You got any other song to sing onnot?

But I don't read Japanese books, so how? *stalks Map*

To the threadstarter, you can either can your apprehensions and go for girls who are approaching 30 (and in your opinion 'have been played many times') or just import a young virgin from overseas.

Hopefully you're right in this because I sometimes feel lonely when I see my other friends cuddling with their gfs and I am sitting alone.

As for the 4 reasons, they are not excuses. Try being a homey geek for 24 years and you'll understand what I mean, it's like I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't go out late at night, I don't club, I don't dye my hair. Girls at 20s look down on guys like that.

i'm 28.

i dun drink (liquor, wine, beer) much nowadays. my liver can't seem to support it.
i dun smoke much nowadays too. (last time i smoked was 31 august 2008)
i dun go out late at night
i dun club.
i dun dye my hair now. (well 6 years ago i changed the color of my hair 3 times in a month)

i got a girl friend.

maybe you are being desperate?

Well, at least you were that kind of guy before. I never being such a kind of guy and girls think that I am *****.

well i would say that you simply have not met the right girl yet.

keep meeting more girls!

being homey (like to stay at home) is not a sin!

You kena reject, cause its obvious to the girl you have no balls.

Well that's what I always think too but I don't know why some girls like to think that a man's manliness is based on how bad he went during his 20s. I don't like how they view guys that way but there's no way for me to alter their perspective.

@redracer2004:
how old are you now ar?

have tried using THE FIVE on some girls yet?

Be yourself la bro. If you want to change your attitude just to get some attention from girls, how long can you live under your masqurade? Im 29 and still single too, if girls wont accept me for who I am, so be it. If i was destined by the Lord to live a solitary life, so be it. If I was doomed to f*ck my left palm until I die, so be it. If cant stop the urge, there's always Pros that willing to bend to your desires.

So be it...

This sounds right except for wanking with the left hand thing. I don't wank or whatever you call it. Although a single and solitary life maybe be a bit lonely but I can still enjoy my hobbies for now.

forget about it, work out yourself get yourself into something useful whatever it takes, girl will eventually fall for you if you really doing something with focus mind!

u mean u dun wank??? huh:

oh my... TS, i does not mean u r not good or ask u change but life is only 1 and time flies and u can never get it back.

Be more adventuruos and start oging out for more adventure, take some trip to diving, rock climbing, others stuff like travelling to get to know more people and hang out with them. A geek is a geek but there is difference in how u want to be.. a samrt geek or a noob geek...

it is up to ur decision ts.

By the way, i start dating at 16, and now also have gf but is my 5th one.

Sometimes, u thought it is good in having one gf but dun have one just for the sake for having one.

Maybe that's ur problem. Ur lack of confidence is because you don't wank. Somebody said something like that in the Girl's club forums i believe.

So start WANKING!!!

Careful, u don't want to turn him into........

Unbelievable,how can a guy dont wank?

I thought statistics says that all guys wank and almost all the girls wank.The only difference is whether they say: " I wank and im proud of it" or "Nope,i dont wank".

turn him into a normal guy?

hmm wanking is not good if you have a weak kidney ...

i stopped wanking to preserve my life span ...

Dont see whats wrong with that.

So,guys,you know what to do.

Although I know wanking has the good side, I don't like doing it. If a girl wants to do it for me, fine, if not, no self servicing myself. I am too geeky and homey and that's why girls don't like me. Sad