupe detector is blinking to teh max

it could be true but just a bit twisted i suppose.

the story might be real, but it was well-scripted. i used to write poems for my gf but i can never write anything whenever i am broken-hearted.

dont think he is hatekiasuppl though, coz the engrand is better than him

further, hatekiasuppl dupe very easy to be spotted by baronic

if this was a hatekiasuppl story, the gf would be a fat stalker