I am 19 and still never had any relationships before, in fact, i had quite a few failed attempts in courting.

But for me, i don't really complain too much of this situation although sometimes i do felt lonely amongst the sea of my friends with their partners...

I think, keep your mind being positive and also know how to enjoy yourself.

Depending on your interest, you might be better off doing something out of your interest and you will be satisfied

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Oct 6 2009, 02:02 AM

exactly

Thats what i have been wondering too.

Why do TS loves to go clubs to find?

he think its the only place to meet chicks?

Club is definitely not the only place you can find girls.

Probably some people think girls in clubs are hotter?

probably

use internet to find girls!
i found mine via fwenster!

masuk liao, then tat time mau lari keluar pun tak boleh tau tak?

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lol...............u got any facebook or frienster?i see u all looks then judge....not every girl like club' or parties la......lol
good girl dont club and parties,dont u knw tat?

yea... right.. depends how is the mr right act..

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Added on October 6, 2009, 2:14 pmno no no.. not 'dont' good girl some time will go club and parties, just not tat often.

This post has been edited by Vios: Oct 6 2009, 02:14 PM

Well there's always the option to purchase a nubile young bride from overseas...

Probably.

maybe you like men.

TS : dont worry. Those who wait shall be rewarded. Im 22 still not in BRG yet. Im like you, i dont like hanky panky around clubbing and all those nonsense (sorry to those i offend, but i really do find clubbing, postitutes and drinking a total waste of time effort n $$) just to find a girl or get laid for that matter. we have a lot in common i guess.

The important thing to know is, are u happy being single? If you cannot be happy with living by yourself, being independant, how would you expect to be able to live happily attached to another? Being single is fine. But when you genuinely love and care for someone (not coz of ppls pressure or pure loneliness like lots do), then go for it then. Dont worry if ur still unattached.

Yeah some girls want guys with security and all that. But theres still lots of fish in the sea. Some 30+ guys may have teh money and all, but do they have the heart to care and love with all their heart, soul, spirit and strength? I wud say a humble honest simply guy would even be more worthwhile than someone with just $$$. Of course there are pp with both which is good la.

But what u can do now is mingle around, i mean in a proper way la if u really want a nice girl. Go out do stuff together in groups. Get to know more. And also, dont be affraid about pouring out love (as in friendship) love all around. The more u water the plants, the more it grows. And if someone decides to pour love on you, you too will grow. Thats how shud be.

24 and single is not a big issue la unless u want have kids early. Maybe give urself 1 year to find and then see how lor.

This post has been edited by Pinarello: Oct 6 2009, 03:25 PM

im 23 still single.. my situation same as u.. i got 2 buddy which still single too ... although alot of friend invite me to go clubbing most of the time i refuse to go.. because all clubbing relationship is not reality..... so wat's big deal.... lolx.......

IMHO, be yourself. no need to go and pretend that you are a clubbers or anything. Its your personality that attracts the opposite sex, not how you go and pretend with your life. Keep doing what you are doing now. Those that started dating early are what I would say youngsters. Not that all ends in separation but I can confidently put a figure around 50-70% of such relationships to end in bye-bye. Plus there's always a saying that most 30% looks 70% make up. Those you saw in clubs might be a monster after they remove their make up.

Trust yourself. You are unique. And I can say that when you are 30, you'll look more mature and think more maturely, till then those girls who have reached 30 will be at their end wits. Why?

I can tell you that when girls start reaching the age of 25-26, they will start to panic for marriage. But for us guys we won't be bother much by this.

Concentrate on your career, I can tell you that when you are successful to a certain level, girls will be naturally attracted to you. Maybe due to you having a stable career, attitude towards handling things.

You know what. You just took something out of my mouth, in this case fingers. Another friend who is still single went to clubbing a few times. He came back to tell us how good it is in clubs, the girls you meet, the eye candies you get and the girls socialising you can get into. He is currently forcing us to go clubbing once in a while for experience sake, saying that Quattro is a good place to start. We all disagreed but he kept telling us bull shyt about where else can we meet girls if we don't go there. It's not like in libraries or any shopping mall we maybe so lucky to bump into one. He added that when you're on a little alcohol, we might get to say something that may impress the girls there, but I don't like the way he sound. He says that even if he can get one there and get laid, it's fine with him.

I don't agree with this at all. I don't get laid by a certain hottie just because she wears a little lesser than 6 inches and is running around the club 'letting 1/2 a goal' to men there. Seriously, even though I can't find any girls outside does that mean I need to really go to such places and meet up with girls that "I don't really know them"? He even said that clubbing isn't that as bad as we thought and we needed to adjust the mindset that clubbing is not all about bad guys and girls but even good girls frequent there (He seriously thinks so!!!!). When we said we don't like to drink, he will tell us that we are stupid since we will be drinking when we go out to perform business deals or work related stuffs, why not train up now?

Well, a no is a no but I don't know what you guys think but why do I even have to drink now when I don't need to. I still need to keep my liver a live. better if it can hold till the day I am gone. Social drinking is something I don't agree at all and bah, it's his life, not mine.

bro ts i think sooner or later u can get one la ... if can we can enjoy the life for being single if u got partner laio u sure meet single time a lot

meet ur true love better go facebook find or frenster ar not clubbing area (if u want find one night stand ok... ) unless u knew the gul

This post has been edited by destee88: Oct 6 2009, 03:54 PM

Chill bro. Many people treat finding their significant other akin to hunting in the jungle laying traps and setting up base to monitor all the scenes. Even to an animal rights lover that is kinda cruel. Now men are playing the same thing on girls.

Look at it this way and maybe u can rest a little. Finding the one you love doesnt need to be like a hunt. You will get tired of hunting if u keep failing. But i think it shud be treated as you are walking in the woods enjoying the wonderful creations, appreciating life, doing some fun stuff like climbing up the trees and rocks, river crossings, and while you are doing all that fun stuff, u found a really nice beautiful flower. Which is of course a nice pretty lovely girl.

Point is, in lifes journey, as we walk along the path, along the way we meet and cross paths. It may not happen now but it will. Sometimes sooner sometimes later. But until we have yet to meet her, and since we are one the road walking, stop by some hotdog stands or a theme park and have fun since we are currently at this position. Who knows ud be meeting someone screaming in the roller coaster with you while having fun!

True but I don't understand why my other friend acts like this. He always say the same things about going out to meet girls and if not we won't meet any and will turn gay. What is this all about? Clubs, pubs and what so not are only places we can meet girls? Oh please. He's also very proud of being the first among us to have gone clubbing and seen the eye candies that are available there and is always trying to make us go, saying that we won't leave when we go in. Though, his circle of female friends tend to be a little strange. He likes to drink heavy alcohol and he got a circle of female friends that enjoys alcohol too. Strangely, even the girl is attached to someone, the girl dares to go and drink with him alone.