QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 6 2009, 03:44 PM)
You know what. You just took something out of my mouth, in this case fingers. Another friend who is still single went to clubbing a few times. He came back to tell us how good it is in clubs, the girls you meet, the eye candies you get and the girls socialising you can get into. He is currently forcing us to go clubbing once in a while for experience sake, saying that Quattro is a good place to start. We all disagreed but he kept telling us bull shyt about where else can we meet girls if we don't go there. It's not like in libraries or any shopping mall we maybe so lucky to bump into one. He added that when you're on a little alcohol, we might get to say something that may impress the girls there, but I don't like the way he sound. He says that even if he can get one there and get laid, it's fine with him.
I don't agree with this at all. I don't get laid by a certain hottie just because she wears a little lesser than 6 inches and is running around the club 'letting 1/2 a goal' to men there. Seriously, even though I can't find any girls outside does that mean I need to really go to such places and meet up with girls that "I don't really know them"? He even said that clubbing isn't that as bad as we thought and we needed to adjust the mindset that clubbing is not all about bad guys and girls but even good girls frequent there (He seriously thinks so!!!!). When we said we don't like to drink, he will tell us that we are stupid since we will be drinking when we go out to perform business deals or work related stuffs, why not train up now?
Well, a no is a no but I don't know what you guys think but why do I even have to drink now when I don't need to. I still need to keep my liver a live. better if it can hold till the day I am gone. Social drinking is something I don't agree at all and bah, it's his life, not mine.
Chill bro. Many people treat finding their significant other akin to hunting in the jungle laying traps and setting up base to monitor all the scenes. Even to an animal rights lover that is kinda cruel. Now men are playing the same thing on girls.
Look at it this way and maybe u can rest a little. Finding the one you love doesnt need to be like a hunt. You will get tired of hunting if u keep failing. But i think it shud be treated as you are walking in the woods enjoying the wonderful creations, appreciating life, doing some fun stuff like climbing up the trees and rocks, river crossings, and while you are doing all that fun stuff, u found a really nice beautiful flower. Which is of course a nice pretty lovely girl.
Point is, in lifes journey, as we walk along the path, along the way we meet and cross paths. It may not happen now but it will. Sometimes sooner sometimes later. But until we have yet to meet her, and since we are one the road walking, stop by some hotdog stands or a theme park and have fun since we are currently at this position. Who knows ud be meeting someone screaming in the roller coaster with you while having fun!