QUOTE(rkkyong @ Nov 9 2009, 11:22 AM)
I sort of know that . Well my toilet training is not exactly successful.
Max is being trained to pee and poop on a tray. Please advise me if I am doing it correctly. At regular intervals and after meals, he will be brought to a confined area where the tray is placed to pee and poop. Eventually I hope he will know to go there on his own, without the need for the "fencing" to confine him to the tray. I have tried removing the "fencing" but there have been accidents !! Maybe I will try again in a few weeks ' time !!
Anyway, on Friday night (after complaint), I sort of built a "bungalow" in front of my house. It consisted of 5 pcs of play pen . Within the perimeter , I placed a dog crate (with door removed) and the pee/poo tray. My wife and I peeped a few times throughout the night and saw Max going in and out of the crate. He ended up sleeping in the open. He also "kicked" his koala bear and toys out of the crate. He made a bit of noise that night (just soem sounds every few hours) as he was not used to it. Damn stressful man as I was worried that it will disturb teh neighbours
Anyway, we put him back into his 3 foot cage to sleep the next night and he slept thru the night. I dare not let loose in the hse as yet as he will chew my stuff and is also not fully toilet trained.
I guess I will have to delay getting another dog for the time being . Phobia already !!

Yeah, maybe you could let your neighbor know that you're in the midst of training Max now, so they would have to put up with his 'crying' for a while.
I think what you're doing is fine...when he has consistently done his business on the tray in a confined area, you could slowly open it and keep an eye on him. Whenever he starts showing signs that he wants to go, just point him to the correct place to pee/poo. That's what I did with Scottie...

When I see that he wants to pee, I tell him to 'Wait' (and he does wait! LOL!) and bring him to the tray and encourage him to do it there. When he does, I praise him madly and sometimes he gets a treat

Oh, Max's play pen is outside the house? Maybe that's why he's crying, coz he's more used to being inside? Or you could also give him an old shirt of yours that has your scent, so that he doesn't feel so alone. Give him time...he will get used to sleeping by himself. Scottie doesn't like to sleep on beds too..he prefers to sleep on the marble floor, even though I've bought a nice bed for him