True but I don't understand why my other friend acts like this. He always say the same things about going out to meet girls and if not we won't meet any and will turn gay. What is this all about? Clubs, pubs and what so not are only places we can meet girls? Oh please. He's also very proud of being the first among us to have gone clubbing and seen the eye candies that are available there and is always trying to make us go, saying that we won't leave when we go in. Though, his circle of female friends tend to be a little strange. He likes to drink heavy alcohol and he got a circle of female friends that enjoys alcohol too. Strangely, even the girl is attached to someone, the girl dares to go and drink with him alone.

True but I don't understand why my other friend acts like this. He always say the same things about going out to meet girls and if not we won't meet any and will turn gay. What is this all about? Clubs, pubs and what so not are only places we can meet girls? Oh please. He's also very proud of being the first among us to have gone clubbing and seen the eye candies that are available there and is always trying to make us go, saying that we won't leave when we go in. Though, his circle of female friends tend to be a little strange. He likes to drink heavy alcohol and he got a circle of female friends that enjoys alcohol too. Strangely, even the girl is attached to someone, the girl dares to go and drink with him alone.

Id say that actually inside him he is one lonely soul. Just tat he goes to these places to fill up and forget the loneliness by occupying himself with as much entertainment as possible. He can brag all he wants and put up a brave and excited mask. But i sense in him his life has lots of missing things. Essential missing things.

Sad to hear this news all round, reality now is twisted to them.

He will wake up one day and realize what he is doing or has done was purely meaningless. whether its 6 years or 60 years down the road.

Sorry to hear this abt your friend.

Me and 2 of my friends are now 24 and we still don't have / never had a gf before. Do you guys/girls think this could be a problem or do we still have lots of chances in the future? According to some people, girls nowadays are starting relationships early, around during school days 16-18 age and by the time we, 24 -25 age meet them in their 21-24, they're already taken and are in a stable relationship. Do you guys/girls think this is true?

Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too  'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue?

Do give me some feedback on this.

as a human being we need to look beyond, if opportunity doesn't come to you, then you have to look for it, it can be somewhere around you but in heavily disguised form. If you think your job is bored and not suit you, then change it while you still young; at the same time, invest your leisure time properly, go for some activities which you have never tried before, even though it means you have to do it alone, just do it!

who knows by discovering more into unknown realm, you will find the hidden opportunities. If you can worry about not getting a gf, then I guess your financial status isn't bad, in that case, you should carefully invest in your time to discover more about yourself and the world, without getting drown in jobs that you don't like for the sake of money. If your family depends on you as their sole breadwinner, then it's another story, and you shouldn't worry about not getting a gf already

poor TS, some one volunteer be his gf lar...

nop .. it's not true.  Certain percentage may be only.  For me myself, i'm owned but i'm still waiting for the Mr. Right to come for the rescue.

wat the problem? wat the problem? why kenot get girl girl? SHy? low self-esteem? wat wat?

let me rescue u.. btw fyi, m not a fire rescue officer..

Not shy, Not Low Self Esteem but girls don't like to talk with me. Don't know why, after a while, if they sense I got intention to chase them, they evade me or ignore me. SIGH!

Aiseh....1 question first, U good looking or not? Im not being nasty. Trying to gauge the situation.